Glad these new SDs your looking at seem to be more worth your time. I'd be very cautious around this newest one who was whining for a physical relationship though, especially in future dates when you may not be at a mall or as populated of an area.
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Glad these new SDs your looking at seem to be more worth your time. I'd be very cautious around this newest one who was whining for a physical relationship though, especially in future dates when you may not be at a mall or as populated of an area.
true. :\ I have a love/hate relationship with the idea of a sugar daddy. it's a LOT more money than the strip club but you're out there on your own and anything could happen.
when I meet this guy I'm gonna be really careful. since he was really pushy about the physical relationship it's gonna take this guy a while to earn my trust. I'm gonna get a feel for him and when it's over I'm gonna make sure he's out of sight when I walk to my car. thank god I sprint a mile 3 times a week :D
Girl you had better meet him wearing running shoes. Jesus. This is why I canceled my last potencial meeting, because he was freaking out that I wouldnt spend the night with him on our first meeting.
yea i think im going to start to be a cam girl and see what happens and still dance good luck
haha some men are insane on the site they want a young sexy smart cultured girl with hair down to her ass and big tits, willing to offer 1-3000 per MONTH and expect them to sleep with them three times a week and be on the phone the rest of the time. you do the math....
most of the time theyre like 50 and balding and fat and arrogant its like what have you got to contribute??
I've been trying to get a good sd, but good ones are hard to come by for sure- also havent been getting much traffic on the sites anymore, is anyone else having the same problems? Best sites that worked out? Is paying for a membership on them even worth it? I've been on seekingarrangement for a while and it definitely is a 'high class hooker' site, thats ALL the guys ask for, and havent even met 1 good potential off of there. Sugardaddy4me seems to be a bit better, but traffic died down- anyone having the same thing?
funny enough I was wearing running shoes for the meeting hahahah. he gave me the 150 and it went fine. I was super careful though. he asked me what kind of car I was driving and I lied. I refused to meet him outside I told him specifically it had to be INSIDE. the guy was pretty understanding once I got to meet him. I made it clear that I'm not a prostitute and if that's what he's looking for then he should find someone else. he liked me a lot though and he said he's willing to do whatever I want just to hang out with me haha
I'm on sugardaddyforme and I get a bunch of responses every day. as long as you're CLEAR about what you want you'll get a couple good ones. I made the mistake at first of not being crystal clear about what I wanted.
I now charge 150 for the first meeting and negotiate the price when I meet the guy depending on how many times a week he wants to go out and what he expects. if he lives out of state I charge per meeting, if he lives in state I charge per week and it's CASH only. no paypal, no checks, and NO gifts, I don't care how expensive they are gifts do not pay bills...unless it's a brand new car...then we'll talk. I don't tip toe around subjects anymore. I get a lot of guys asking if on the first date they should get a hotel room or if I want to spend the night and the answer is NO. I let him know that there are PLENTY of men who are willing to treat me right. know what you are worth, know what your company is worth, know what your time is worth.
a lot of guys are looking for a "high class hooker" but there are many guys who want a sugar baby. let them know you want an ongoing relationship and not a one time thing. if a guy tells me he only wants a one night thing I'm like well why are you on a sugar daddy site and not an escort agency site?
LOL you sound exactly like me- my friend and I were just having this conversation and I said almost those exact words lol..wouldnt it be easier for these guys just to go to a high class escort agency ? It seems like there are true SBs on there so I'm sure he won't have an easy time lol. Ah, well. I'm going to PM you if thats ok :)
Heh... I was on sugardaddyforme but it's such a joke. I did the 3 day thing and ended my membership. Now I just meet my sugardaddies through work or at the gas station randomly... Ahhh never fails!
Wow.. You must be kidding. You really go through that? Why don't you just become an escort...? Seriously, Become an escort and charge $500 an hour and $4500 for an overnight date... Depending on what you 'll look like you'll bank and won't have to do all that unnecessary bull. You do too much! and this sugardaddy/sugarbaby thing is time consuming. I have a child and wardrobe to worry about already.. ugh!
because for that much money they obviously want you to sleep with them and I won't sleep with a person that I just met. I am EXTREMELY paranoid and with the SDs I can meet them in public a few times and make sure they're not an asshole before I go anywhere private with them. I love making money as much as the next girl but there are certain risks I won't take. plus my boyfriend doesn't know I'm doing this and he'd be like "where the hell is all this money coming from?" lol
I can understand this...
But this I don't understand. Unless you're dating Richard Gere or Brad Pitt.. why would you put him before money?Quote:
plus my boyfriend doesn't know I'm doing this and he'd be like "where the hell is all this money coming from?" lol
I am an escort/FBSM provider. I recently just started doing Bodyrubs (no extras involved) and I have noticed that I can make just the same amount of money I do working as an escort. Through FBSM I have found a few SDs already .. They especially like to show me off to their friends/taking me out to dinner, helping me with bills...etc. I don't plan on having sex with them ever unless they are willing to pay an insane amount of money. Like JD says .. you make more money from them when you're not having sex with them and this is soo true.
I'm having a hard time finding people who just want to take me out and give me money. :\ could I apprentice at your body rub salon? :D lol
Yes same here..it's definitely true in the club, you make more if you don't do extras. But in the SD world it seems like they are very far and few between that will part with their money (or anything worthwhile amount) if they're not 'being taken care of' ..you would think finding a SD in the club would be easy, but these guys just want to "take you out for dinner" not give $. :-\
Heh... well...it goes both ways. My best friend (found her on sw) is also an escort and she has guys taking her their yacht, buying cars for her and all. She is an escort and honestly? I don't know what the hell she tells them but they fall deep in love with her and pretty much just splurge on her. Oh and guess who thought her the basics? Moi.. but I've never had a client take me car shopping. :( She hardly posts on sw anymore.
So again.. it goes both ways..
You just gotta know how to work them. I think I'm so used to posting ads,making the money and buying whatever I want that I'm stuck with the fuck it.. gimme money I'll buy it myself attitude. I hate having to convince guys to do shit for me... ugh! This is why stripping did NOT work for me :(. If I ask them once and they don't do it it's on to the next one. I don't know how to beg. I used to be very good at it now it's like "ummm really" f u!"
through fbsm, I get a lot of guys that'll take me out to dinner, They pretty much beg me to let them feed me. Make them feel good about themselves and you can get whatever you want out of them. I mean tell them how powerful they are, how sexy they look, how you like the color of their hair.. this shit really works! I don't ever get too close to them where I'd feel uncomfy giving them a bodyrub.. I never let the extracurricular activities fuck with my money .. never! If they're feeding.. I'm gonna be hungry! :-)
car shopping?! I like cars....
honestly you've made me very curious about escorting. how do you do it? like...where to start?
Search the threads under my other username "MalayaTaylor" for escorting info.. or check out . You just said you didn't feel comfortable having sex with strangers so I wouldn't recommend it. You don't want to do anything just for the money. You have to actually like having sex with strangers and will have to get use to them paying you and not calling you back (for the guys who don't become regulars) It's a no strings attached arrangement and it's not for everyone. I have alot of escort friends and they're all sane.. because they understand that the client is paying them to leave.
Back on topic: Sugardaddies are cool but they take up alot of time. Alot of ladies on sw have said they usually fuck their sugardaddies.. I don't. I have never fucked a sugardaddy.. what's the point? when I can post a rate and fuck them for that much easy? The thing is in order to keep those guys in line and not have sex with them you have to keep lying to them / keep leading them on OR you will eventually start having a sexual relationship with them (it doesn't have to be intercourse) then again.. there is that guy who just wants to spend time with a beautiful woman. I had a guy once that would book me just to watch tv with him. "Curb your enthusiasm" was what we would watch and we would watch it for hours. He was fun, young and decent looking.. (I posted about him here months ago)
If you want to meet rich guys/sugardaddies it's best to hang around places where 9/10 times you'll run into one or more.. examples: Golf resorts, 4-5 star hotels and Country clubs (It is hard as hell to get membership to one of these... damn! .. but it's possible)
Oh and one more thing.. A sugardaddy doesn't have to be someone with LOADS of money. Ladies get a guy that says I can do this for you.. that for you then ask him "what do you do for a living?" he says " I work for costco" and she thinks "Oh hell no, He can't possibly make enough money to give me what I want""... Um.. Negative! If that guy can give you $100 a month for your light bill TAKE IT! If he can give you $400 for your rent .. take that shit! You don't have to have ONE sugardaddy! True sugarbabies understand this and bank off of it! It doesn't matter what he does for a living.. fuck that! All that matters is what he can do for you and how he can make YOUR life easier!
xoxo
^So true! I definitely need to find SDs outside the online sites etc, I found 1, but I dont know how long he'll last. Sucks that Sds all have an expiration date. In the club its hard because the big spenders usually already have regular girls and just spend time with them etc..but you're right, who cares how much he can give as long as its SOMETHING :)
I have 2 SDs. one gives me 200 a week and one gives me 500. if I can get one more to give me 300 or more that's 1000 a week! for 3 hours worth of "work"!!! that on top of what I make dancing...that's bank.
^Good job girl! I need to find me that ;) You found yours on sd4me.com?
I had a guy who I cammed with through adultwork find me on sugardaddyforme! This was months ago. The whole thing was really annoying. I didn't meet up with him.
It's a known fact that a lot of SD's are also hobbyists, which explains why they're offering a flat amount of money for your "time." I remember visiting some escort related forums and men would suggest others to troll sugar daddy sites for sugarbabies because they're "cheaper" than escorts. I had a couple SD's in the past, but the good ones are sooo hard to find. I see why ladies give up and become escorts instead. At least they know what they're up against.