Re: So...i think im moving
I did. I moved from Portland to Los Angeles; now we live in NC. We're still together. 10.27.11 will be ten years for us.
I don't have any real advice for you except that it was a really good decision for meb it ask yourself if you see your relationship going to that next level. I relocated for mine at just over a year together. How much do you love him? If you hate your job. Then you really have nothing to lose except being close to friends & family; have you ever lived away from them before?
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I have not lived away from home before. I mean i dont live at home but i never left my area.
I do care about this guy alot and the fact he would consider taking a lesser paying job to stay with me really spoke volumes to me.
I think it honestly was what we both needed to know from each other. He needed to know I would never make him sacrifice something very important for my own reasons and I needed to know that he would sacrifice something very important to him for me.
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Sounds like a learning experience at the very least.
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^^my life is full of those!
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Am I going crazy?
I could have sworn that you posted on another thread saying you two had broken up as he did not want you to relocate with him.
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^not crazy.
he never asked me to. i assumed he didnt want me to.
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I think you should do it. It could be fun to experience life somewhere else for a while. Spend a year in fl, soak up some sun and Work on your relationship with your honey - once the year is up you'll have a pretty good idea if he's 'the one' or not.
Fl is a fun place to live.... I miss Orlando very much (I moved to Orlando to be with my bf after we had been dating for about 8 months. Best move I ever made).