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Menage a trois: Oui ou non?
I've been having threesomes with him and so far it has gone pretty well. The girl is a sweetie pie and has a really cute pussy, plus she is very smart and I can actually talk to her. All in all a very pleasant experience.
I understand that this is not for everyone. You have to have trust in the relationship, which until recently was an issue in mine. I don't recommend the use of threesomes as a band aid approach to save a relationship that is already troubled. It's going to fuck things up, in my experience.
Good/bad experiences? Pros/cons? Absolutely fantastic stories of unbridled lust and debauchery? }:D
I met her at my new club. She was immediately interested in both of us. We went and hung out at a rib place/pool hall to get to know each other. She's really smart and lived in Thailand for a year.
Skip to Friday. We couldn't keep our hands (or tongues) off each other at work. I told her that I was abducting her for the night. She consented. At the Wawa, I kissed her, she kissed me, he kissed her and me, people were staring it was fucking great.
At the house things got out of control REAL quick. We were 69'ing while he watched. Then Chris joined in and started fucking me while I ate her out. She is a screamer. Then he fucked her doggy while she ate my pussy. OMFG she gave me a mind blowing orgasm. We went at it till 6am, when we fell asleep butt ass nekkid in bed together. He came back from early morning errands and we repeated the process! :D
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I have to admit you write great porn and that whole scenario sounds fun. Having said that, I once had a threesome with an exboyfriend. He was an emotionally abusive asshole (I love we can swear here) who thought I was a whore anyway so once he found out I had sex with a friend of his, he wanted the three of us to engage in a threesome. In this case I knew I didn't love him, and knew it wasn't a forever thing so I was fine with it. The rest of my threesomes (or more) were always situations where I was at most casually dating someone, or more likely a FWB.
Would I have a threesome with a partner now? Depends on the situation. If it was a casual thing perhaps. If it was a serious partner no way. I have jealousy issues and can't share someone I really love.
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tempest666
I've been having threesomes with him and so far it has gone pretty well. The girl is a sweetie pie and has a really cute pussy, plus she is very smart and I can actually talk to her. All in all a very pleasant experience.
I understand that this is not for everyone. You have to have trust in the relationship, which until recently was an issue in mine. I don't recommend the use of threesomes as a band aid approach to save a relationship that is already troubled. It's going to fuck things up, in my experience.
Good/bad experiences? Pros/cons? Absolutely fantastic stories of unbridled lust and debauchery? }:D
! :D
My experiences, sex was great. After effects on the relationship, no so much. Worth it? Damn right....}:D
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Have had many ffm threesomes and never had any sort of bad fallout or weirdness after, even when they have been with long term girlfriends.
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I wouldn't be interested in doing it with anyone I was commited to long term, it's definately not for me...
THAT SAID. I've participated in my share of them... I find, for the most part... that they're more annoying than anything. There must be too much going on for most people to handle because no one's ever been able to get me off during such an encounter.
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Kellydancer
Would I have a threesome with a partner now? Depends on the situation. If it was a casual thing perhaps. If it was a serious partner no way. I have jealousy issues and can't share someone I really love.
Oh, I have jealousy issues believe me. For some reason, they don't extend to threesomes. Maybe because I'm enjoying myself equally, so I'm not too focused on other things.
In a non strip club or non threesome related capacity I am one jealous little bitch. This is incredibly sophomoric but some little bitch on Myspace was sending him flirty pic comments. I fucking chewed her ass out with comments such as "You can stop ogling my boyfriend now, you fucking fat skank" and threatening to put a virtual foot up her ass. ::) Yes, I can be extremely territorial when it suits me.
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My husband and I had ONE threesome years ago,when our relationship was really strong and I KNEW I had no jealousy issues at the time. It didn't bother me when he would fuck her or go down on her or she would go down on him. But after the first few times,the girl started trying to push ME out and wanted MY husband for herself. That's when I laughed at her and we ended it.
Nowadays (4 years later) would I do another one? HELL NO. And it mostly has to do with where our relationship is.
Now,I have been the "other girl" in 3sums plenty of times...and no matter what the situation, it never seemed to happen more than once or twice b/c the girlfriend/wife had jealousy/security issues regarding her man. (which I NEVER wanted their man like that. EVER) So,of course,being married now,I don't do that anymore either...and if I was single again,I don't think I'd do it then either.
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I need to amend my statement above. I had one situation that got a little tense, but that was a threesome involving a girlfriend and an ex-girlfriend. True story.
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^^^^^^^ who mopped up the blood and guts?:D
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It was a little weird. I was 25 and hadn't grown a conscience yet. Worst part was, I dumped my girlfriend and got back together with the ex about 3 days after the threesome.
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I've never had one. It's number one on my bucket list though. :)
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love them!
i like either two bi guys (at least orally bi) or me, my guy and another bi girl. totally different experiences. two guys and im like a total porn chick. ffm and i'm totally girl nuts, but less porn like. I tend to take a more domme position with other chicks and more sub with 2 guys(i only do two guys when one is my guy and he and i are in a D/s thing).
wouldnt do a random one though, of either variation. I want one of them to be someone i am close to.
havent really had any "bad" experiences. some better than others though.
i love them, but you definitely cant be the jealous or insecure type to do them. larger groups are less threatening than 3-somes for people, in my experience anyway.
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I had it bad for this young guy (FWB) a few years back.
On one Halloween, I met up with him and his friend and he ASKED ME if I would have a three-some with him and his friend and I did. THEN he got a little attitude about it and his friend started having feelings for me :O
Long story short, it turned into a situation where we all ended up having feelings for one another, even to this day. I do question whether or not he and his friend have feelings for "each other" if you get my meaning....and THAT'S why I am not with either of them....:thinking:
OH the shit I get myself into...:D
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not my thing, but i'll fantasize about it plenty. way too jealous to ever try it.
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nicole84
love them!
i like either two bi guys (at least orally bi) or me, my guy and another bi girl. totally different experiences. two guys and im like a total porn chick. ffm and i'm totally girl nuts, but less porn like. I tend to take a more domme position with other chicks and more sub with 2 guys(i only do two guys when one is my guy and he and i are in a D/s thing).
wouldnt do a random one though, of either variation. I want one of them to be someone i am close to.
havent really had any "bad" experiences. some better than others though.
i love them, but you definitely cant be the jealous or insecure type to do them. larger groups are less threatening than 3-somes for people, in my experience anyway.
This is something I never understood...a woman that wants 2 bi guys & herself. I have talked to a few women that like this so it must be semi-normal. I want to be the only cock in the room but thats me..& I will say I never pushed my girl to have another girl.
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unbeleavable
This is something I never understood...a woman that wants 2 bi guys & herself. I have talked to a few women that like this so it must be semi-normal. I want to be the only cock in the room but thats me..& I will say I never pushed my girl to have another girl.
if you were bi, you might get it ;)
actually, i know lots of straight guys that like being in a mmf 3-some. They enjoy the visuals and enjoy activities like DP/DV/airtight, etc.
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nicole84
if you were bi, you might get it ;)
This is something every straight person on here needs to read. It drives me nuts when all these straight girls are all like Ewww, why would you let a guy brainwash you into having a 3-some? Uh, yeah, it required a lot of arm twisting to get me to agree to find a hot chick to have sex with....and yeah, it's so NOT a huge bonus to have him agree to be there to fuck too. Yep, lotsa arm twisting involved there. ::) Actually I'm pretty sure I was probably the one that brought it up first.
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The part I don't understand is the 2 guys sucking each other..not the 3 or more people.
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unbeleavable
The part I don't understand is the 2 guys sucking each other..not the 3 or more people.
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unbeleavable
The part I don't understand is the 2 guys sucking each other..not the 3 or more people.
Uhhh, not to be a smart ass, but once again, if you were bi you might get it. I've had a lot of straight women ask me how I could go down on another girl....easy, I'm attracted to women. If you were attracted to men, maybe sucking a cock would sound pretty nice to you. ;)
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I actually found my past relationships with truly bisexual women to be some of the healthiest ones I've ever had.
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AngelKing
I actually found my past relationships with truly bisexual women to be some of the healthiest ones I've ever had.
Yep, not suprised. Not trying to say we are all like this, but I think bi women in general are less jealous. I mean, how can I get mad at my guy for staring at a hot chick, when I'm staring too? It's just a fun little thing to do together! I like pussy, he likes pussy, it's all good. I'm certain I'm his fav little slut and that is all that matters to me. ;D
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Yep, not suprised. Not trying to say we are all like this, but I think bi women in general are less jealous. I mean, how can I get mad at my guy for staring at a hot chick, when I'm staring too? It's just a fun little thing to do together! I like pussy, he likes pussy, it's all good. I'm certain I'm his fav little slut and that is all that matters to me. ;D
Just trying to understand..which I may never but would you be OK if he liked to suck dick?
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unbeleavable
Just trying to understand..which I may never but would you be OK if he liked to suck dick?
I think so. I've never been attracted to a bi guy though, so hard to say for certain. I like my men to be masculine (can't stand pretty boys or fem looking guys) and my women super girly. It would be hard for me if he wanted to bring a guy into the equation though, because I have major trust issues with men due to some past violence and absolutely do not ever sleep with anyone I don't care about and trust completely.
Oh, and just wondering, do you find the idea of a woman giving oral to another woman just as confounding, or is it just with men? Most men seem to like the idea of two women together, but from your posts I didn't really get a vibe that you were into that either.
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princessjas
Uhhh, not to be a smart ass, but once again, if you were bi you might get it. I've had a lot of straight women ask me how I could go down on another girl....easy, I'm attracted to women. If you were attracted to men, maybe sucking a cock would sound pretty nice to you. ;)
I'm straight but I can see why a woman would go down on a woman or why a man would go down on a man. I don't find it gross and firmly believe in the desert island idea (that is to say if we were on a deserted island with the same sex anyone would eventually have sex with them).
Interestingly, I've always wanted to see two guys together. The one guy who wants to be my FWB tells me he's bi and would love to have oral with a man in front of me. In romantic relationships I tend to prefer somewhat feminine guys.