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How to go from a size 4 to a size 0 without going anorexic??
hi girls, so i'm 5'3 and i wear a size 4, which fits my body type and bone structure. i'm trying to get out of private parties and move to a club setting. there is a really nice, upscale club about 30 mins away from where i live and i have been there as a customer a few times. the girls are gorgeous, and i think i'm good looking too, but they are all size 0 (not anorexic looking, very toned and "in shape" athletic looking). i'm not fat, but next to them i would look obese.
i don't know how i can get down to that size without going anorexic since the size i am now is where my body wants to be... i work out hard and eat healthy and still can't lose weight, my body stays right put...
i'm going in for a consultation on monday for zerona laser fat removal (guaranteed to lose 3 inches), i'm going to start doing hot yoga, and i need to figure out what else i can do.
any suggestions?
thank you love bugs <3
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Re: How to go from a size 4 to a size 0 without going anorexic??
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miss1dancypants
the girls are gorgeous, and i think i'm good looking too, but they are all size 0 (not anorexic looking, very toned and "in shape" athletic looking).
Are they 4' tall? :O
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I've seen pics of you and you look great! Size 0 is just ridiculous.. Size 4 is a good size to be IMO.. I don't know what I am in even #'s but I wear a size 5 jeans...LOL and I think I'm quite a petite girl. I am also 5'3. Dare to be the "curvy" one.. <3
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Re: How to go from a size 4 to a size 0 without going anorexic??
I'm 5'4" and wear a size 4 usually, and I have worked at an upscale club before. I doubt you need to lose weight as long as you are in good shape. I haven't seen many size 0 women that I consider to be "fit", they are usually just super skinny unless they're like 4'11" with a tiny frame.
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yeah, i'm 5'3 and wear a size 4 but these girls were like 5'6-5'8 and skinner than me (although extremely toned, in shape, and athletic).
i just need to figure things out... not sure if my body is made to be that small
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miss1dancypants
yeah, i'm 5'3 and wear a size 4 but these girls were like 5'6-5'8 and skinner than me
So what?
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Re: How to go from a size 4 to a size 0 without going anorexic??
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Will
So what?
i personally don't think it's a big deal, but if next to each of these girls i look bigger/fatter than them, then i won't make any money at that club... i'm gonna look like a tree stump next to these girls.
i've never worked in a club before so idk. i do well in PP's but i really want to get out of it, because of the awful scheduling, not knowing when you are working or when you are getting out of work, and the drama.
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Re: How to go from a size 4 to a size 0 without going anorexic??
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miss1dancypants
i personally don't think it's a big deal, but if next to each of these girls i look bigger/fatter than them, then i won't make any money at that club... i'm gonna look like a tree stump next to these girls.
i've never worked in a club before so idk. i do well in PP's but i really want to get out of it, because of the awful scheduling, not knowing when you are working or when you are getting out of work, and the drama.
Well, I'm not an expert on making $$$ in SCs. However,I do know different shapes are appreciated by different people, and your health/well being, more important then $$$. Work to be the best you you can be, working with the shape/body structure you were given, and care not about size 0's.
Good luck.
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will, i'd just like to say, thank you for sharing your wealth of information on your website, it is defnitely helping me to motivate myself to get in shape and lose weight, the smart way!!! thank you so much.
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Re: How to go from a size 4 to a size 0 without going anorexic??
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xoAnnaBanana
Strip clubs are all about variety. Just because you're not a size 0 (and you seem to think most of the girls at this certain club are) does not mean you're not going to make any money. Please be realistic with yourself.
I am a size 4 as well and my body seems to be content with maintaining that size/weight since I eat right and exercise 5-7x per week. I do extremely well at my club even with girls much thinner than I am. I like having curves in all the right places. As long as you're thin but toned, healthy, and happy that's all that should matter. Don't obsess over becoming a size 0 please.
Also maybe the reason you feel like you'd be short/stumpy compared to these girls is because you're not factoring in wearing stripper heels in the club. Those added 6-8inches of height make you look much thinner and more toned in my opinion.
that's true. i completely forgot about the stripper heels. they WERE wearing tall heels...
i'm done school on May 5, so i'm going to work out and try to tone up as much as possible. i'll go in for an audition sometime after that.
even if i get hired for a shift that isn't as lucrative, i can always work my way up...
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miss1dancypants
will, i'd just like to say, thank you for sharing your wealth of information on your website, it is defnitely helping me to motivate myself to get in shape and lose weight, the smart way!!! thank you so much.
I'm glad the info has been of help. ;)
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xoAnnaBanana
That's why I LOVE stripper heels so much... }:D They instantly make your body look better.
Also, I have seen pics of you and I have no doubt in my mind that you'll be hired for whatever the best shift is at your future club. Good luck though!
thank you!! :) all of these positive comments are making me happy and motivated :) i love SW and all of you SW'ers, thank you so much!!
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Well, I've worked in several different types of clubs, and in Colorado, which is like the anorexic stripper state I think, and have consistently noticed that on each shift there are a few token "heavier" girls. These girls are NOT fat, like between a size 4-8, and ALWAYS these heavier girls do very well. When everyone else is super thin, a thicker/curvier girl who looks good and can hustle will corner the market on custies who like that look and will spend all their money on you. So don't worry on comparing yourself to the girls who are thinner and focus on honing your hustling skills to wipe out the wallets of your type of customer. :) And I speak from experience, me being one of those "thicker" girls lol
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Re: How to go from a size 4 to a size 0 without going anorexic??
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Will
Are they 4' tall? :O
Uhm you dont need to be 4' tall. I am almost 5'5 and size 0 and my body is toned and looks very good and not skinny imo, and i still have curves. However my bone structure is made so that I am at a heathly weight like this. You (op) may look anorexic if you go down to size 0 and your body is not meant for it , and that, is not sexy! you have a certain body type that has an ideal healthy weight and try to stick with that and you will look and feel good. I still have to watch what I eat to keep toned the way I like myself but I find eating healthy and actually eating a LOT helps!! not as in a lot of good but little portions often, whenever i feel hungry i eat a little, and also drink a lot of water! :)
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I wear kids sizes. I used to be a 3. I spend 4 nights a week, 2hrs/night in the gym and I cut out all bs foods (no soda, no stuff from boxes, 100% all natural all home cooked food) and added high protein shakes to my diet. I'm highly toned so that's how I did it.
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Re: How to go from a size 4 to a size 0 without going anorexic??
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Originally Posted by
miss1dancypants
hi girls, so i'm 5'3 and i wear a size 4, which fits my body type and bone structure. i'm trying to get out of private parties and move to a club setting. there is a really nice, upscale club about 30 mins away from where i live and i have been there as a customer a few times. the girls are gorgeous, and i think i'm good looking too, but they are all size 0 (not anorexic looking, very toned and "in shape" athletic looking). i'm not fat, but next to them i would look obese.
i don't know how i can get down to that size without going anorexic since the size i am now is where my body wants to be... i work out hard and eat healthy and still can't lose weight, my body stays right put...
i'm going in for a consultation on monday for zerona laser fat removal (guaranteed to lose 3 inches), i'm going to start doing hot yoga, and i need to figure out what else i can do.
any suggestions?
thank you love bugs <3
Drugs. I suggest drugs......
;)
But seriously, I have had good luck with a zantrex-3 regimen http://www.zantrex3.com/zantrex.php. I lost a decent amount of weight, ate less, and gained a good deal of energy.
Yoga is good.. hot yoga supposedly helps you to eliminate toxins.... it is proven to get you a better stretch than non-hot-yoga. Yoga over time will be very beneficial to your muscle tone and flexibility but I don't know if it will make you lose weight very quickly. I still think it's a wonderful thing and you should really go for it!
Zantrex + lots -o- Water worked very well for me.
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Yoga= hot farts in a small crowded room... LOL!
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Sophia_Starina
Yoga is good.. hot yoga supposedly helps you to eliminate toxins.... .
Can't say anything about "toxins" but my experience with Bikram "hot" yoga was extremely positive. I entered as a yoga novice and a nonbeliever besides, and by the end of my year in the studio I was a massive fan, taking classes 3x a week. Best of all, without changing anything about my diet (okay, I cut way back on booze), I lost 25lbs and toned up dramatically. (Besides, the eye candy can't be beat. }:D)
Kicking myself now for falling out of my Bikram practice. :'(
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TequilatoKillYa
Uhm you dont need to be 4' tall. I am almost 5'5 and size 0 and my body is toned and looks very good and not skinny imo, and i still have curves. However my bone structure is made so that I am at a heathly weight like this.
That may be the case, and I was being semi sarcastic: I'd have to see a pic to actually comment on them thar curves of which you speak ;D, but what do you weigh? What is your actual bodyfat %? I suspect you would be considered medically too thin, which could put you at risk of osteoporosis etc later on.
Yes, some women can pull off a size zero at 5'5" and actually be healthy, etc, but it would be the exception vs the rule in most cases.
Subjectively, hard to imagine 5'5" size zero with real curves, but that's totally subjective on my part. ;)
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Will
Subjectively, hard to imagine 5'5" size zero with real curves, but that's totally subjective on my part. ;)
I was thinking the same thing.
I work with a bunch of 5'+ size zeros and not a one has anything I'd call actually call a curve. :P
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miss1dancypants
i personally don't think it's a big deal, but if next to each of these girls i look bigger/fatter than them
Unless you're actually flabby, or desperately need to tone up/lose fat... I don't think this should be a concern.
One very toned girl standing next to a smaller very toned girl... still looks like a sexy toned girl. :P
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like that and with a really round ass. And Yes ^^ like jayatee said NO SODAS, like, EVARR lol and processed foods are horrible, lots of vegetables and fruits while still getting adequate protein . I dont really like meat so Ill have salmon sometimes or beans, even nuts. Avocado is a fat I love though and it is very good for you! you still need to eat fat to be healthy just start eating the healthy fats!:)
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Re: How to go from a size 4 to a size 0 without going anorexic??
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Originally Posted by
miss1dancypants
i personally don't think it's a big deal, but if next to each of these girls i look bigger/fatter than them, then i won't make any money at that club... i'm gonna look like a tree stump next to these girls.
This is not a given. There are some THICK girls who make money. There are medium sized girls who make money. There are tiny girls who make money. I haven't finished the thread yet, but it might be worth dolling yourself up and heading over for an audition.
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I'm 5'4, 93lbs, and wear a size 1 in jeans (a 0 if my hips didn't stick outward so much). I would consider being any smaller than I am unattractive. This is just my opinion. I like my body now, but it took me a long time to accept it since I have very little control over how fast my metabolism is. Luckily, I am small boned and have little muscle, so my weight looks semi-natural on my frame size and not unhealthy. I don't recommend anyone who is not born with the frame structure that I have to be the same weight as me, even if the same height. It won't look good!
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I saw your pictures and tihnk you look great already! I do think a size 0 would look too skinny on you. I thought your weight was fine last time I saw your pictures, very fit and toned!
I am around 5'1 and used to be 85 lbs, that was size 00/0 for me!! Now I gained weight after 3 years and am around 100-105 and size 1, but only because my bone structure is build small. It really depends on your structure, I knew a girl who was 5'6 and wore a 0 but her hips were so tiny, her ribcage was also small, but she didnt look sick, but just her frame was built that way! I hated myself when I was size 0 everyone thought I puked up my food. I would suggest just to eat as heathly as possible and keep working out. I think you look great as you already are though.
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ugh... the girl i worked with last night is one of the worst girls in my company and i was annoyed that i was with her but whatever. at the end of the show in the bathroom told me "you know, i really like working with you, because you're so nice and energetic, and all the other girls are sooo tiny and i feel so fat next to them. i don't feel that way around you, you make me feel really confident!" :ouch:
starting to think i need a reality check.
i don't have any nude pics and the memory space on my phone is full but here are some RECENT pics of me. i wear a size 4 and never thought a size 4 would be considered "fat" but now i feel like i'm wrong. am i really a bohemouth??
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