Re: Tell Me If I'm Crazy...
I don't think you are crazy, I think you are still in love.
Re: Tell Me If I'm Crazy...
That in my mind equates crazy, considering the circumstances.
Honestly, though, it feels like I'm chasing a ghost.
Re: Tell Me If I'm Crazy...
I think you love him and deep down you want to be with him. Who knows, maybe it was meant to be. Sometimes we know deep down if we are meant to be with someone and this is your case?
Re: Tell Me If I'm Crazy...
Well, part of wanting to meet up is partially to show off how far I've come and show him what he's missing. I realize that I'm chasing the version of him that I fell in love with, that he isn't now. Or most likely isn't now...People change.
This is just really stupid. There is no way to rescind friend requests on Facebook, is there?
Re: Tell Me If I'm Crazy...
You dont want to see him, I dont think theres a point in saying good-bye or even getting a coffee with him.
At part of your posts saying you want to show yourself off and how far yourve gone, seems to want to show him jealousy, but then you say you're over him.
I think its best just to move forward where you were gonig as things planned, but if you truely want to say good-bye, then go for it, better to do it then regret it.
Re: Tell Me If I'm Crazy...
Did he actually get divorced? If he did I don't really see the problem with getting together for coffee. This could be the end of everything & your final goodbye, or it could open up a new chapter in your life - even if it's just as friends.
Re: Tell Me If I'm Crazy...
Well, from what I've heard from friends he did.
I added him on Friday, he got on, changed his picture, commented and stuff, but didn't accept my request. I mean, he was on both Sat and Sun. And yet, he failed to accept my request. I mean, once upon a time ago, we were friends. It's not like the friend request thing is hard to miss. So I canceled the request. If he wants to be friends, he'll add me.
Either way. I decided against saying goodbye because if things don't turn out how I want them to, then I don't want the alternatives. I've been so good so far, and really I don't need him.