I always see boundaries being mentioned here, but I'm curious...what are yours? :)
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I always see boundaries being mentioned here, but I'm curious...what are yours? :)
No vomit,, I refuse to vomit.. gross.. I get asked that every 20 shows.. terrible what are yours by the way hottie?
I don't stick toys in my ass. I only like anal sex when I'm high (and even then, it's a mental fantasy). For a regular my pinky finger might find itself in, but "oooooh, it hurts, I'm too tight and too young!"
When I work as a sub, since I'm a professional and not a full time slave, I will not submit to anything I don't feel comfortable with. Just as I would call "red" during a real life session, I will stop a session and ask that we do something else if I'm not comfortable.
If my little slaves try to top from the bottom, I'll tell them to quit it. If they do it again, they're gone. I only take the best.
My boundaries are VERY loose in that money speaks to me, very loudly.
There are things I wouldn't do for standard pricing that I will suddenly absolutely *love* if the money is right. These include:
-anal
-gagging/vomit shows
-playing the role of a submissive
-pretending to be younger than 16
- No toys. This one is really here because I never owned toys before I started working and didn't want to start using dildos on camera for the first time. In the meantime I bought a nice vibrator for myself, but didn't implement it to my shows because it's easier not to for now. This boundary is flexible, I'm not actually uncomfortable using toys, it's just easier on my pussy. :D
- No bodily fluids except pussy juice can be present. Oh, well, and I'm okay with guys who want me to drool on my tits. But in my room there is no pissing, shitting or vomitting. I just prefer keeping those things in the bathroom. Actually, I prefer not to vomit at all. I hate it with a passion.
- No roleplay that I'm not completely comfortable with and in my case that means no incest and no ageplay.
- No anal. I never had anal and I don't want to be doing it on cam before I actually have real anal sex. It'd feel all wrong.
- No fisting. I couldn't if I tried and I find this so unsexy that I never shall.
- No disrespecting me. I can deal with one or two assholes guys who will go private and say things like "Show me that ass" or "Lets see those tits" without saying hello by playing it off nice, asking their name and making them wait for me type a few more sentence before I show them what they wanted (hey, they're paying and I'm stalling), but repeat that once or twice or be one of those guys that don't utter a word upon entering my private show you'll just get kicked or banned.
It sounds like an awful lot of boundaries! I wonder how do I even make money? :D
Seriously, though, I still make money and I don't have qualms at the end of the day about what I did on cam because I only do things that I got my minds clearing for beforehand. Limits are not set in stone and some of mine may change in the future. I am not a prophet so I can't tell for sure, but these are my limits now and I feel good inside them.
Big toys. I just can't do it. Never.
I'll probably shit and rub it on my boobs before I shove something too large in myself.
LOLZ! I love that money "speaks" to you.
Actually, I'm along the exact same lines as this entire post, except I really cannot get into anal. I just can't do it and not for any price. My cams are much too clear to try to fake, as well. I think in the entire time I've been camming, I tried faking once and totally got called out. Its just easier to tell guys I won't/can't do it than it was to recover from the faker-spotter. I guess that's just a general boundary, for me. I won't do anything I would have to fake to pull off.
My boundaries would have to be.........
* No Vomiting
* No Pooing
* No Peeing
* No Animals
*No Children
*No Fisting
I have a big problem with this. I would never pretend to be younger than 16 no matter how much money I'm paid. That's just gross.
Animals and Vomiting are things I won't do in my shows.
I can fake Anal pretty damn good so no worries there. I get
requested for my Anal shows all the time and I've never had a toy
in my ass.
i dont squirt, do dp, fist or anything toilet related unless its really tame (letting them see me pee on cam etc)and of course no kids or children.
OMG you fake anal? and with toys??? im very extremely impressed. i can fake it in the pussy cat but not the ass. if you want would you please tell me your secret?
oh and in my show i will not do
anal.. cause i cant
children.. im way to close with my younger siblings and its just wrong
vomiting and now gagging due to the fact that i gagged in a show after i ate a lot..dumb
idea i know..and ended up throwing up after the show so no more of that for me.
nothing vulgar i.e.. pets, pooping, peeing, certain role plays
No anal.
Toy only rule for the pussy. Will not use things that are not intended to be there.
Nothing big, i'm tight.
Rarely watch others cams, mainly only friends or regulars and that's still rare.
Will not eat my own cum, I get asked it ALOT but it grosses me out.
Definitely no piss, vomit, shit etc ewww
I only do what I'm comfortable with &, to a lesser extent, what turns me on. This changes from customer to customer, from session to session.
Things I'll NEVER do?
- ass to pussy without putting on a condom, or changing toys
- hardsports
- say, out loud, or typed-out, that I'm under-age (that is, I'm happy to pretend to be under-age, but I refuse to say what age I am)
- anal without foreplay (it pisses me off that in porn, they so often edit out all the time spent leading up to anal, with butt plugs, fingers, lots of lube, etc. In my anal play on cam, I like to be instructional, in Tristan Taormino's model, so that if anything, guys present anal to their girlfriends as something fun that requires LOTS of trust & build-up, not something that they can jump right to)
- fist my ass (although I love to "try")
- um, eat my vomit (no, no one's ever asked me to do that, I'm just thinking of the grossest things I can)
And now I've officially grossed even my hardened-self out! Ha. Time for breakfast.
I went in with a vague idea about what my boundaries would be when I started MFC. I know thats not a good idea but I wasn't really sure what Id be comfortable with until I hopped on cam. At first I thought I would be non nude. Then I found I was ok with it so the second night on I was nakey and 100% happy with it. (I only cam on MFC and Im sure some of these things wouldnt fly on SM) Here are my boundaries:
- I do Nudity and light touching in public chat (no toys or cum shows)
- No zoomed in pussy or ass shots (I just think it looks unflattering when I see someone do it)
- No anal, fisting, vomit, ageplay, or anything else that sounds gross lol
- No Groups
- No Privates unless I know the guy well enough to feel comfortable and even then I dont do cum shows or play with toys
This is what makes me feel safe, comfortable and actually really happy. I love what I do. I have a ton of fun and have met some awesome guys on MFC who are happy to hang out with me and tip me even though Im not fisting myself with a cucumber.
I might not make it to Miss MFC but I don't want that anyways. I just want to make enough to live comfortably and buy myself lots of makeup and shoes.
yes i forgot to add that, i rarely zoom in on the vag. i dont like the way it looks either.
^^It reminds me of childbirth videos or something! I just cant bring myself to do it. I think guys "think" they want to see it...but then when a girl does it they are probably thinking...WHOA!! Coulda done without that lol.
Like someone said before, money talks. There's a price for almost everything. I'll even admit it, water sports are okay.. =X
No animals, no other people on cam with me, no anal.
Everything else is pretty much fair game and up to my mood at the moment.
Also, zooming in on the vadge. i used to never do it either cuz i didnt like how it looked. But ive found the guys like it a lot, and it's an extra 2 or so minutes where I can just sit there and keep the guys longer. So zoomin in is def apart of every show for me
No puking, but I've come close a few times.
No pretending to be a kid and thankfully no one asks me that
No meeting in person
No off site communication.
No scat/poo (it's not like I can do it on command anyhow..geez)
No bottles, baseball bats, massive toys for insertion in either hole
-no nude (I'm a non-nude model), which means no zoomed in vag, no pee/poo, no toys, etc.
-no pets!! My puppy is my baby and it makes me physically ill whenever someone asks if I'll do things with him. It makes me so sad to think people do that.
I'd be totally ok with vomit. I used to get carsick pretty much any time I was in a vehicle when I was a kid (okay, actually, I only recently got over that) so vomiting isn't a huge deal for me. I was thinking yesterday about making a clip of it but I don't know how lol do you just puke like normal? or is it supposed to be sexy? cuz that'd be hard.
I'm also okay with pretending to be younger. I rock the pigtails look lately, and everyone loves it (dirty perverts).
EDIT: not younger as in, young and don't know what's happening. but like, a slutty lg.
Oh man zooming in on the vag is something I've grown to fall in love with! I don't personally think it's sexy or flattering, but during long shows with boring guys omg yes! Moaning with the cam zoomed all the way in while texting... saved me so many times!
thats a good way to think about it haha.
Hahahha! Thats hilarious Shelley!
Hah! I zoom in on my vag ALL THE TIMEEE. Like Shelley said, it gives me a chance to make a face, yawn, fix my lipstick, laugh silently, answer a text, put lube on a dildo, that kind of stuff. In addition to it being practical I actually think it's sexy. Vulvas and vaginas are beautiful and they're all so different! I love going down on women and one of the perks of that is that I get to stare at their equipment. Ok, I'ma shut up about that now b/c I'm getting dangerously close to Virginia O'Keefe, "they're beautiful flowers!" kumbaya shit here.
Things I don't do on cam:
Anal -for special, treasured regs I might put a finger in but I don't want proof of it so I do it rarely
Any kind of human waste at all.
Big toys -fake it by holding a regular size toy up close to the fisheye lens and then acting like the thing is gigantic.
Roleplay that makes me uncomfortable
Couples shows
^ I totes agree. The pussy is a such a beautiful beast! Heh. Why's everyone hating on their ladybits so much?