Or is this an unfair generalization?
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Or is this an unfair generalization?
Some do for sure, but some just come in for fun and respect that boundary.
Most customers in general will ask: some for a date, some for sex, some for a "friendship." Although I didn't have many regulars, some of my best ones never asked me for OTC. Or, if they did, it wasn't in a pressured way. Like, they might say, "I'm going to XYZ concert next week, we can get you an extra ticket if you want to come" type of thing.
Rarely.. I say sure sure and change topics and they forget.. Most of the OTCs were the one time dance guys...
I had one yesterday claiming his mother was a stripper and so was his cousin (in the same club as I worked) 10 years ago.. and then he wants my number so we can grab lunch together haha. Ahh stupid men..
From what I have observed-the club regulars, usually no, b/c they understand how it all works, and generally do not pressure anyone to meet OTC.
The regulars that come in to see one girl and believe that they have a "relationship" almost always have a shelf life b/c they want to meet OTC and the girl ends up bailing and then they find a new girl to obsess over.
I think it depends...are they the regulars that come in for the atmosphere, may have a few favorites that they spend more money on, but are open to other girls, or are they the guy who is anxiously sitting next to the dressing room door waiting for their "girl" to come out, so they can talk to her before anyone else, and get upset it they dance for anyone else.
It depends. I have several married regulars. They came in for the excitement while still staying faithful to their spouses. These guys never asked for OTC. The others it varies. A few wanted to hang out, others wanted sex, and still others wanted friendship. Outside of the one I always mention, and a few regulars I kept for bachelor parties the rest never became OTC.
Damn ya'll. I wish I could still strip once a week. The annoying OTC requests, I don't literally miss them, but there is an art and a science to properly dodging them that I got pretty good at.