Going NUDE...but NOT 100% topless while camming?
I hate my boobs. They're small, which I wouldn't mind, except that they're a truly fkd up shape (tubular, which is so embarrassing), and I'm only 21. I'm totally broke right now, but I've always wanted a BA one day.
Meanwhile, would it be feasible for me to cam without removing my bikini top or bra? Because my boobs look fine if I'm wearing at least a bikini top or a sexy sequin bra. Or would it be weird?
I have NO problem going nude otherwise, bottomless that is. My body is a naturally GREAT shape, except for the boobs. :-/
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I have only been camming for a little over a month now, but I can say that I completely feel where you are coming from. I have small boobs as well, I mean they are not teeny-tiny...but by no means are they "big girls". Before I started camming, I wasted soooooo much time contemplating if customers were going to make fun of my small boobs, but when I finally stopped letting that hold me back...everything was fine! The guys actually love my little girls...which is seriously making me reconsider getting a boob job now. :) This is how I see it...boobs are boobs to guys...no matter what size, shape, or color. As soon as they see a nipple they go nuts. Some guys, like big boobs, some like small, some like tubular....but at the end of the day they are just boobs...which will make any guy happy. Embrace your girls and you will reap the benefits. :)
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Originally Posted by
LibraSnake
I hate my boobs. They're small, which I wouldn't mind, except that they're a truly fkd up shape (tubular, which is so embarrassing), and I'm only 21. I'm totally broke right now, but I've always wanted a BA one day.
Meanwhile, would it be feasible for me to cam without removing my bikini top or bra? Because my boobs look fine if I'm wearing at least a bikini top or a sexy sequin bra. Or would it be weird?
I have NO problem going nude otherwise, bottomless that is. My body is a naturally GREAT shape, except for the boobs. :-/
Boobies come in all sizes and shapes. I don't think there's anything innately wrong with an unusual shape! And I'm NOT just saying that because I have slightly tubular ones my own self. :D I just googled "tubular breasts" and though it's called a "deformity" (thanks for making me feel awesome about my cans, google), most of those pictures looked fine to me.
I don't know -- I think that nobody will ever judge us as harshly as we judge ourselves. I bet you look hot, and all someone will think is "OMG BOOBIES" not "those are unusually shaped boobies". Ya know?
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Libra- The girls are right . I'm sure your breasts are wonderful and I'm sure your clients would/will think so . However to answer your question succinctly , yes it will be possible for you to cam without fully revealing your breasts . You will pick up tips and tricks to hide the bits you don't like as much and flaunt the bits you do ... Hand bras, holding your breasts up , peep hole bras which will expose your nipples without exposing your breast shape, half moon bras which will hold your breast while still showing off more than a bikini top would allow . SO yes - You will start to make money even without fully exposing your breasts.
It is however in my opinion that you will not stick to this regime for very long . It will be no time at all before yo have gained regulars and they have talked you into showing a bit more of those assets you're so desperate to hide , once you realize how much of an asset they actually are, you, like Sexical mentioned, may change your opinion on them ! Do what you feel comfortable with , it is only natural in time your boundaries will be pushed and tested as you collect a bigger fanbase and see the dollars rolling in ..... and if You still want your BA down the line, you will have more than enough to fund it .
I find guys sometimes deserve more credit than we allow them . Many women believe guys are looking for perfection we see in magazines ..... truth be told, most men are more realistic , and a guy looking for amateur type porn/video chat will find perfections in simple imperfections.
Can I suggest you sit in a few small breasted womens chatrooms on the likes of MFC - Just see how many times in one hour guys request 'please never change your small breasts with an operation ' Honestly , I see it all the time !!!!
Good luck ,
MISSY <3
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Honey, the guys just want to see your tits, period. Ya some guys prefer large breasts, but those guys are most likely not the ones entering your chatroom. The guys you get in your chatroom are guys who like how YOU look, not how bustyameera looks. The same guys who see you, will not likely go in my chatroom. And a lot of them ONLY like girls who have smaller breasts anyway.
I would not worry about that if I were you. Your paying customers know your size before they enter your room, because they have seen your pics!
Also you will get the odd group of guys who don't care to see your body at all. I have a cstomer who only wants to see my lips, and watch me chew and pop my bubble gum, and blow big bubbles. He doesnt want to see my body, or the rest of my face even. Weird, but simple
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But the problem isn't the size - it's the deformity. If it wasn't this fkd up shape, I'd be happy with peTITS. lol
Honestly I don't even know if my application to MFC will even be -accepted-, if I have to submit any topless pics.
I've obsessively browsed through the girls there, and 99% of them had big boobs (I define "big" as C-cup and up).
And the very few who did have baby boobs like me (I'm an A-cup...le sigh), they had a nice shape. Mine don't. They kind of sag and ughhh, I hate it.
I fear that if I show my boobs, the guys in the chatroom will be shocked/horrified (because it's not what they're expecting or what they've ever seen before), and be like "ewww WTF???" and sign out. And spread the word about me. No bueno.
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You do not have to submit any topless pics to MFC when you first sign up. Now, what pictures you decide to upload on your profile once you have been approved is all up to you. I personally do not show any nudity in my pictures, because I like leaving something to the imagination. :) Sweetie, I really do not think they are going to "run for the hills" when they see you topless. I've seen guys who get turned on by many, many things that definitely trump tubular ta-tas. And, if they do have something to say simply ban their asses while you laugh and hold up your middle finger. :)
P.S. Pasties are a great idea too...the guys love stuff like that. :)
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try birth control pills! they made my small bitties that were starting to sag rounder and perkier!
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LibraSnake, all the ladies here are giving you wonderful advice! And I have to agree 100% with them.
There is a flavor for every taste bud! You will be amazed of what guys will like about you.
I do understand were you are coming from, I have my issues also with my body, I used to hate my huge butt!! To big for my skinny silhouette. Also small boobs in a market full of girls with Awesome Big Boobs..I was able to conquer those issues after working on cam for so long.
Why not start by wearing extra sexy outfits. Get toys, and sexy gadgets to divert the attention from the boobies.
Get up, give them a dance, flash them your butt and lower body...Use your hands to tease. When they ask for boob, then use some tricks with your sexy bra...there are ways you can flash them without exposing it ALL..use your hands to hold, cover, uncover boobs in a sexy way.
All you need is a boost of confidence..and this industry is great for that.
Every model, no matter how she looks, will encounter the jerk that will make her feel like crap one day, it comes with the business, so never take it personal. Only the freeloader jerks are the one that come to a room to insult a model, and point out crap that others don't care...just because they are pissed they can't afford you. So they will try to hit you were they "think" it will hurt. But when one of those comes to attack you, you simply smile, thank him for taking time of his Gorgeous Sexy Day were he should be fucking his hot Super Model Girlfriend, and instead decided to come to your cam room to tell you how bad you look...then go back and give your full attention to those who are respecting you and having a good time with you. You will see how the rest will jump in to defend you.
Anyway darling, do not close your doors due to things that you can work around. Practice in front of a mirror your little tricks etc.
Good Luck! Hope you make lots of $$$$$!!!
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Pasties, I just googled that, it doesn't lift! That's the only problem with that.
BUT I do like the bra, seductive quick flash/hand bra suggestion. Awesome idea! :-)
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hey hun,
i dont know where you live but in the uk if you have tubular breasts than you can get them sorted out on the nhs but you have to be assessed by a doc then be reffered plus you have to have a psych test to make sure you can handle the op, note that this is standerd proceedure for any boob job done in the uk whether it be private or nhs paid
if however your not in the uk or you are and not given the go ahead for a bj then why not dress them up a bit to look pretty such as nipple tassels? so your not completely nude but there is still something there to distract viewers slightly?
xx
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Originally Posted by
malika29
hey hun,
i dont know where you live but in the uk if you have tubular breasts than you can get them sorted out on the nhs but you have to be assessed by a doc then be reffered plus you have to have a psych test to make sure you can handle the op, note that this is standerd proceedure for any boob job done in the uk whether it be private or nhs paid
if however your not in the uk or you are and not given the go ahead for a bj then why not dress them up a bit to look pretty such as nipple tassels? so your not completely nude but there is still something there to distract viewers slightly?
xx
Nope, I'm in the states unfortunately. Despite paying $600 a month for health insurance, tubular boob correction is considered purely cosmetic.
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Most of the tubular titties looked fine. The few that were EXTREME tubular just looked like a small woman had a child and her boobs deflated. Regular boobs as opposed to porn boobs.
Porn boobs aren't always appealing. Sometimes you just wanna see normal regular boobs.
Hehehe. I have large boobs with a normal sag amount. They're pretty damn attractive as far as regular woman breasts go, but they do not compare to porn boobs. I wear nice bras- and whenever I remove my bra, I'm waiting for my group to suddenly disappear at the site of my slightly sagging normal knockers. .... They never do.
I agree on shelf bras, or 1/4 bras, or bras that you can easily just pull the tits out of and leave you with nice support, but outstanding nipple action.
...You learn the angles that do your body the best.. if you are always touching yourself you can probably get away with never removing your hands from a nice boob support position..
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I'm sure many who have posted before me have said this in some way or form to you....Bottom line Someone, somewhere WILL find you, and your breasts sexy. Please take this from a size lower B. I too have felt the same... this is normal... this is Human. Work what you have the best you can. Gurantee after you hear it from a few gents how beautiful you boobies are, you will feel a bit more relaxed with yourself. I'm not trying to make you "Like your body, get over it, blah, blah".... at the end of the day if you don't feel sexy, change it! But trust me, there are MANY men and women who would LOVE your body. When you have a type, you have a type.
Own it love.... you are a special niche!
Hugs!
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I used to work with a girl who had tubular breasts, she was gorgeous and would bank! Also because of the shape of her breasts she could swing nipple tassles around like crazy!! I was totally jealous of that! You should think of them as unique, definitely not deformed. And as all the other girls have said most men love boobs regardless of size and shape, having a pair that are a little different might even held you stand out a bit.