more so face to ear.
Lol the whispering in the ears scares me =/
what are they even saying ( I mean i know the general idea) lol
But what if they try and kiss you =p
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more so face to ear.
Lol the whispering in the ears scares me =/
what are they even saying ( I mean i know the general idea) lol
But what if they try and kiss you =p
Do you mean during a dance? Or while you're hustling a customer on the floor? Personally, I don't really whisper in customers' ears, but I'm a pretty animated and bubble person so that wouldn't really fit in with my hustling persona. Lots of girls lean in and chat with customers that way though - they can be talking about any topic under the sun though.
As for kissing, just pull away when you see it coming. The longer you dance, the more in tune you will be with dudes trying to kiss you and you'll be able to dodge it before they even really try. Til then, I find it effective to put a finger on their lips and say that unfortunately it's not allowed in a flirty sort of way. Make it seem like you wish they could, but it's against the rules and that's what's stopping you.
When I worked, I was a definite hustler and yes I did the whispering as well. I whispered to guys quietly and sexy because what it does is that wisp of air hits a certain part of their ear and it turns them on. Every guy I dated hated me to whisper in their ear because they would be so turned on, So when I started dancing almost 7 yrs ago, I used that technique and it worked in my favor! Normally if I whisper something into a guys ear, I can usually get them up and not have to sit and talk one song. If I sit, I usually sit on the another chair or the arm of the chair to conitinue the whispering. I'm really sexy about it too and I'll keep the convo short and I talk only a certain time in their ear just to tease, after that I pretty much sealed the deal!! :)