Alternatives during pregnancy
This is a query for a friend of mine who is currently in her 2nd trimester and will need to find an alternative source of income soon.
If you turned to camming was it lucrative for you? What sort of customers did you attract?
I had a friend in El Paso who turned to camming during the last 2 months of her pregnancy and she made a killing from lactation fetishists, etc. This was back in 2008 so I wanted some current info. Thanks :)
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Theres a huge client base for it ,
But a even bigger line of bashers.
Beings your open for the world to see
People will talk horrible shit about it.
When i was pregnant
I got
Whores cant be moms
Your kids going to be a slut
Bet you dont know the daddy
Ect
Not to mention the
I bet your kid like this
You think youll get turned on when you breast feed.
Ect.
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I hate to see a pregnant woman on cam.
1. Her childs father should be taking care of her income... so her cammig makes it quiet obvious that he is not, thus making her an open target to verbal abuse. I would hate to be disrespected about my unborn baby.
if she tries this she will need extremely thick skin.
it is profitable, with alot of verbal hell to pay.
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^Camwhore, not every pregnancy is planned. Not every baby daddy has a great job. Seeing what Buffy wrote reminded me of her earlier posts and her babies father works. A lot of families need to work two jobs. I agree with the rest. With hormones and everything else I don't know if I'd be able to stand it. Some people can be really mean.
Good luck to your friend, Tempest.
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I can't do it.
I just do the ICM thing, clothes on, cam pointed at my face.
Luckily, I have a husband who works....so I don't have to worry so much.
My little $60 a week is just extra cash.
I've heard too many horror stories, and I would seriously wanna fly down to the first guy who would ask a stupid question like, "can your baby feel it?" and chop him up into little pieces.
My skin definitely isn't thick enough.
I give credit to those girls who can stick it out and do what they need to do though. I hear it can be very profitable as long as you can deal with the creepers.
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Yea , Its hard when your 18 still in school , and working at mcdonalds.
I was one of the lucky ones , I had family that help every step of the way then.
Even now my family help , and know i cam, (Lucky there 2 old hippys) hehe.
Some women , Who dont have that degree, and are trying to make it in school
and have no other way to get a income , or this kind anyways need camming
pregnant or not.
sadly not everything is textbook perfect. =[
Just make them work the best you can.
Theres a thick skin needed for this industry anywho
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I know my ex girlfriend made a killing from it but she has a website/webpage on southern-charms.com .
Everyones tolerance of internet abuse is different so she should try it see how it goes she might hate but at lest she tried it then after the baby is born she might be more prepared to go back at it.
I know I have seen alot of columbian studios on streamate and rude with big bellies online but all you can do is try and see what happens.
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She can do phone sex. I think the papillon agency pays hourly. There are a lot of phone sex jobs listed at sexyjobs.com If she works for a phone sex company, tell her to make sure she research each company. There are a couple of phone sex ops forums around online.
I've done work with keen.com - niteflirt.com, on there you charge your own rates and work independently, you can do cam work too. I'm actually about to open my account back up on there. Keen is non-sex work and she can work their just friends line.
Re: Alternatives during pregnancy
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Originally Posted by
CamWhore
I hate to see a pregnant woman on cam.
1. Her childs father should be taking care of her income... so her cammig makes it quiet obvious that he is not, thus making her an open target to verbal abuse. I would hate to be disrespected about my unborn baby.
if she tries this she will need extremely thick skin.
it is profitable, with alot of verbal hell to pay.
wow are we living in 1912? not everyone marries rich, some women actually fall in love with guys who arent millionaires. Hard to believe, but it's true.
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oh PLEASE! its 2011 if you want to be REAL. *ROLLS EYES*
No disrespect to this thread at all, but one of you just need to sit down...lol
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CamWhore stole my line! :P (I'm always saying "Go sit down somewhere!")
Buffy, that's terrible that people made those comments to you when you were pregnant. :( It's just crazy to me that people call cam girls and strippers "sluts." That term is way overused and often used incorrectly, I think.
On my favorite t.v. soap General Hospital, there's a new character who is a stripper (Abby, who is a sweetheart), and her job as a stripper is to help her pay for college. On the GH Facebook page, GH fans have gone crazy, calling this character a "slut" and whatnot...wtf?
In my mind, a slut is someone who gets a kick out of fucking any and everybody, not caring who gets hurt in the process, and not showing any remorse. I would never think someone is a slut just because they're a cam girl/stripper/etc.
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Yes, there is absolutely a market for it. Pregnancy fetishists can pay big, big bucks.
You have to know how to ignore the negative comments though, and present yourself as a classy, refined lady, for the classy, refined fetish viewer. Ignore the nasty comments, just the same way you don't respond to all the guys who shout abuse when you're NOT pregnant (show tits, bb! Free peek before pvt, bb!)... just pretend they are not even there.
Your friend won't only attract the pregnancy fetishists, either.... she will attract sweet guys who just enjoy chatting (paid chat) about a woman's pregnancy, see how she is progressing, etc. Some guys are just fascinated by it!!! One of my old regs became a fan of a sweet, young pregnant host... and I know for a fact he does not ask to see nudity, ever! He is just interested in the relationship... the conversation. He sent her $500 worth of baby products when she had the baby... he is just a sweetheart. There are many more out there like him!!
If *I* was pregnant, I'd definitely consider staying on cam! Of COURSE you have to have a thick skin, but that's true of ALL camgirls. But I feel like, if you project a classy IMAGE, then that's the type of customer you will attract.
I would encourage your friend to try it!!! If she hates it, she can discontinue!!
Here is an example of a lady that pulls it off PERFECTLY:
http://www.cammodels.com/cam/NikkiSpade/
If you ever catch her online, she's brilliant. Sweet, charming, classy.... just smiles and sunshine. If anyone ever says anything abusive about her choice to cam while pregnant, she completely ignores it, without even flinching (but i am sure this is rare, because she just presents herself so beautifully, that I doubt too many have the balls to insult her.) She sweetly and matter-of-factly explains which things she will NOT do, because of her pregnancy, eg. "We're not using the big toy these days, only this little one. Not so much room in there, you know!" *Wink!* She's usually in private.... she's clearly doing very well.
GOOD LUCK TO YOUR FRIEND, AND HER BABY!!! XOXOX
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Which camsites (not working independent) are the best ones to work on when pregnant, apart from AW and SM?
And how much do you mean when you say big buisiness? Am i right in thinking it might be more than £400 per week in the girls bank, if you put in a good 6 hour day or night on the right sites?
I was watching Nikkispades the other day, shes a foxy chick! xx
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It gets really hard setting that long while pregnant. lmao
And as far as us being "sluts" goes
Lady Marmalade said it best.
"Independent women some mistake us for whores, I say why spend mine
when i can spend yours" Lol