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Blocking guests
Ok so I was just looking at some of my different block lists, and I was thinking maybe I am being too harsh on some people, and embarrassing to admit, but a little paranoid about who I block. Some guys have messaged me asking what they did wrong, and while most deserve to be blocked, I am wondering if I am just blocking people because I can, because they annoy me? Most guys annoy me, but I have to look at what I am doing, and say ok, this is just how they are. Some guys don't mean to be annoying, they just are this way, and can't help it!
On the flip side, I do have a reason to block a lot of guys. I use to escort and there is a photographer that I worked with long ago, who keeps following me from site to site. He uses different names, but can never help but to reveal himself in some sort of way. He is always being aggressive in my free chat rooms, and mentioning what I did to the room. I have to constantly block him. Then I have a few guys who I think saw me a long time ago who have found me on the net, and ask me "Do you still meet guys for money?" They are never discreet and send a private message. Always in my free chat room.
I just want to know what you think. Am I acting paranoid? I wont be offended if you say I am just being lame, I swear! LOL, I just thought maybe I am blocking a few too many people just because I can..
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i use the kick button for the dudes who just annoy me and the block button for the truly rude or crude.
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At first I would use the block button. Lately I have been using the kick button. I think I am getting annoyed to easily, so I am going to try and work on dealing with different personalities.
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The site I spend most of my time on (streamate) I've never blocked anyone....not a single guy in over a year. I use the kick button about once every 4-5 shifts.
I guess I have a lot of patience with annoying guys lol. Usually, if someone is being pushy or annoying, I just tell 'em how it is & if they don't like it they can go pester someone else. A lot of the annoying guys I've come across have turned out to be pretty big spenders.
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just ignore the annoying ones
I block the ones that don't go away after I ignore them
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Ok ladies. I think I definitely am being too mean. I just started on streamate, and I think I just have not been as patient as I should be. Sometimes I'm super nice, and other times I think I am waiting for someone to act up lol. I will try using the kick button instead of block. Thanks for your input :)
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baby, the beauty of camming is- THIS IS YOUR WORLD!!! you can ban who ever the hell you want and you dont have to have a reason- you are god of your chat room. be who you are
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you can just do what i do which is completely ignore them as if they dont exist. most guys who enter chat rooms just to be annoying are simply attention seekers.
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Your right, I think I take it too serious sometimes!