Does anyone know if there is such a thing as a lesbian night at a regular strip club ? If so where ?
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Does anyone know if there is such a thing as a lesbian night at a regular strip club ? If so where ?
lesbian night at a gentlemen's club? hopefully, that sounds as stupid to you as it sounded to me when i clicked this thread topic.
why you would think lesbians don't have their own clubs with dancers is beyond me.
As long as they buy dances I would love this.
Unfortunately, women hardly ever get dances at my club so it would probably just be a waste of space :(
One club I worked at welcomed lesbian customers with open arms. We all knew this group of women were lesbians and we liked it because they were polite. They tipped every dancer on stage and bought dances from most (maybe all) of the dancers. I'm not gay but enjoyed them because they were nice. Btw they never asked for dates or did things that male customers did. One of them told me she was a lesbian and did it bother me, but I told her it didn't. To me money knows no gender or race and I'd dance for anyone as long as they are nice. It's not like I'll date any of them.
many lesbians are feminists, and to many feminists, stripping is a misogynestic (whoa, spelling) idea.
This is kind of faulty logic. I mean, it's true in some aspects but the logic just isn't there. I'm a feminist and I'm still a dancer. I know a lot of men who are feminists and they go to strip clubs.
I don't think that it makes a difference whether or not people are feminists in regards to going to the strip club. Just that if they do go they will treat the girls better than people who aren't feminist because it isn't women being dancers that is terrible but the attitude that some men (and women) have that is misogynistic.
I've danced for several lesbian women over the years (great customers by the way!) but I have never seen a group of them come in. I think that's pretty rare.
I think that most lesbians are shy/hesitant about strip clubs; at least the ones I know.
if a herd of them came into my work, i would certainly be in heaven. i'd love that.
or who I call "NIMBY" feminists... (not in my backyard). They are okay with all the positive sides of feminism like fighting for women in another country's rights or forwarding lesbian's rights but they distance themselves from sex work. Or they are okay with women who are forced into sex work but aren't too happy with the ones who choose to go into it.
I know that not every feminist (or most even) think this way but there are some and they make me sad.
of all the lesbians I know I can't picture a single one of them going to a strip club. they're not feminists but I just can't picture it! I feel like women would rather communicate than have sex and guys come into a strip club to buy lapdances which simulate sex. I could be wrong!
I'm a lesbian, and a pretty die-hard feminist to boot, and I spend many more hours than I should at stripclubs. I'm about as hardcore a junkie as you'll find. Did I blow out any misconceptions out on that one? ;) Hope so!
And yes, we lesbians have our own clubs with dancers, but they are usually go-go cage dancers and do not give lapdances. They are there to be tipped, and for "show" only. Believe you me - if there was a club that catered to lesbian customers I'd be there in a heartbeat. Until then, I'll have to settle for the traditional clubs.
Oh, the sacrifices I make!
God it FELT like lesbian night at our local club on Friday. I don't think Ive ever had so many women buy me drinks or try to take me home before in my LIFE.
el paso does every wednesday at Jaguars and Dreams.
Geeze I'd hope most guys were brighter than that.
I've had more than a few lesbian gal pals since my college days and I've never ogled them or any of their lesbian friends [take notice if they were attractive, yes, but ogle?]. We just hung and had fun.
Though I do credit most of what I know about kissing to two lesbian friends who put me straight on that issue early on in my life, which I am still appreciative of till this day [as might be any of the women I have had relationships with that were of the sort where kissing was involved, were they to have known the source].
thi would be awesome as long as they spent money :) i used to love dancing for women who were into it.
then again, that was also the only time genuinely got turned on dancing, lol
i love dancing for women. no boners :D
but seriously, i've had so many female customers come in and be bitches that it's not like i can say i prefer them over men. i've had so many girls complain that cant they touch me, because "come on im a female too so it's ok". or the ones who come in with their girlfriends and think they "dont need to tip because, you know, like, same body and all, tee hee!"
lesson: everyone can be a dick, regardless of whether they have one or not.
Most of the women who come in my club are evil, total haters. But, this is often because they are straight and SO uncomfortable. The lesbians we get are generally great, unless they are super handsy, then they are worse than the dudes because they think it's cool b/c we're both girls..
idk I kind of prefer dancing for men any day. Women are just too mean to each other and too judgemental. I don't like the pressure.
the ones ive danced for always spent money, but maybe cause they had thier gaydar on cause im a lesbo muahahahaha
A club in my neck of the woods had a lesbian event fairly recently, I heard it was a complete bust :/
As for lesbians in my club; I've seen a handful and in my experience they seem to be very careful shoppers and wait til the end of their stay to find ONE girl to buy dances from.
For some reason, I feel like the bois and butches who come in are a tad friendlier and less judgmental...
But dances with girls, they definitely DO feel like they can get away with more. I did an hour with a gal in the CR once and she kept pestering me to go down on me, even followed me to the bathroom afterward to prolong the pestering.