do stripper outfits hurt your vagina?
ok im way too scared to ask this to people in person, but whenever i wear tight stripper bottoms, especially the boyshort kind, my bottoms ride up during lap dances and hurts, thongs hurt too, basically anything that isnt a granny panty hurts. but every other girl seems to wear tiny tiny underwear. do i just have an oddly shaped vagina? serious question.
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Maybe you need wider thongs? I'm not sure how to solve the boyshort issue, I never wear them anymore.
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huh ive never really had that problem maybe your grinding too hard? not trying to be rude ive just never heard ne one day that b4 but i kno some times if i have a good night and sell tons of ld's my coochie hurts from grinding lol
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Sounds like you need some larger bottoms! I have that issue if mine are too small.
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Have you tried grinding with your ass cheek instead of directly using your crotch? (Serious suggestion)
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try a wider thong, or some panty-style bottoms, or a t-back and a skirt?
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I have this problem too - I work in a nude club though so I just take them off when they start to ride. I don't think you have a weirdly shaped vag - probably just a sensitive one.
Maybe switch up the material of the underwear you're using. If it's softer it may cause more discomfort. Otherwise I would suggest the same as Charlie said and try to grind differently.
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No cant say it hurts me. Maybe try lace? I mostly wear lace g-strings.
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The nylon type most girls wear can sometimes bother me a bit, tbh. Normal cotton-crotched panties saved my stripping career. Lol.
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^ Cotton is a life saver. Thankfully Victoria's Secret and La Senza both make sexy cotton panties now.
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lagirl
ok im way too scared to ask this to people in person, but whenever i wear tight stripper bottoms, especially the boyshort kind, my bottoms ride up during lap dances and hurts, thongs hurt too, basically anything that isnt a granny panty hurts. but every other girl seems to wear tiny tiny underwear. do i just have an oddly shaped vagina? serious question.
lol that is a funny question but i can understand where u are coming from. it doesnt hurt me. maybe you are grinding too hard? i find that when i grind it'll feel more uncomofrtable. oooh i also find that when i wear vinyl g strings it doesnt hurt and it also forms a thicker barrier between me and the customer as well more so than cotton would.
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Yes. I have this problem, too, and definitely not from grinding because it's a problem I experience in "real life." Boyshorts are more of a problem because most of the time they have a seam down the middle, which presses uncomfortably on my privates as the sides ride way up. For me, it's probably a tightness issue, because I'm known for the ampleness of my behind.
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IDk how to describe it, i think it just rides up and starts to go inside and thats where it starts hurting . I have a "fat" vagina so maybe thats the problem. It's not from grinding since I dont really grind much and i definately dont grind with my vagina. that would be super painful! If i go any bigger the underwear would look way too big on me
someone sugested a tback. those hurt me!
here is an image of a tback i found on google. see how it rides up into the butt? that hurts for me because then its also tight around the genital area. it rides up and digs into the area between my butt and my genitals. it also hurts my butt.
this is the most painful looking of all though. i see a lot of girls wearing stuff like this, and whenever i wear boyshorts im always pulling it out of my vagina, it rides up whenever i sit down. other girls dont seem to get it digging in though! i dont get why! just looking at that photo makes my vagina hurt.
I usually wear victoria's secret panty or (bikini style, REALLY conservative bikini style) but all their sizes run super big and i end up being the only stripper who looks like shes wearing granny panties when really shes wearing a size XS. then i see all the other girls wearing these itty bitty boyshorts and tiny panties that lets their ass hang out and idk how they do it. when i wear stuff like that not only does it hurt, but it rides up on stage and im always afraid my vagina is showing.
basically anything that rides into my ass cheeks hurt. so i am barely ever able to wear real "stripper bottoms"
i mostly end up wearing this stuff which i feel might be hurting my money since its not flattering on my ass .
yes harlequim that is exactly what im talking about with the boyshorts. but i see girls wear it for the entire shift with no problems. wtffff
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Have you thought of getting any thing made of spandex or lycra. That stuff tends to stay in place and stretches nicely. I know cotton underwear is better to prevent UTIs and yeast infections, but I think as long as you just wear them for work... You shouldn't have any problems. If you sweat alot, just keep an extra pair to change into.
I wear the boyshorts and bikini cut underwear from the Victoria Secret Pink collection at work. They are usually the ones that don't provide as much coverage as a basic version of those styles. I will purposely give myself a wedgey on stage and during dances so men don't complain about me not wearing a thong. Then when I am done I straighten them out and they are much more comfortable than a thong. I hate thongs. I don't wear them unless they are for a photoshoot, or I am wearing sheer fabrics, which I rarely do. I refuse to wear something that amounts to a string riding up my ass for 6-8 hours. Management hasn't complained and I have been working since last November. I used to get customer complaints when I wore the booty shorts that covered up everything that little tiny bit of cheek that would hang out. I also had some asshole tell me I was wearing granny panties when I was wearing the boyshorts that give more coverage. Granny panties are those big cotton elastic waist monstrosities that cover up your belly button and don't show any of your ass at all. I haven't had any complaints for months. I think one guy who I did dance with remembered the booty shorts I used to wear. He did admit it was an improvement but still had wished I wore a thong. I was just like "oh well."
This is another one of those things where the men can go fuck themselves. It is never enough. They don't care if you're topless, they want to see what you're not showing. They need to quit being cheap and go to the fully nude clubs. I have the type of ass that I find is more flattering wearing panties with a little more coverage. I love how the fabric hugs my firm booty and kinda pushes it up even more. Lol if that makes any sense.
I think those bikini bottoms you posted look cute. If you are worried about your money, just do what I do and ride them up on purpose for a small amount of time. I have not made a difference in money with what I used to do. I find the men that give us the most bullshit about something we are wearing/doing/saying are the ones who don't even tip or buy dances anyway. They just around drinking beer and trying to take us down a peg.
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yeah, i hate most stripperwear.
it's all tight around the crotch, and uncomfortable, and it bothers me as well.
i tend to get more yeast infections, etc. when i have to wear thongs. i have started to just wear my bikini bathing suit into work.... especially if you get a brazilian-cut bottom, it's super cute, but not so tight on the cooch. helps a lot!
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I dont generally get this but I do understand what you mean as I have when my panties/thong have ridden up or theyve got a seam that rides up thats really annoying and maybe youre extra sensitive or your build encourages panties to ride up. Youre just going to stay on the look out for soft/stretchy and seam free panties the lycra suggestion is a good one I think they make a sort of spongy lycra style thongs I cant think of the company but I have seen them on a few websites have a look around
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I only have that problem if I do layers. Like 2 thongs and booty shorts.
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Have you tried a traditional bikini bottom with a seam in the butt? It doesn't ride up your ass, but it shows the shape of your but rather than flattening it.
http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...QQnLMIBzwDV-c=
This will cover your crotch, be easy to put on and take off, and should be relatively comfy:) They feel like granny panties, but if they were a bit bunched into your butt (not painfully). I'm totally a bikini/briefs kind of girl when I'm not working.
http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...0aOnOS11UW09o=
Try to go for bright colors rather than black or dark purple/blue, because you want the customers to be able to see the shape of your butt that the seam creates.
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ooo Otoki that first pict is hottt! I may go out and get some of those! VS has them now.
I wear VS "the lacey thong". These are the BEST thongs I've found and am in LOVE with them, both for work and outside of work. They're fantastic.
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OMG read the title of this and laughed. lol too funny!! ive never had an outfit hurt my vaginaaaa. but I know there are some crazy outfits out there. if they r hurting you then u need some new outfits. there is an endless supply of online store for your stripper needs.
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Oh I am with you! I have a "fat" vagina too and I have never found a comfortable gstring.
We have to wear boyshorts during lapdances at my club but while I'm walking around I wear a full thong, if you know what I mean. If the thong goes up my butt but is VISIBLE in my crack, it's way more comfortable.
Unfortunately our genetics just mean that we can't wear teenie weenie panties. I hate tbacks and "whale tails" too, they're just mad uncomfortable.
I'm glad I'm not the only one! the triangle on a gstring will not even cover my whole pubic area.