Originally Posted by
sunnyb
I think you're looking at it all wrong.. How could you possibly find this so degrading?? Someone is saying you are beautiful and complimenting you. I HATE when women get so offended by something someone is saying when it's not even derogatory! The people aren't saying you are UGLY for a black girl, they are saying you are pretty or that they have never fucked a black girl, stop getting so offended by everything! This is a huge problem I have found working with other dancers, they get this mentality that everyone is out to put them down. People say asian people all look alike, mexicans all look alike, indian people all look alike, it's their fucking perspective! If you get compared to a celebrity, it's not always just because you are black! It could be because you have a certain facial feature that they identify with. God women don't be so close minded and turn everything into a race issue! Take the fucking compliment and realize that some men don't know how to really give a woman a genuine compliment. I'm sure you are a beatiful woman, but I can't stand when people have this attitude about race.
Those are not ignorant comments! An ignorant comment would be, "I don't want a dance because I don't like black girls" which I have heard several times! Or, "I would spend my money on you except you are BLACK!" ..Those are ignorant. You might get annoyed by those comments of how BEAUTIFUL you are for a black girl, but it makes YOU look ignorant to complain about that. I hate when people turn things into a race issue when it's not. I'm sorry you hear such negative, offensive comments, I don't know how any of you sleep at night hearing how beatiful you are. Sheesh.