Re: lapdances or toy shows
Really depends on you. Personally, I don't think I could ever do private parties and toy shows, but have no problems with doing high contact lap dances. I just feel more comfortable and in control in the club, especially with so much support staff. In private parties, I think you're generally in a stranger's home and bring your own security, but I just don't think I personally would feel safe. But for other girls it's the other way around.
Why don't you try out a night at a strip club and see how you feel about lap dances? The beauty of this industry is that if you don't like it, you can just leave. No need to give a two weeks notice, or even stay for the full shift if you're 100% certain it's not for you.
Re: lapdances or toy shows
You're in New Zealand, right? Touching is up to dancer's discretion in NZ. Contact is allowed by the club, but you don't have to let them touch if you don't want to.
Re: lapdances or toy shows
I can't speak for NZ, but I've done hundreds of private parties and never allowed men to touch me. I did one party with toys (fake girl girl too) but I was paid hundreds and still no touching. Otherwise I've strictly done no touch bachelor parties.
Re: lapdances or toy shows
Parties are nice because a portion of the money is up front. If the toy shows are legal in your area, & you have quality security, I'd go with doing private parties.
Re: lapdances or toy shows
i'm thinking more the private party toy show, i still hate it when guys go for a cheap touch, gross's me out, gives me chills, especially when old and indian, hope i'm not sounding racist but they seem to be the most trouble