Long time creeper, first time poster.
Well, almost first time.
Hi all! I'm a noob from the DC-metro area. I've been creeping stripper web/thinking about dancing for literally 4 years now - since I was 18! I'm a college gal who already works a couple of part-time day jobs but would love something else for nights and weekends.
However, up til this point I'd consistently been in relationships with extremely jealous, possesive, controlling, (and in one case, abusive) guys who would NEVER, EVER be cool with their lady doing any kind of sex work. Dark days, girls. Sigh. I was young, dumb, and...well, you know. The main things I learned: 1, love can't fix someone, and 2, I've got to look out for #1. That syntax was unintentionally hilarious, but you guys know what I mean.
Anyway. I finally dumped my last super-controlling ex this past year (big fight over sexual harassment - I'm WAY more feminist than he is), spent a few months decompressing and relearning how to be me. Which includes doing all the things I've put off for years because some guy wouldn't like it. Which includes dancing.
Now that the new year has come (I wanted to wait til the new year started, for tax purposes) I've bought my first pair of clear heels, started researching local clubs, thought a lot about what level of contact I'm comfortable with, and considered my financial goals.
Hopefully I'll be able to get out and audition somewhere by the end of this month. I'm taking it slowly, but I've already thought about this seriously for years, so not too slowly!
I'd like to dance under the name Jane, so that's what I'll go by here. Attached is a bod pic.