do you make more money being sexy or being sexually suggestive?
I tend not to really watch the girls on stage too much because I personally hate being stared at when I'm on stage, but I happened to notice one of the girls at my club in the dressing room counting a huge stack of 20's in the middle of the shift...so I got a little curious and started watching her. on her stage sets she was being REALLY suggestive, touching herself a lot and basically making an O face on stage. then later on I was giving a lap dance a few booths away from her and heard her moaning sexually as she was grinding on the guy and I saw her getting a LOT of repeat dances.
thoughts on this?
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i moan a little bit, very quietly and occasionally during dances. i don't do the touching myself onstage though, i think it looks silly. *shrug*
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I tried doing the overly sexed act on stage and it just didn't work for me. I tried making flirty eyes at the customers and looking like I was turned on but customers just kept asking me if I was bored
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i do get repeat dances being sexually suggestive. men want women who they think want them. it's biologically instinct for men to spread their seed as much as they can so they will have sex with any woman who want them.
the key to making men lust after you is when you make them think that you're sexually available to them. also if you enjoy what you do with the men, then it makes them feel wanted and desired sexually therefore, they would get repeat dances.
i learned through working that men love it when a woman enjoys what they do. i do a lot of self touching on stage, which make men want me after i do my shows.
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^I guess that's why it doesn't work for me. I don't LIKE doing it. sometimes I'll touch myself over my panties on stage and the guy's like "you must like that don't you?" I'm just like ugh no nevermind.
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i can only do it when im drunk, otherwise i just come across as though im trying too hard.
but when im drunk i just act like im really horny for them and they totally think im about to rip their clothes off any minute now so if you are able to pull it off i do find it works with most customers
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anouk.oui
i can only do it when im drunk, otherwise i just come across as though im trying too hard.
but when im drunk i just act like im really horny for them and they totally think im about to rip their clothes off any minute now so if you are able to pull it off i do find it works with most customers
yeahhh I just can't pull it off. I get asked too many questions that I'm just grossed out by. I got a dance one time from a guy who thought I really was horny for him and he got hard during the dance and was like "do you feel that? do you like that?" I was like ughhhhhh.....
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^ i kinda stop thinking and just get horny over the money when im drunk so im really good at telling people what they wanna hear and for some reason it comes off as genuine which is great
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teaze
This is extremely effective. I stopped playing the role of "girlfriend" to customers when I realized a lot of men come here because they are lacking sex or lonely.....plus I'm naturally an aggressive girl so it's easier for me. There are a lot of guys that are lacking in the sex department and I've also noticed that the other girls that bank have the same approach. What's the best way to get a guy to shut off his logical thinking and drop his wallet? Getting him thinking of sex. The more convincing you are of being a sexual horny stripper, the faster the money comes flying in! It used to take more time to make my goal amount, but this overly sexual role has dramatically increased my sales. Just last night, I popped into work for 2 hours and made $600 which normally takes three hours.
how do you do it without guys expecting you to do things to them though? if you act all horny for the customers they're gonna expect you to fuck them, no?
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xGigi
how do you do it without guys expecting you to do things to them though? if you act all horny for the customers they're gonna expect you to fuck them, no?
I tried this tactic once... and almost every single person I got a dance from acting like that tried something completely disgusting. I seriously had to have over ten customers kicked out in one night.
Sure... it got me a ton of dances... but it also got me were customers expecting a lot more than I was willing to provide.
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I see a lot of girls who get plenty dances doing the sexual thing on stage also but I have the innocent/girl next door thing going on, and it doesnt come natural for me at all so I do more eyes, flirty, fun sort of thing. I get enough "requests" for extras and really not into leading guys on to thinking that, just causes problems..so if girls ARENT delivering, im not sure how to do that either without suggesting theyd get more.
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xGigi
how do you do it without guys expecting you to do things to them though? if you act all horny for the customers they're gonna expect you to fuck them, no?
I don't do it on stage as much, but I do give sexually suggestive lapdances, I guess. I don't do a lot of dirty talk, but if they start it I might say a few things. I'll breathe on their necks and sometimes I'll moan in their ear if it's been a few dances to keep it exciting. I overall act like I'm really enjoying the dance and am crazy attracted to them.
I haven't really had a problem with guys expecting more... I usually make it clear before the dance where they're not allowed to touch, and whenever they ask for more I shoot it down REAL quick. Some guys still ask me to go home with them, but I feel like these things would get asked no matter how I danced. I just let them know it's not going to happen... Sometimes if a guy asks me to leave or go out with him later I'll be all "Aww I have class tomorrow, sorry!" and sort of imply I would if I didn't have class (or whatever), but it really depends on the guy and the situation.
Also, my club doesn't have any sort of truly private dance area. We have a VIP area, which is just a partitioned off space with couches. Usually theres other people back there getting dances, and the walls are low so the bouncers (and anyone else) can look in easily. So I think this helps deter guys from being too expectant of any sort of major extras in the club, but IDK.
Also, I have noticed that I actually get asked for sex less working at my current club (which is pretty high contact, I guess) than at my previous club, which was a strict no-contact air dance club.
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I fantasize about sex during lap dances and I let my breathing increase as the dance gets faster. I never get just one dance when I do the breathing thing. Also I touch my customers a lot during dances. Like their hands, hold hands when I do face away grind, rub neck, lay my head on their chest and guys love it. It makes things feel more intimate.
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The name of the game is ACTING. Own your stripper persona. Keep in mind that you will
have to tailor it slightly to different customers. From my observations the more vocal girls as in"ooh""aah" moaning and all that jazz make a lot of $$$. I've listened thinking it sounds so fake how are the customers buying this? But they either are fooled or aren't but just don't care. I can't do it to the level that some girls do but I have incorporated a bit more of that into my dances when I feel it's needed. Bottom line- if you think you look or sound crazy, don't sweat it. Most men are none the wiser.
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Pure
The name of the game is ACTING. Own your stripper persona. Keep in mind that you will
have to tailor it slightly to different customers. From my observations the more vocal girls as in"ooh""aah" moaning and all that jazz make a lot of $$$. I've listened thinking it sounds so fake how are the customers buying this? But they either are fooled or aren't but just don't care. I can't do it to the level that some girls do but I have incorporated a bit more of that into my dances when I feel it's needed. Bottom line- if you think you look or sound crazy, don't sweat it. Most men are none the wiser.
I guess I can do that! lol I've gotten over the fact that I have to act like I LIKE these assholes so I guess acting like I'm horny for them is one more hurdle I can jump.
I do the heavy breathing thing a lot and grind on the guy's crotch like I'm fucking him, but I'll try the moaning and see how that affects my income.
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So Fine Divyne
I fantasize about sex during lap dances and I let my breathing increase as the dance gets faster. I never get just one dance when I do the breathing thing. Also I touch my customers a lot during dances. Like their hands, hold hands when I do face away grind, rub neck, lay my head on their chest and guys love it. It makes things feel more intimate.
that's a good idea! I never thought about fantasizing while giving a dance. I bet that's a good way to zone out if the guy is nasty
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You don't zone out you zone in. If he seemed excited about your mere presence he's impressed by you so flatter him some. Make him feel appreciated. If he is lonely make the dance slower and give lots of eye contact and smiling. If he's gross, collect upfront, dance without looking at him, just watch his hands and after the 2nd verbal warning walk out with the $. Never zone out on a perv, you need 9 hands to tame those jerks. I danced for the perviest old guy yesterday as soon as I got to work. I knew the fact that every girl that sat with him kept leaving so soon was a clue. As soon as I sat down and he started talking and I heard what was coming from his mouth I thought to myself," I'm about to take this man's $ and get him the hell outta here cause he's gonna linger all day and piss everyone off. "
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xGigi
^I guess that's why it doesn't work for me. I don't LIKE doing it. sometimes I'll touch myself over my panties on stage and the guy's like "you must like that don't you?" I'm just like ugh no nevermind.
^^ Lol !! I have a hard time playing along to shit like that.. or when youre dancing and they ask if they turn u on or if they want you or better yet TELL you "I know I turn you on I can see it in your face, dont lie" LOL I had the same face for the 55 yr old man before you.
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xoAnnaBanana
Yeah I used to get really grossed out when guys would be like "I bet you like that huh?" but now it just amuses me because it's so pathetic they think that I enjoy dancing on them (the fact that it costs $25/song apparently couldn't be my motivation or anything). So in a very sexy/moan-y voice, I reply "Uh-huh" and I nod & bite my lip a little. In my mind I'm being so fake & sarcastic but it comes off as genuine enough in person. It's like an inside joke with myself I guess.
}:D
SAME thing I do..
I used to be grossed out and be like urghh.. had ahaaaard time making myself say anything ot that and felt dirty after if it was a really unattractive man. But I found that just Saying uhuh gets me off the hook of saying anything sexual and still gets him to hear what he wants while i laugh a little (at them but they think im just giggling because I'm so damn turned on.)