Originally Posted by
shanna dior
Did you set clear boundaries with him before meeting? As in, for x$ worth of gifts, I will spend x hours with you. A SB/SD relationship is very different from a regular relationship, so it's important to establish what you want and are willing to give. If you've done this and he isn't keeping up his end of the bargain, sit down and talk to him about it. If he refuses or doesn't change, drop him. There are plenty of SDs out there who would be willing to, and you shouldn't have to waste your time on someone who isn't. If you haven't set boundaries yet, do it right now, or else you can't really get frustrated with him for not knowing that he isn't doing it right.