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"they want the skinniest girls with biggest tits"
is what one of cam customers told me when i said i was thinking about transitioning to dancing... but then he went on to say that hed buy a dance from me... it was annoying as helll... i have 36 c tits and im down to 160 pounds ... im going to get very toned before i attempt stripping... so that i know i have to do and you dont need to tell me cause im on that :P but anything else i should switch up about my look..? i know i know im one of those girls lol.. but seriously there are some awesomely successful ladies on here.. what do you think"? picture whoring below ;D
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Re: "they want the skinniest girls with biggest tits"
You're basing this off one cam customer that doesn't know any better?
I dont see why people need to ask, you saw the various of girls here, from smaller to bigger frame its their hussle that plays strongly in the long-term.
So if you start stripping, you dont need to be one of "the skinniest girls with bigger tits".
Learn and you'll do fine, dont take anything seriously what a moron says.
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you seem to be asking us whether your body is ok to strip yet i see one myspace angle picture of your body in a dress, 2 myspace type screenshots of your tits up, and 1 screenshot with a sweet 1-up hat. So im not sure how you expect us to tell your fortune as a stripper from these pictures.
and what kisca said.
but really, i see youve been on here since may. im sure youve seen enough of this post already. your question has already been answered so unless it is something specific about YOUR body which you havent even put up here clearly enough to be critiqued, then this whole thing is redundant.
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Originally Posted by
Kisca
You're basing this off one cam customer that doesn't know any better?
I dont see why people need to ask, you saw the various of girls here, from smaller to bigger frame its their hussle that plays strongly in the long-term.
So if you start stripping, you dont need to be one of "the skinniest girls with bigger tits".
Learn and you'll do fine, dont take anything seriously what a moron says.
well i dont normally listen to anything cam custys say but i suppose this one hit home... especially because hes a regular and a internet friend.. i wasnt really asking if i should strip or not... just for suggestions on how better myself from girls who know the business.. thanks for the advice tho.
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i realize that came across as harsh. you should probably ignore my harsh tone. and your cam customers rude comments. people on the internet suck :P.
also i dont do camming, but general rule with men in general- if they put you down by saying most men wont like you but then try to save by saying they specifically like you its a. abusive behavior and b. because they want you to feel insecure and c. so you will think they are special and that you need them and d. because they want more out of you.
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Athenathefabulous
you seem to be asking us whether your body is ok to strip yet i see one myspace angle picture of your body in a dress, 2 myspace type screenshots of your tits up, and 1 screenshot with a sweet 1-up hat. So im not sure how you expect us to tell your fortune as a stripper from these pictures.
and what kisca said.
but really, i see youve been on here since may. im sure youve seen enough of this post already. your question has already been answered so unless it is something specific about YOUR body which you havent even put up here clearly enough to be critiqued, then this whole thing is redundant.
alright... yeah sorry not meaning to waste peoples time... i didnt do a very good job choosing pics...
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Originally Posted by
Athenathefabulous
i realize that came across as harsh. you should probably ignore my harsh tone. and your cam customers rude comments. people on the internet suck :P.
also i dont do camming, but general rule with men in general- if they put you down by saying most men wont like you but then try to save by saying they specifically like you its a. abusive behavior and b. because they want you to feel insecure and c. so you will think they are special and that you need them and d. because they want more out of you.
no i didnt take it as harsh... and your right about him... i was just trying to figure out something new to do with my look that would suit me and thought maybe a pro would know :)
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You know what I think? Go make your money. 'They' don't want the skinniest girls with the biggest tits ALL the time. HE (this particular cam custy) might want you exclusively to himself though...
I'm a bigger girl and I'm a good earner in a competitive club. I'm about 150-160 lbs (depending on my laziness) and a size 8-10. I'm 5'8"ish with DD-E breasts. I do very very well stripping. Would I earn more if I was skinnier? Yes. Would you earn more skinnier? Yes. But that's not to say you can't earn money right now. You have a beautiful face and pretty eyes, so go out there and milk that. I LIKE your current look. I'm going to say though - longer hair does better. Invest in some good quality clip-in extensions.
God, I could tell you so much about stripping as a bigger girl, but I'm just going to sum it up by saying it's possible, and it REALLY depends on your area. I'm with Athena though - should have posted better pictures girl!
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In my honest opinion I think you could start stripping right away. I don't think you need to worry at all, you have extremely beautiful eyes and lips. As for switching up your look, I'd keep it the same, messing with it might mess it up. I think the hair/makeup looks good that way.
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Originally Posted by
4everresolutions
You know what I think? Go make your money. 'They' don't want the skinniest girls with the biggest tits ALL the time. HE (this particular cam custy) might want you exclusively to himself though...
I'm a bigger girl and I'm a good earner in a competitive club. I'm about 150-160 lbs (depending on my laziness) and a size 8-10. I'm 5'8"ish with DD-E breasts. I do very very well stripping. Would I earn more if I was skinnier? Yes. Would you earn more skinnier? Yes. But that's not to say you can't earn money right now. You have a beautiful face and pretty eyes, so go out there and milk that. I LIKE your current look. I'm going to say though - longer hair does better. Invest in some good quality clip-in extensions.
God, I could tell you so much about stripping as a bigger girl, but I'm just going to sum it up by saying it's possible, and it REALLY depends on your area. I'm with Athena though - should have posted better pictures girl!
well thank you and also im going top go to my local sallys tomorow and buy some blonde clipins and dye them red like my hair .. i think longer hair would be better on cam too...
im going to try and lose 30 pounds by February which is my 21rst bday... i know i would bank so much more and have a better chance at being hired at a gentlemans club... and ill attemot to find beter pics but as a camgirl most of my pics are naked }:D
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Anaaa
In my honest opinion I think you could start stripping right away. I don't think you need to worry at all, you have extremely beautiful eyes and lips. As for switching up your look, I'd keep it the same, messing with it might mess it up. I think the hair/makeup looks good that way.
thanks very much :)
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You look beautiful to me. Back in the day when I first started dancing, I had a body like yours. I did just fine. I did notice that I made more $ when I lost 10 pounds, but I can't complain about what I brought in prior to that!
Good luck
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yes you have to be somewhat thin and fit to dance but you don't need to be the skinniest girl ever. your typical strip club ain't full of models walking around but you won't see any girls pushing 250lbs either.
you have to be somewhat attractive to start then the rest is up to you. I've seen beautiful girls make nothing because they're always wasted and mouth off to customers. I see one girl with a double chin and cellulite walk out with $500+ a night. it all depends.
you're gonna get asshole customers too. stripping is a thankless and unforgiving job. I get assholes who tell me I'm too skinny for them and say they wouldn't want a lap dance from a walking beanpole because I'd snap in half.
but hey give it a shot.
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^ Kick the assholes in the nuts. What an awful thing to say. Beanpole, pshhh...
Edit: OP, don't actually kick anyone in the nuts. I was merely expressing my frustration for douche-bags.
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honest opinion: if you lost about 15 pounds, you'd probably be able to work at most decent (but not top tier) clubs in the country. currently, yeah, i think you're too big. maybe you'd be hired, but you really would struggle to make enough money to make going in worthwhile. sorry. however, you live in chicago, and everything i hear about chicago clubs is that they like girls skinny. bigger girls in chicago usually travel to other cities nearby.
you've got a stunning face (stop fucking pouting though). that means you'd get a ton of compliments, but they'd still turn you down for dances. because it's still more about the body than the face for most guys. it would frustrate the shit out of you.
btw, if you want to dance with pale skin, which i think you should because you've got the nice sort of paleness, i suggest you either go with a lighter red or blonde. pale and dark hair only really work well on skinny girls. some guys really fetishize pale features, and those guys will usually not care if you're skinny or a little bigger, as long as you're fair. might also want to look into color contacts.
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Originally Posted by
xGigi
yes you have to be somewhat thin and fit to dance but you don't need to be the skinniest girl ever. your typical strip club ain't full of models walking around but you won't see any girls pushing 250lbs either.
you have to be somewhat attractive to start then the rest is up to you. I've seen beautiful girls make nothing because they're always wasted and mouth off to customers. I see one girl with a double chin and cellulite walk out with $500+ a night. it all depends.
you're gonna get asshole customers too. stripping is a thankless and unforgiving job. I get assholes who tell me I'm too skinny for them and say they wouldn't want a lap dance from a walking beanpole because I'd snap in half.
but hey give it a shot.
I used to get told that when I was really skinny... I'd tell them, Honey I bend not break ;)
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Face is very pretty but you gotta drop a lot of weight. You can have extra poundage and be stereotypically hot but it depends on where your body collects those pounds. Yours unfortunately look like they go to your stomach(as opposed to the lucky few who collect mainly in their T&A).
With dancing I feel like you either gotta have a look that is considered hot by most or be a mega hustler(or both!).
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start up a workout group with your buddies! it will come off like that!
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That fourth picture KILLS ME. It is SO HOT.
That said. I've seen girls your size dance. But that size limits your possible clubs to work at and you have to work a lot harder to make money.
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tempest666
start up a workout group with your buddies! it will come off like that!
God. I MISS having a buddy to work out.
On my own... I sit at about 115.
With a friend to work out with... I sit around 100. D:<
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Pilates is great! Buy a DVD and do it at home... It tones arm, stomach and butt/legs fast and gives you that lean long toned look.
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I look at it like the more you weigh, the bigger your personal boobs will be. So eat a pizza and celebrate! Every guy has different preferences inspite of perhaps the majority liking the skinny blondes with no tattoos etc. I like brunettes and tattoos are a plus. Plenty of guys will like you.
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you COULD dance, ANYBODY can dance, but the reality is, generally the better in shape you are, and the more confidence you have, and the better hustle you develop, the more money you will make. there are very few people who absolutely should NOT dance. it's just up to you to decide, after you see how much money you are making and see how you can mentally and physically handle this demanding job, if it is worth it to you. ALSO, you should consider what changes or goals that are realistic and that YOU WANT TO MAKE will be worth doing and working at to strip and earn a better income.
you might find that in your area and the club you decide to work at, you do really well and make good money and it is worth it to strip. you may find that the amount of money you are making isn't worth stripping at this point.
however, you might set a goal to lose 15 pounds/join a workout class/take a dance class/etc, because you want to and it would make you happy, and continue stripping. then once you reach these goals, gauge if the changes you have made and goals you have reached have made it worth it to you to strip.
that's my advice. every person is different. like many people have said already, the most gorgeous girl with the smallest waist and biggest boobs isn't exactly the top earner in the club. from my experience, guys would rather be with a cute, decent looking girl who gives a great dance, makes them laugh, makes them happy, and gives them a good experience and relaxing night at the club than a playboy model bitch who half-asses her dance and makes them feel shitty. the decent looking girl who knows how to hustle, is confident in herself, and who gives the customers a good time and makes them feel the happiest and most relaxed(NOT as in extras) has been the top earner every night i have worked. not exactly the same girl every night because i work with many different people but that is the kind of person who is the top earner and enjoys their job the most.
maybe it is different in other places... this is my 2 cents...
good luck and let us know how it works out for you!
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You're cute, but there is always room to improve! We all can benefit!!! :D
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thanks for all the really helpful honest responses :) i currently am going to get a gym membership to attempt to get down to about 130 pounds.. i want to be able to work in a higher end club and i want the confidence in myself to pull it off. i will update with full body pics when ive reached my goal im thinking from dec to april is a good amount of time to lose 30 pounds and tone up. for now ill stick to camming.
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I say go for it- you're hot. From my personal experience I am a bigger girl, and it has it ups and downs. I weigh 140 ish and I'm only 5'2. However most of it goes in the T n A, and my legs. Some guys make mean comments. Example- last night a guy made a rude comment about me having kids, which led to me feeling like crap. *BUT* that was one fart in a thunderstorm. Later on there were 2 guys madly in love with me and I ended up walking out with 200 from each one. *BIG cheshire grin* but yeh, make sure to workout so you look/feel sexy and flexible. There are haters who can't comprehend that the bigger girl could make more, but theres a market for it! good luck :)