Where Is the Best Place to Find A Sugar Daddy?
So I was wondering where you all think the best place to find a Sugar Daddy is excluding online sites? Because I'm already on some but I can't read the messages because I have no money :( I don't even have a phone, I can't be a stripper until I lose some weight from all the stress of not being able to afford college this year ( I want to finish so badly), and until I get a relaxer in this nappy head of mine! I have no cell phone, and I literally dont even have any dollar bills I have about six dollars in change. I'm looking for a job but people with no college degree have a hard time finding work these days. Im 21 and my dad is putting a roof over my head and food for now but that's it, I don't even have enough outfits to get through the week. Also, he's putting an extreme amount of pressure on me to find a job soon, not to mention all the bills I have and the two banks I belonged to closed my accounts due to a negative balance in each. I'm in a tough spot right now and I don't know what to do, will someone please give me some advice? I dont have a car so I need to find a way to borrow or make some money just long enough to at least buy some new makeup, a hair style, and a sexy outfit so I can even get a Sugar Daddy or a modeling job lol Even though I've always been told I was beautiful I dont feel like it at all right now because I can't even afford to look good and I'm in my prime!! Someone please help! What should I do?
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um, i don't know how much you've read about sd's but there's a lot of threads on here about it. but i'll sum it up it for you, basically most sd's you need to sleep with. i dunno if you're comfortable with that or what your ultimate goal is but seriously you can strip, even if it's a divey place, at least you would earn some money and then you can always buy a proper outfit and heels. idk, there's quite a few options that i think would be quicker money, more money and definitely a lot more stable than an sd. i think all you need to do is read more threads on the various ways women on this site are successful in different fields (idk how else to put it) of the sex industry.
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Not to mention the fact that many wanna-be SD's have no clue what they should be doing/providing.
If you just want a guy who will take interest in you with money though you may need to wait. Save up, get yourself a nice outfit, & check out some of the philanthropic events with a friend.
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Got webcam and no scruples? How about webcam modeling?
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Got webcam and no scruples? How about webcam modeling?
I did but I had to quit because one of my dad's friends ended up finding out and blackmailed me for sex, so I'm not sure if I should do that, but I did move to a different town so I feel like if I do something in person, there will be less chance of my anonymity be compromised!
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Yikes!! What an asshole. Great friend for your dad, indeed. :O How did he find you anyway, just stumbled upon you? Among all camgirls out there? Poor girl.
I still think that's safer than looking for a sugar daddy who will expect sex...but you know best if that's a possibility again (blackmail).
I know a lot of girls here does escorting and bodyrubs and they do great, but that's really not for everybody. Some girl have it in them, some don't. Don't do anything that makes you feel bad about yourself just for money. And all of them seem to take extreme safety measures and charge their time as much as it's worth - a lot. I know it sucks being in a tight spot, but don't endanger yourself for a little money. Good luck! :-*
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So I was wondering where you all think the best place to find a Sugar Daddy is excluding online sites? Because I'm already on some but I can't read the messages because I have no money :( I don't even have a phone, I can't be a stripper until I lose some weight from all the stress of not being able to afford college this year ( I want to finish so badly), and until I get a relaxer in this nappy head of mine! I have no cell phone, and I literally dont even have any dollar bills I have about six dollars in change. I'm looking for a job but people with no college degree have a hard time finding work these days. Im 21 and my dad is putting a roof over my head and food for now but that's it, I don't even have enough outfits to get through the week. Also, he's putting an extreme amount of pressure on me to find a job soon, not to mention all the bills I have and the two banks I belonged to closed my accounts due to a negative balance in each. I'm in a tough spot right now and I don't know what to do, will someone please give me some advice? I dont have a car so I need to find a way to borrow or make some money just long enough to at least buy some new makeup, a hair style, and a sexy outfit so I can even get a Sugar Daddy or a modeling job lol Even though I've always been told I was beautiful I dont feel like it at all right now because I can't even afford to look good and I'm in my prime!! Someone please help! What should I do?
Oh man. You sound exactly like me (well, the negative bank balances thing, that is.... }:D).
There's backpage.com, and you can check the Adult Section there, you'll find a lot of guys looking for women in need of...assistance. But then also bear in mind that any chainsaw wielding pervert could (and is) posting lures to their lair..... yikes. stay safe.
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Have you tried getting an audition at any strip clubs? A lot of the dive bars usually aren't too fussy about weight and once you start dancing regularly you'll lose weight anyway.
If you're looking at getting into modelling there's a great sticky thread in the Other Work section about how to get started with online modelling sites. Also you can try contacting local universities and art colleges, see if they need nude models to pose for a life drawing class (I've heard they pay pretty well) or look online and in the paper for photographers who need models (make sure they're legitimate though or that have a male friend go with you).
Good luck! Hope you find something soon!
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I wouldnt suggest even doing SG if you never stripped... I saw your previous posts about you wanting to strip about ... 10 months ago? Why not do it? You should know being on this site long enough that dive ins hire anyone along as they follow the rules.
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also a good SD takes a while to find and that's not very good if you need cash fast. just sayin. have u looked into model mayhem? i wouldn't rely on it for a main income but it could be good side cash and there is a vary wide variety of different ladies on that site and other sites that are like it. it could pay for some relaxer for your hair or some new outfits!
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or you can go to a temp agency and get a warehouse position, they hire immedietly and usually only require a hs diploma or GED. it would be temp to hire, but most pay well. I dont know where you live but there are usually warehouse jobs in smaller towns as well as larger towns.
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If you want in the sex industry, you'll have to do what you have to do. Maybe find a well-to-do guy in a nice bar who will pay for play. One who is looking for company in a longer term arrangement. Stay safe and play well. That may work for you one day soon.