or husband. Story? Have you ever done it? What made you do it? How did it end?
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or husband. Story? Have you ever done it? What made you do it? How did it end?
I have never ever hit a man out of anger...but i have strong feelings when it comes to physical abuse of any kind. I feel that if a woman puts her self in a man's position i think she should be hit back by him period!! So i think it's pretty shitty for a woman to slap, kick , hit, punch or whatever to her man just bc she thinks he can't hit her back bc she is a woman. I can't stand woman like that. Like i said i have STRONG feeligs towards that kind of thing lol
Once. Ex bf was drunk and kept getting rougher and rougher "playing" with me till he knocked me off the couch and into the floor. He was sitting facing me with his back against the arm of the couch and apparently didn't take into account that I was a pole dancer who hit the gym every day. I calmly got up and punched him so hard he flipped backwards over the arm of the couch. Never hit me again.
I'm rather ashamed of that incident now. I would simply kick him out and not resort to physical violence these days. I'm a lot older and wiser now.
I punched my ex when he admitted he had cheated on me with a girl in our group of friends who was known to have herpes, and who had once said she was HIV positive. He hadn't used a condom.
Luckily, I went and got tested and was negative for everything. But still...longest weeks of your life, waiting for those test results.
I did once. One of the most humiliating moments of my life. It was out of anger. I immediately started apologizing. He wasn't mad, just shocked. We both were. Didn't stop the argument though, just put a 5 second pause in it.
He teased me the next day about having a good right hook.
Never did it before that and never will again.
I have and I feel bad about it. I have had a problem in the past with my anger and have hit quite a few guys. I rarely if ever talk about this, but years ago I slapped the guy I wanted to be with. Being the gentleman he is he never slapped me back (he never would) which made me feel even worse. I no longer hit guys.
This is one of those things that I just don't think is OK. My boyfriend is a foot taller than me and about a hundred pounds heavier but if I hit him it is still domestic abuse, even if it might not hurt. I would only ever hit someone I was dating in an extreme self defense situation. My friend was in a relationship where she would slap and push her man and never saw the problem with it. The guy was a good guy and never touched her back until one day he pushed her back. She was completley shocked but I was not. They ended the relationship and while violence in retaliation is not advisable I could see her man's perspective.
I would never hit or slap a guy unless it was self defense and absolutely necessary. Unfortunately, I've met way too many guys who think that if you slap them, it justifies them beating the shit out of you.
When I found out my ex cheated on me I never laid a hand on him. I pawned all his comics and video games, shredded his clothes, posted an ad on CL in the now defunct "Adult Services section" listing him as a submissive bottom male looking for older "Daddies" to dominate him. I listed his cell phone, email, work number (gasp! he had a job at the time) I also had pamphlets for herpes medication sent to his new bitch's house.
As for the bitch in question.....}:D I never realized how sturdy my Betty Boop lunch pail was. It was a square metal affair that I picked up at the swapmeet for $5.
Now I'm assuming this is out of anger slapping as opposed to "you're a dirty little whore, you want daddy's big cock in that tight little ass" accompanied by me in a schoolgirl outfit and him with a ruler right?:O
^You make me smile.
That's horrible. This is partly why I seek out slightly submissive men as partners. These guys don't hit at all and while they may be called wimps I prefer them to guys who are supermasculine which often includes abuse. I admit it's horrible I hit these guys but I often wonder if I would have hit a guy who would hit me back. I have been hit by a guy but he wasn't a boyfriend at all (he hit me for no reason really and I pressed charges).
You are funny. I once found out a boyfriend was cheating on me and I put his number on a gay dating site. He couldn't figure out why he was getting calls.
I did twice, same guy. Once when he was drunk in the middle of a party, in my face screaming about how I was a whore for sucking black cock (my ex bf was black) and I should've left him then. Then once again when I walked in on him with another woman.
Any relationship that is toxic enough for you to slap someone is no relationship worth having
Ugh, girls who hit their boyfriends, and are smug in the fact that they can't hit them back, disgust me. Seriously, it's never okay for you to hit your partner, at all.
Besides, if he's too much of a gentleman to hit you himself, you better pray he doesn't have a good friend or sister nearby to kick your ass for him.
I know if I ever saw a chick hit one of my friends or my brother, I'd freakin break her arm.
only punch i ever threw.
we'd hung out every night for over a week straight. then one night i didn't hear from him, so i'm like, ok i'll just chill with a book. i'd kinda been missing just chilling alone. it felt nice. i went to a starbucks, which happened to be really close to where he lived. as i was driving there, i start getting texts from him about how i'm fucking some dude, and he doesn't want to deal with my slutty ass self ever again. he's deleting my number. he was so wasted, but i didn't care.
i stopped by his place to give him the old "wtf?" and he goes off about what a bitch i am, how i'm no fun cos i don't drink, i need to loosen up, he hates florida, blahblahblah. so i punch him. and i go in his apt and knock over his rather large cd tower. broke many of the cases in there. according to him, i locked him out. nope. he was just too drunk to open his own door. lol.
anyways, the reason i knocked the cd tower over was because a couple nights before, he was wasted, of course. and he had a bunch of people over, and they were wasted. and he was doing his drunk walk and knocked his cd tower over. and because i was sitting next to it and sober, i grabbed it before it fell over. and that night he of course gave me a ton of shit for not being fun, since i had the nerve to pick up a lit cigarette from the carpet. yeah. what a killjoy.
he was one of those horrible mistakes. but i was on the rebound and he had a huge dick. the sex was fucking awesome. also, his cd collection was awesome and i was able to copy a few while we were seeing each other. mostly the sex. oh, and i loved his cats. they were so fucking amazing. i miss them.
he was one of those guys who just wants to fight all the time over nothing at all. all about drama. the type that bitches about girls being about drama. lol.
I have never hit a love one.. But does it count as abuse hitting a drugged up sister that was trying to set you on fire? In truth I think that was the only time she was sober.. I have hit guys before just cause they swing at me first.
OMG, I think we share an ex. Of course it was his roomies cats not his own, and they were stoner cats....and I had to climb through a 2nd floor window a few times to avoid one roomie that he was afraid would rape me (yeah, I was a drunk ass back then too, not as bad as he was, but bad enough to still climb through a window to avoid a rapist). Huge dick, amazing music collection (he was a DJ) and weirdness about me being sober during several impromptu get togethers and one party....check. LOL
not exactly a boyfriend, but yes I have. I'm not proud of it. I had a lot to drink and got really upset with him. I think when I did it I thought I was sort of being playful but I really slapped him hard. He had this really stunned look on his face and I'll never forget it. I felt horrible. Of all the people I have wanted to slap in my life I wish it hadn't been him. He was really sweet about it though and even apologized to me saying he'd had too much to drink too and probably instigated it, which I in no way expected him to take any blame for it at all.
^ He, he.
I dont hit or slap anyone unless Im prepared to be hit or slapped back.
Well..once a guy I was living with kept bugging me when I had just woken up, then after he tripped me I did..& after I asked him politely to stop numerous times
Another time, I hit a guy that hit me first (& I flew across the room, literally) with a heavy, old fashioned corded phone across the side of his head}:D
I've never been hit myself, and never hit anyone. I could never hit someone I love.
does this count ?
Years back my BF of the time and I were shit faced drunk. We got into an argument, and he slapped my face. I reared back, threw a full-on uppercut, and fractured his jaw !
Melonie, you are a badass... not that he deserved it but the fact that you could is awesome.
I have jokingly slapped a few guys, just a little *whap*, usually while stating "You're being an idiot", but never a full-on painful one.
I have a close guy friend who was apparently slapped extremely hard by some girl, and now he's super uptight about it... I forgot this one day and went to jokingly do it; he instantly went stonefaced, pointed at the door, and said "Get out". Took me 20 minutes to convince him I wasn't going to actually hit him...