Guys telling me what im "supposed" to do for them in VIP
To them, I laugh. Inside of course but still. I laugh.
Call me a bitch but thats my reaction. I never promised anything and never insinuated so I am sorry that you assume you get to touch _____ or that Im going to do _______. But you dont. So fuck off.
I will dance for you and try my best to entertain you withouth the involvement of your little penis, and I will not let you try to manipulate me to touch it. Im smarter than you think, jackass.
Anyone feel the same?
I really hope girls dont listen to these guys and do what they say. "Youre supposed to jerk me off" "youre supposed to let me suck your nipples"
Actually youre supposed to sit there and Im supposed to dance. PERIOD. We are in charge here.
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You are offering your entertaining services to customers in a SC. Being a service... each is different depending on the provider. The main idea still is dancing/entertaining the guy - they know this. Whenever they say YOU SHOULD DO.. so and so, they know fully they can get another dancer --- Just like any service provider we are in charge of the situation.
I always think men act more untamed and think they can blurt out anything, having naked chicks and booze around them probably seems right to them.
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When Ive had that happen i think its either a buddy told them that "when i went to so-and-so club, a dancer did this" or maybe one dancer did that for them and they feel thats standard
or they are halfway through their time and realize that hey, "when she said she was going to have fun and give a good dance thats what she meant, and it wasnt code for anything else so i have to try and explain what i think should happen since im already back here and i paid"
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ugh. i hate it when they (or a friend of a friend) have an experience with one strung out ugly skank, so they decide that all of us will do the same thing.
they'll even say it if they know it won't happen, on the off chance that you'll be dumb enough to let them hustle you.
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What REALLY kills me is when I proposition a cat for a lap dance and he says "what am I gonna get?" Usually at this point I walk away because he's clearly looking for extras at a cheap price, and FUCK THAT! I had a guy in New Orleans tell me "I ain't gonna get no dance from ya unless you suck me off." Ok... suck you off for 30 bucks, welcome to crackhead alley. I've also had men say "I'm not getting a dance from you unless you: give me your number, hang out with me afterwards, kiss me, tell me your real name, pull out my dick, etc." I'll take a loss then! I'll walk out the club with two nickels and a frown rather than listen to what these suckers try to tell me what to do with my body or life. I tell em simply... "then take your money elsewhere... cuz I don't owe you shit!" Am I rude? Lol.
Plus, once I've touched the dough, I don't really care if they enjoy the dance or not unless I am fairly certain I can milk them for more money. I had an 18 year old scumbucket loser come in and buy ONE dance (paying in ones so you know he was broke) and then try to stick his face in my ass when I turned around to change position. I ended the dance halfway through the song and he huffed and puffed his way back to his friends. Think I gave a rooster's ass? Nope... If ya don't play by my rules, you won't get anything you want but disappointment. The more gentlemanly a fellow is, generally the more lenient I am with him.
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Originally Posted by
girlygirl21
or they are halfway through their time and realize that hey, "when she said she was going to have fun and give a good dance thats what she meant, and it wasnt code for anything else so i have to try and explain what i think should happen since im already back here and i paid"
this drives me crazy. the whole time the guy is like, but, uh, we're gonna "you know". and i'm like no, bby, i don't know!
oh, y'know, come on...you know. what you wanna do to me!
riiiiight, i really wanna do you, a fat slob, for a few hundred when i can go home to a man who's not drunk, with a big dick, who will rub my feet and treat me like a princess.
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My favorite is when a guy wastes an entire song (that he paid for) by asking me to do stuff....not even paying attention to the dance, just talking to me...and then when the song is over, they get all pissy because they weren't paying attention...so I get them to buy another, and this time, not spend the whole thing like this:
- Touch my dick
- No
- C'mon....just touch my dick
- No
- No one will see
- No
- Just one little tug
- No
- Well then let me suck your nipples
- No
- You can put your hair over so the camera doesn't see
- No
- Then grind me
- No
- C'mon, you should be grinding me
- No
continue ad infinitum...