Can some dancers just not work full nude ? Why can't I get over this ?
I don't know what the hell my problem is ..... but I get so scared when considering fully nude clubs! I guess I just feel like I don't WANT to show people everything I have when I'm already showing 98% or something.
This is getting in the way of going to some some of spots I want to go work before I retire from dancing though.
Can some dancers just not make the "now I'm totally naked " jump ? I've danced part time for a couple years and have only worked full nude two days out of that. I'm just not sure what to tell myself. I mean .... the clubs are dark . It's actually not the lapdances that bothered me much ( at $20 a pop .... I seem to care less ). It's stage that bothers me .
Tips ? Or do some dancers just not ever make this jump ? I'll probably just do it and not be right in front of people when naked on stage. I've always offered "less" on stage than other girls and I still make money. I just seem to be struggling with this.
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i work nude... and what i do to make it feel a little better on stage is i do not spread my legs..so it keeps it kinda hidden
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My first club was full nude and while I did work there for a couple of months, I probably wouldn't do it again. I just don't feel totally comfortable with it. Oddly enough, I'm much more comfortable with contact than being fully nude.
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sure some never can handle nude.
The most common reasons are wanting to have some modesty like you, or are uncomfortable with the look of their vagina.
or "that's for my mans eyes only"::)
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I've only worked nude (no topless clubs here) and it honestly doesn't bother me. A g string really isn't that much more clothing, and I also don't spread my legs or anything when I'm on stage - I'm actually pretty modest up there in comparison to other girls. My panties usually come off late in the song, and I'm often walking around toward the middle of the stage so even guys trying to get a peek by looking up don't see much. Even in dances, I keep the focus on my boobs and the rest of my body, no sitting down and spreading or anything.
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I was really scared but too. I never understood why a guy would want to see it. It was only when I had the guts to actually look at the guys on stage and saw how facsinated the guys were, that I was able to handle it. Who knows why guys like looking at it, but for what ever reason they do like to see it.
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I agree with Athena, first off.
Second, there is no need to push yourself into working nude if you don't feel comfortable. It is unlikely that the money will be good enough to justify a boundary that you feel personally. Although it is worth examining why full nudity makes you feel uncomfortable, as Athena did, if you decide that it simply bothers you that is ok.
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I've never worked at nude club because I often thought that it was something I wouldn't like. Strangely I've posed nude and done nude bachelor parties but never liked the idea of nude with the possibility of no money. I did get an offer at a nude club once but before I could decide the club closed anyway.
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I worked at a peepshow which was all nude, but glass between you and the custies. I jumped right into it, but I've got to agree with Athena, the way men look at your kitty is crazy sometimes. I remember guys who would just STARE at it, like it was the most fascinating thing ever put on the face of earth.
If you're not comfortable showing it you shouldn't have to, but I would make sure your club allows it before you start working. I guess if you want to ease into it, maybe keep your g-string on but pull it to the side every once in a while? Do you have any thoughts on why you don't want to be full nude? For me dancing with the glass helped, but I don't feel comfortable around custies full nude, but that is because I don't trust their hands.
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Athena hits it head on. While I agree that a g-string is a pretty small piece of fabric in terms of what it covers, there is a massive difference between what men are looking at with the panties on versus off.
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I'm with you! I hate that there's no topless clubs here, I have noooo problem showing my boobs, but my down there bits I see as a loooot more private. If I can get away with it I don't take my bottoms off on stage and in lapdances I never take them off before the end of song 3/beginning of song 4 unless a customer is pissy about it, usually they're not though. Once the bottoms come off I get really paranoid about contact (grinding/wander-y hands) so guys that let me keep my bottoms on longer actually get better dances because I'm more comfy. I also always wear lacey boy shorts though as my bottoms 95% of the time though, if I was always in a teenie little g string I might feel differently.
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I feel weird about full nudity, too, but I've never tried it. It seems like something you get used to with time. If you really want to check those clubs out, you might as well go for it, and if you don't like it you don't have to stay.
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I rarely take my panties off on stage. I agree with athena, guys always get creepier when they can see your pussy.
I had one guy scream "OPEN IT OPEN IT" to me one time. Hell. No.
or I hate when they're like "you missed a spot shaving" I. don't. care.
and if I don't show it guys complain or they'll ask stupid ass questions like "do you have a landing strip?" WHO CARES??!?!!?!?!!!! if I don't want to show it, that's my goddamn business.
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I can't do it. There are clubs right next to my house but they are full nude and I just would rather travel much farther to dance topless.
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I only worked in nude clubs... we dont have topless. I was nervous to in the beginning, but you get over that stage.
On stage, I dont spread, try to keep my underwear long as possible. We dont even get stage tips here, so I dont give a flying fuck to take my underwear for a room full of creeps. Some girls spread them often, and men sure love to look. They even stick their heads out more or even stand up to get a closer look. In the VIPs rooms.. I am always more cautious with the guys hands, cause when my underwear comes off, I dont like them moving their hands there. So if you consider, always watch their hands.
If you truely arent comfortable, then dont start. Its worth a try, and if you think you are better at either or, it wouldnt hurt to try. You do get used to being fully naked. Remember clubs are dark, and even when dancing men dont get a good glance of the kitty unless your higher than him. Give it a week or two and you'll either feel comfy or you wont, but by then you'll know where your standing point is.
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Some club managers turn the other cheek if a dancer chooses not to go nude. My club is full nude on stage but thongs stay on everywhere else. There are a few girls who don't take their panties off while on stage but most of us do. It really doesn't bother me, I don't mind working nude. Maybe you can try out the full nude club and see if management even bothers to get you to dance nude.
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The club I work at is full nude but I know there are girls including myself that never take their panties off... I dont even flash down there I always have a thong on... Even though a club is full nude doesnt mean you have to take it all off and of course customers will complain about it but who cares, they are still paying... I tell customers that I dont take my panties off and one time this guy told me "I bet the other girls who do are making more than you" wtf and I responded why dont you go see one of them then.... no time for the bullsh*t its my body
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Honestly... everyone's comfort zone is different.
Of course there are going to be girls who aren't comfortable working nude... but personally... I'm not comfortable ONLY being topless! :P
Custies seem to talk WAY less when they've got pussy to stare at.
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I work full nude, and I spend a few second spread onstage. It's LA, so I *have* to grind, but from now on I'm going to bring a drop cloth or only do it with my boyshorts. I'm fine showing my pretty pussy (I wish I still had the ability to blush). I don't really do the ranchy moves that I see the other girls do onstage, though. I play the elegant/smoldering card and do more pose-y dance-y moves. The kitty's out, though.