Mine knows to stay OUT. I won't even let him watch so he can jerk off (he wouldn't anyhow due to the nature of the majority of the types of shows I do).
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Mine knows to stay OUT. I won't even let him watch so he can jerk off (he wouldn't anyhow due to the nature of the majority of the types of shows I do).
Hell no. My boyfriend wants absolutely nothing to do with my shows. If he hears me moaning or laughing from my bedroom he gets mad, lol.
He does take photographs & he enjoys watching some of my videos though.
He doesn't direct, lol, but I have mine watch my shows occasionally and look at my website and profiles. I think it helps to get a man's take on the show and I know my husband will be honest with me about it.
I can't really imagine a girl actually being directed while on cam though. Does that happen? Maybe I'm naive but hearing a dude tell some chick what to do on cam would just scream pimp or slavery to me.
mine always lurks behind the corner when he hears im busy with a show. and then he always wants to talk with me during it, asking me why am i doing this and why am i doing that and how long has the guy been there and am i sure hes been there long enough to get naked for him. thats quite annoying in fact.
wow the reason I won't let mine is because I don't want him to laugh at me. I'm quite shy and really would not want to hear his honest opinion. He would love me to let him watch but he also wants it to be a sexy thing for us both... which it just could never be for me - but he doesn't understand that at all. Frequent fights on this one :D
well he thinks its kind of funny. and he finds it very funny that i wont talk to him when im in a private.
also, he is drop dead sure i do vanilla shows only.
i usually try to work during days when he is at work and im home alone, but this week he was at home all the time and down with a flu. and we live in a tiny one room studio apartment, well, not much privacy here if im not alone.
My husband is in the next room but he knows he's not allowed to come hang out in there with me. If he does pop his head in to tell me something and I'm in the middle of a show I immediately bust out laughand lose the pvt. Lol. Now he will ask if I'm in the middle of something before he comes in. Oh and I don't work with sound so he never hears anything.
My man knows that when the cam room door is closed he needs to stay the fuck out. If he needs to talk to me he txts me from the living room. He accepts my job but wants to have nothing to do with it.
yeah, door closed = gtfo! lol
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Thanks ladies. I asked because I once saw a post on another forum of a gal asking for help in improving her ratings & traffic , and when she mentioned that her husband directs her, we all advised her to tell him to get out of the hell out of the room because in the long run, looking distracted will hurt her performance. She said something to the effect of how its like he doesn't trust her to use her best judgment. He dictates what she does, how she is to do it, what she cannot do, etc.. She could only work when he was home too.
I know some men dream of being the "porn producer" and directing every move, but I think this is going too far because we aren't making a movie to be edited and later published. The money we make is for THAT currently streaming performance, and it can be VERY distracting having someone else in the room.
Mine knows to stay away. I usually cam only when he's out of the house, and when he's around, it makes it hardest for me to be vocal because I get self-conscious (and he'd find it hilarious). I know that if he were in the same room with me, I wouldn't be able to focus on the private. Plus, while he doesn't say it weirds him out, I know that it does.
Meh... I'm pretty open with mine. I prefer to be alone, and at times when I really want to get super focused I kick him out of the house for the day and what not, but when I'm just chillin with him and leave my Niteflirt listings on, if I get a call I won't kick him out of the room. He's never "directed" me, and if he ever tried to "direct" any aspect of my business I'd "direct" his ass to the door, but I mean I fuck this dude on the regular... I have no qualms about masturbating and talking dirty in front of him, for work. It's like, whatever...
I wouldn't say he directs but he has watched and I get a little embarrassed when he does...I have a hard time not laughing at times. He gets kind of jealous and possessive about my job once in a while, but overall he leaves me to my devices. He does tend to ask me questions about what I do, but I don't really mind since I think I would do the same thing, and it's kinda nice to know that he cares enough about me to get a little jealous. He has no need to though and I try to reassure him of that.
My boyfriend is totally respectful of my work and my time. (one of the many reasons I've been with him for so long). He gets the same type of respect from me by the way. :)
I have been very open with mine. In the beginning he would type for me and all I would do is pretend to type and look busy. The man has the best hustles, and I stole it all from him. He will pop in from time to time to make funny faces and it is hilarious! But for a good year he was doing all of the typing for me in my rooms, all I would do is the shows haha!
hell fucking no! but i do like it when hes watching...makes me hot