http://jezebel.com/#!5763290/woman-w...tempts-suicide
one paragraph, all kinds of fucked up.
why not be a better role model for your daughter by not attempting suicide because you feel like youre nothing without implants.
?????? whaaa???
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http://jezebel.com/#!5763290/woman-w...tempts-suicide
one paragraph, all kinds of fucked up.
why not be a better role model for your daughter by not attempting suicide because you feel like youre nothing without implants.
?????? whaaa???
It says she is bipolar, which was probably a major factor. I hope she can get the help she needs.
There appear to be lots of issues involved in this particular case ...
- Sheyla was an aspiring TV personality in Brazil, with her rising 'fame' fairly closely linked to her rising cup size. She later married a rich Texan, at which point no practical barriers remained to her pursuit of ever larger breast implants. However, fame wise, she was facing rising competition from another south american girl ( Sabrina Sabrok - image below ) who not only rivalled her in rising cup size but also had a famous south american rocker BF and some musical / stage talents of her own.
http://www.sitiofan.com/images/notas/667/sas5.jpg
- The US FDA essentially banned the availability of implants over 1200cc a few years ago ... thus all of this plastic surgery work was done somewhere in South America. As such, medical ethics questions versus a fistful of cash probably were resolved in favor of the fistful of cash !
- my purely personal guess is that both Sheyla's career aspirations and her ongoing relationship with the rich Texan had, at their core, a linkage to huge breast size. After repeated infection problems complicated her ability to regain her former huge breast size, this probably took a major toll.
- as to the 'World's Largest Implants', A.) this actually carries immense earnings potential for the girl who actually IS the biggest - thanks to a very affluent market of 'fetish' customer, B.) Sheyla was never even close to being the biggest, and C. ) there is now a new German model who has successfully crushed ( pun intended ) all competition !
Here's the current 'queen of cup size' ... courtesy of Beshine at
http://www.beshine.com/data/teaser/10/32810.jpg
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Damn how much do those things weigh, 50lbs? LOL
I bet she fell into depression because no surgeon in Brazil can fix what happened.
I saw the interview of her after the procedure and under her blouse it looks like all she has left are thick flaps of skin instead of breast. Remember that they didn't just remove the implants, they had to remove breast tissue. MRSA infections ain't not joke, there is no telling the extent of her deformity.
All she was talking about was getting the implants back ASAP. She would need reconstructive surgery (for unders) and maybe skin grafts (for overs) first. Then consider the fact that placing large implants would pose a serious HIGH risk to cutting off the blood circulation to this delicate tissue. At this point I bet the only thing a US doc would offer would be to reshape those skin flaps into some B cups. Shit, I'd kill myself too.
oh dear those pics, id be scared if she was to roll over they would explode.
like whoa
wow
ima keep looking
im tempted to post a poll no how many girls with b cups want to kill themselves
oh please as if life is about tits
I am guessing she not only lost her large chest but because of the staph infection lost her natural tissue in her natural breasts. She probably has some nasty scars to add.
This reminds me of when a good friend lost her right breast due to cancer. Totally different I know but the cosmetic complications are similar. She also wanted to commit suicide. Not because she had cancer but because she lost her right breast and was left with a nasty scar. She said she no longer felt like a woman. Her identity was stripped from her.
In this perspective I can absolutely understand Sadie Stein wanting to take her life. Her whole identity was directed around the size of her chest. Unfortunately she had everything to loose.
This is sad.
how sad that she feels she's worthless without her breasts. I'd be really bummed if I had to have mine removed and was scarred but is it worth dying? She's obviously got a lot deeper issues.
Unless you are there you really can't judge. I would probably feel the same way as you a few years ago. Caring about someone and seeing someone go through something like this put things in a different perspective for me.
She may have been bi polar but it doesn't say anything about her trying to commit suicide before this.
(and she has tried twice since)
im guessing plastic surgery really doesnt boost your self esteem after all....
As I have been involved around the periphery of the 'huge breast' fetish market, allow me to speculate.
These girls are not earning their money from dancing or escorting or any 'service' providing. They are in fact getting paying work for TV appearances, magazine modeling gigs, and other live performances ( probably adding up to $100k+ minimum per year) that are essentially 100% based on their breast size. No implants = career is over !!!
While I don't mean to be cynical, it's also a possibility that this apparent suicide attempt is in fact 'staged' ... as a way to garner a ton of 'free publicity' ... which would potentially lead to future talk show and other paid TV appearances etc. when Sheyla's ( already scheduled ) implant replacement is completed.
in this case it might be about a $250k per year income versus essentially zero !Quote:
oh please as if life is about tits
I wasn't trying to say that being a B cup is the end of the world. But she's in a special case. It's not like her implants where removed and now she's average. She said in her own interview (and I'm smart enough to pick up that she was speaking about these furture procedures very prematurely) that she has no skin. I take that to mean that during the removal procedure they removed a significant about of breast tissue to the point where just adding a XXL implant would be impossible. She spoke about having the skin stretched but in order for that to happen you would need healthy elastic skin, not scar tissue. In the first interview where she went shopping you could see that she was still wrapped up and had drains attached. No doc could have made this type of assestment until after being fully healed.
Anyway, with the skin being removed her only option would be to have skin transplanted from her back. It's the same type of reconstuction they do for mastectomy patients. The purpose of this is to give a woman back her shape under a shirt; not to look like a Baywatch babe. Even if she were to have the KKK implants put back in all the scarring would make them look like Frakken Boobies, not the shiny tanned buttery boobies she had before.
THEN keep in mine that she could also be missing nerve tissue. If she was to have the implants all kinds of shit would be going on and she wouldn't notice it until ANOTHER infection/complication set in too late.
I'm not trying to be a negative-Nancy but I'm looking at all the health complications that will happen if she tries to get these implants put back in. PLUS! Did anyone post the youtube vid she did where she talked about her bi-polar disorder. I'm sure a doc explained everything I just said and she had a nervous breakdown. Baby girl is sick and she needs mental help first.
I'm sure she was shocked that he looks did indeed fade with the COMPLETE LOSS of her natural breast tissue AND the large implants.
BUT IN THAT.. She is scarred permanently and lost part of her female identity. I think that is probably what she is more wrapped up in. Have any of you ever seen a scar for removed implants/masectomy or worse from implants removed from tissue lost from a deadly infection? There is permanent scarring that can't TRULY be fixed by skin grafting/transplants no matter how much is paid. My friend had a scar that looked like she was hit by a buss and they had to sew her up. The scar my friend had was only to one breast and this girl might have had it worse cosmetically.
You guys are talking about it affecting her income and how she should be prepared to be maimed by a doctor for just electing to do this surgery.
I also want to know just how many of you are prepared for the "next chapter in your life financially" if you loose your looks tomorrow? Saying she should have been prepared isn't really realistic. She might have been prepared for all you know financially anyway considering her earnings and the fact that she married RICH.
Her attempting suicide I really don't think was related as much to her money. Put yourself in her situation-really think about it because I think this is not a black and white scenario.
I'm not saying that she shouldn't be upset and depressed and that it wouldn't suck like hell. All I mean is that I hate it that the poor girl felt her life was over. And yes, I have met women with all kinds of scarring. One girl I know has a scar all the way down the front of her body from surgery. She recently had a child and is very happy. And another had a masectomy on one side and was such a fun, enlightened, happy person I wish some of it would rub off on me. Then there is the woman my ex represented in a case where she was VERY BADLY burned and he said she is one of the most strong and beautiful minded spiritual women you will ever meet and always has a positive attitude. There is a lot more to life than looks. I hope I never have to go through these things myself but it's never worth killing yourself over.
Once again this is based on how MEN will view her. Having small breasts or having a small penis? Which one do you think will be a bigger problem when it comes to sex?
That's the thing that many women forget.
If they're bigger because of enhancement you'll get the guy that wants to point them out and say how fake they are, are those fake?, how much did you pay for those or doesn't your back hurt?
If they're naturally bigger you'll get the guy that says I hate saggy breasts, are your breast saggy, or you should get a boob job to make them perky again.
If they're small then you'll get the guy that asks are your breast big, because I hate small tits, you should get a breast job then I'll spend money on you.
If you're right smack dab in the middle you'll get the hmm nice size but wish they were alittle bigger... ooh I thought they were smaller, I'm not into in between breasts. Those are perfect but your nipples look funny.
Bottom line ladies a guy that feels insecure will say anything nasty or rude. It doesn't matter your size for he took the time to look in the first place. It's about this guy feeling powerless for so many reasons, he's got a really small cock, he's a closet case, he's short, he's broke he's a 2 minute wonder, he can't keep it up. If it's all of the above well there you go.
I have met many men that have one or atleast 3 of these things cornered and this was their way of handling their own embarrassment. It's easier to sling it over their shoulder and hope it lands in your face.
When it comes to the ego of most men relating to any part of their sexuality, they are fragile. I remember sleeping with this really hot guy. Every time he came in 2 mins. I first tried to say ooh first time jitters and he was so ashamed he turned over and went to sleep. The 2nd time he flopped again and had the audacity to get drunk later that day and send me a text saying you're still very hot but could afford to gain some weight to get your "booty" back. As if I lost it some how. I tried with him one last time and still 2mins and done. I ended up going off on him and saying "how is this friends with benefits"? You're not a friend and where are the benefits? 2 mins? Wtf? I can't even paint my toes in 2 mins!!!! His response: We'll you feel that good.. yeah right! Stick to your hand and avoid wasting my time loser!!!!
I never got a stupid text , call or email after that. For I no longer trended kindly on his feelings.
So there you have it , men's insecurities will become your own if women let it happen.
When someone comes at you again, just think about where they are and why they are there. That 30 second thought makes me laugh at these guys every time.
I am glad these people can go on with their life with less emotional consequences and yes I have known similar cases. Being there and taking care of them post op may have yielded different experiences however. My friend wasn't willing to share with some of her best friends exactly the way she felt. To the outside world she looked brave and strong minded too.
Scaring can be pretty horrific in some cases though (like my friend) and I do have empathy for her. I wouldn't look down on anyone willing to take their life for whatever reason though because I am not in their shoes.
Just a few examples for those that know people but haven't actually seen some of the scars in person. Some after surgery scars too.
My friends scar looked like kim's (the fourth photo) but larger and was all the way in the front also with a half pocket of skin for a breast and no breast tissue. She went through SEVERAL reconstructive surgeries and had complications. Although her husband loves and supports her they no longer have sex because of the mental and physical trauma. Hopefully things will change for her in the future.
^ Thats sad.
while were at it how bout that british model whose ex hired someone to throw acid in her face, permanently scarring her and losing vision in one eye?
i cant really REALLY think how i would handle it coz im all about prevention and obviously wouldnt put myself in the situation where my implants could seriously endanger my life. i feel really bad for her, and my heart goes out to her but i maintain the viewpoint this could have been prevented as obviously she was in a dangerous situation if u.s. doctors refuse to go to the size she wants. and on top of that, many of these models things like this happen to work twice as hard to be happy and continue living fully. but then again i cant say much, im very thankful i havent been in that situation.
That third pic is brutal