so over the cheap stage tippers!!
I was sitting with this regular for about a half hour in the beginning of my shift today. I had problems with him before because he told me he was a man of God and goes to church twice a week. I'd dance for him thinking he was a nice respectful man of God, but eventually he told me he could not dance with me unless I did extra. HELL NO! I am the cleanest girl my club has, and men offer me money for sex all the time and i say "hell no!' So I quit talking to him for months. He then came up to me about a month ago and apologized and said he would respect me for being strictly a dancer. I danced for him again and he was well behaved. After that I always said hello to him, and when he wanted to dance with me again I let him know my dances have not changed and that I am a Christian just as he says he is one. We did a couple of songs and we parted on good terms.
Today he came in and I invited him to sit with me. We talked or a while and he insisted that someday he will catch me when I am vulnerable and he will have his way for me. He offered me $1000 to have sex with me and I told him "You know guys offer me $1000 for sex all the time, the fact is I am OK and I am not that desperate to sell myself for a lousy $1000." So he said, "Well how about I get a dollars worth off you?" I said, "OK here let me give you my finger nail clipping." The DJ called me on stage and I absolutely hate going on stage, but I told him that he needed to get a dance from me to save me from the torture of a stage rotation. He told me "You need to go make money get up there, and I'll get my dollar worth." I walked away and this fool seriously came to my stage and threw down a single dollar bill and walked away. I thought it was extremely rude. When I was done with my set I took the dollar and handed it back at him. I said nothing. He was in shock and said, "Really? Really?" He didn't know what to say. He approached me before he left and said, "I didn't realize I was going to piss you off." I said, "Oh no sweety, you might not have thought about your actions, but you really should take a minute to think about how rude that was." He said it was supposed to be a joke. I said, "I understand you were joking, but I have to get totally nude and honestly $1 is an insult, put yourself in my shoes and imagine exposing yourself for a $1." Then he said "Well...I was going to get a dance from you until you did that." I said, "That's fine, don't worry about it, I am really not that upset I am just trying to make a point and I think I have gotten that through you to, I will see you next time." And then he left.
I just really have no tolerance for cheap stage tippers. Atleast $1 a song is appropriate. I have decided that from now on cheap stage tippers are getting the money back to them.
Especially there are lots of girls at my club who climb over the tip rail and let customers touch them and basically get a free dance from the stage. I refuse to do that. I dance on the stage and I stay on the right side of the tip rail. I also had a guy a few months back who tipped me $2 and when I collected the money from him he said, "You didn't show shit." But there I was completely naked infront of him! I took the $2 and said, "oh really here I am totally naked infront of you, and that's not enough? I'm sorry would you like your money back?"
I'm just over the cheap guys, and I am not tolerating it anymore.
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That guy sounds like the biggest Christian hypocrite. I hate hypocrites. I once worked at a club full of cheap guys. These guys would come in for free, sit at the stage and not tip at all. So I started not dancing when they were there. I'd sit on the stage or walk around the stage. No way was I taking off my top for no money. I got yelled at because of this and ended up quitting but I didn't care. I don't dance for guys not tipping (and I should point out none of the guys in the club were tippers and were all low class scum).
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^ I'm glad we aren't required anywhere I work to take anything off. If they are being cheap ( like if there is one -two guys there not tipping anything ), I won't take anything off .
No tipping- no stripping !
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Same here!!! What about guys holdin a dollar forever??? Even i do tricks for them they dont wanna give their damn dollars right away... How long i should suppose to wait for a damn dollar? fuck that i hate cheap asses.... If they dont wanna spend money wtf are they lookin for at strip club???
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Sucks that you even have to tolerate it enough to continue to talk to this guy and say you'll see him next time.
I really love working in a thong because I really don't care about not getting tipped on stage. And customers are seeing the same thing anyone on a European beach sees, so I feel really comfortable. I really don't think I could ever dance nude personally, I'm too much of a bitch. Lucky for me I live somewhere that that's an option :-/
I had to stop working Saturdays because we get too many cheap douchebags like this and it's not worth my sanity. I'm sorry to hear what kind of situation many dancers find themselves in these days :(
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Another disgusting thing is ...When i walk around the bar some customers touch my butt... they dont even tip me or buy dances but they wanna touch regardless...
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cheap stage tippers are one thing, but that guy is far from just a cheap stage tipper. he's a worthless asshole. he's too used to "good christian" women being all subservient and shit. i wouldn't even waste my time on him.
i've learned the more conservative guys (political or religious or even just social) almost always expect more bang for their buck than the more liberal guys. not interested, thanks.
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I remember there was a club in MD (Canton Inn,I believe?) that had signs EVERYWHERE stating: "If you don't plan on tipping,stay at the bar. Don't even come CLOSE to the stage." Or something along those lines.
I think it's BS how many guys wanna a free,up close show. I mean,really,if a dollar is TOO much to see a hot,naked girl right in front of you,then you shouldn't have spent that $10 on that bucket of beer.
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not only is he a cheap tipper but hes a waste of time,,
you could have used that half hour to hustle someone else.
i understand about giving his dollar back i would have probably been pissed about it but id probably end up keepin it,,
however i wouldnt be dancing for him,,
if he still wanted to put that dollar down for me fine,,
but theres no way id sit right in front of him,,take off my clothes and dance.
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Assholesss thats making me angry and not wanna go work honestly....
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Uh-oh - don't tell me it's getting like the UK over there?! Tipping is the exception rather than the norm over here and it's topless on stage and one of my all time top hates has to be those cheap gys who just sit by the stage all ngiht enjoying the free show. We have a lot of those.
My way of dealing with that was to make sure i kept my top on as long as possible and if necessary explain to guys that dancing on stage doesn't earn us money, we earn our wage by lapdancing and if they would like a particular dancer then i would fetch them for them. This would then be followed by a constant parade of dancers using the "want a dance?" interruption technique untilt hey either leave or have a dance.
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cheap stage tippers are one thing, but that guy is far from just a cheap stage tipper. he's a worthless asshole. he's too used to "good christian" women being all subservient and shit. i wouldn't even waste my time on him.
i've learned the more conservative guys (political or religious or even just social) almost always expect more bang for their buck than the more liberal guys. not interested, thanks.
Yep. There was a "moral values" politician here who used to frequent the clubs. He would always try to get the girls to go back with him. Total sleaze. He's now deceased and he was a disgusting guy. I would mention the name of the politician because many have heard of him but being deceased I probably shouldn't.