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i hate talking to people
i have a feeling im posting all the same shit over n over so i apologise in advance
lately since im doing 4 days school 4 nights work i lost all of my [tiny tiny]desire to talk to people. this is not just limited to the club.
i havent spoken to many people in the course i started two months ago
i dont really feel like talking to customers
i dont talk to cab drivers
i dont talk to people in the line at the supermarket
i dont talk to friends friends at partys
i dont even feel like talking to girls at work heaps unless we go way back
i generally avoid getting to know people and mostly share myself with people i already established relationships with.
i think im just scared they will let me down like majority of them before who i got to know, trust, like and end up getting bitched out, backstabbed, singled out. used etc etc
either that, or im seriously seriously introverted
does anyone ever get like that?
just typing about it makes me feel like im wasting my breath
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Im like that too! I dont talk to people at supermarkets, I never people chatted up there... The only time I did was when one lady was going "Oi oi... look at the line up.. Excuse me can you get a 6th cashier... Did you hear me? (yelling) Can you get a 6th cashier here?" I had to tell her to shut up.
Anyway, If you are comfortable with being this way, then dont worry. You already sound busy that it seems natural not to want to talk to so many people. It could be a phrase due to stress with school and work.
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In the immortal words of Jerry Seinfeld:
"People - they're the worst!"
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This is off topic but I'm convinced that hell is a supermarket. People are so goddamn rude and obnoxious in supermarkets.
That's why I get my groceries delivered now.
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Yes!
I even avoid this certain fast food place because (although the people are friendly), they're too chatty while I'm in the drive thru waiting for my food.
"How's your day?"
"Um..good, thanks"
"yeah, this is some nice weather...."
when I just want my damn food and want to leave.
When I use to take the bus, I'd listen to my IPOD, so people would hopefully get the hint that I didn't want to talk. Listen to music, look out the window, yet people still tried to talk to me..wtf?
I don't wanna talk!
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_Avery_
Yes!
I even avoid this certain fast food place because (although the people are friendly), they're too chatty while I'm in the drive thru waiting for my food.
"How's your day?"
"Um..good, thanks"
"yeah, this is some nice weather...."
when I just want my damn food and want to leave.
When I use to take the bus, I'd listen to my IPOD, so people would hopefully get the hint that I didn't want to talk. Listen to music, look out the window, yet people still tried to talk to me..wtf?
I don't wanna talk!
^Yes.
Let me guess....Culvers?
"yeah, yeah, yeah, Mark...just give me my fucking double butterburger and shut the fuck up"
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Just got back from Wal-Mart...
Is it just me, or does everyone gain like 50 white trash points simply for being inside that building? Their IQ's drop, too. I always feel horrified when I get dragged into that place, not least of all because I feel like I've gained those same 50 white trash points for my mere presence. And the snippets of conversation I overhear in that place are unbelievably moronic.
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I never want to talk to people. My sister said hi to me earlier, and I was like.. what? What. Do you want something? Okay I'm going upstairs.
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Kisca
Im like that too! I dont talk to people at supermarkets, I never people chatted up there... The only time I did was when one lady was going "Oi oi... look at the line up.. Excuse me can you get a 6th cashier... Did you hear me? (yelling) Can you get a 6th cashier here?" I had to tell her to shut up.
Anyway, If you are comfortable with being this way, then dont worry. You already sound busy that it seems natural not to want to talk to so many people. It could be a phrase due to stress with school and work.
sometimes i feel bad blatantly ignoring people and walking off but yeah i really really cant be bothered at a pointless conversation with someone im never gonna see again anyway.
no wonder im horrible at my job
lol
now im procrastnating talking to my classmates too coz its such a huge of a task. maybe one on one eventually.
yeah i mean if im chatty n bubbly at school then leave and be chatty n bubbly at work when im naturally introverted i get so exhausted and become really rude real quick
im srtof glad im not alone with this
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Yeh I also feel like never talking to people. I just dont feel the need or I always feel like I might say something wronge so I rather not say anything at all. SO YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!! lol:)
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lemiwinks31
^Yes.
Let me guess....Culvers?
"yeah, yeah, yeah, Mark...just give me my fucking double butterburger and shut the fuck up"
lmao, only been there once, but yeah...they were chatty too.
Freaking Taco Bell though! Just give me my damn nacho supreme! :D
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I'm that way, too. Because I have to be social with all kinds of personalities at work I get tired of people.
Mostly guys try to talk to me. The kind of men who have no manners or common sense to realize I'm too young for them and they look like creeps for bothering me. They are the kind of people who need attention from a pretty girl so they will just aggravate them at inappropriate times like at the dog park or the grocery. I hate that they come and talk to me without first saying hello and introducing themselves. I'm tired of it and next time it happens I am going to call them out.
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wow yes ive become so antisocial.. I got my own place, got rid of the bf, rid of the roomate and im SO HAPPY ALL FREAKING ALONE! I wish I never had to leave my bed. I sound like a freak but I love laying here (like i am right now) in my big comfy bed with my duvet and laptop and just watch shit and read SW. Ugh I want very little human contact.!
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MarvelGirl
This is off topic but I'm convinced that hell is a supermarket. People are so goddamn rude and obnoxious in supermarkets.
That's why I get my groceries delivered now.
I spent 3 years of my life WORKING in those hellholes!!!
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It's even so bad, I turn my IM thingy off on FB....I don't respond to IM'S on ICM, I don't own any instant messengers....I hate all that crap too.
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^ Yeah, I've never been into the whole IM thing online. Whenever I do bother to log onto AIM, I get like five messages at once saying, "OMG, u havent been on in 4EVR!" And then I log right back off again. I go through this process every six months or so.
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LMAO, i love this thread. Ppl think I'm mean or shy because I don't talk much. But truth be told I don't really like ppl, they annoy the hell out of me. The want to talk your ear off and want to talk about everything like the color of the grass. I just want to tell them to shut up and leave me alone. I only like talking to ppl I no and that takes time cuz i have to actually like them before we become cool.
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I'm kind of the same way. I don't HATE making random small chat with people or anything. If someone initiates I will respond and actually try to keep the conversation going (as opposed to giving boring one word answers) but I don't go out of my way to do it like a lot of people do. One thing I've learned that it's important to at least pretend give a damn - in the real world that is. I try to at least put in the minimum effort to keep social relations functioning so I don't get deemed as a weirdo or loner (even though I'm both to be honest lol)
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xoAnnaBanana
I feel like silence is golden. I HAAATE getting my haircut because I have so much hair that it takes forever and every hairdresser I get always wants to talk about my fucking life story. I'd much rather dive into a magazine, hell I've even contemplated listening to my ipod during a haircut. I don't want to come off as totally rude though.
Especially when it comes to stripping, TALKING is the hardest part for me... :-X
i feel you +1
i normally had trouble scheduling hairdresser appointments coz i was always working so when i would go after a night/week of work, i would be tired, grumpy, sore whatever and they would try take up the time by useless chit chat. usually if u get a magazine they take the hint. lol i wouldnt mind listening to my ipod if i wasnt terrified my earphones might accidentally get snipped. theres only one ONE!! hairdresser i like talking to at the alternative salon coz he always has really entertaining fucked up shit to talk about rather than blah blah hows your week what do you do omg i love those shoes etc
yeah same with the stripping, sometimes i like weekends more coz it doesnt involve me having to force conversation for heaps long. it helps if i get drunk. i already hate/have trouble talking to randoms, especially if theres nothing we have in common. i need to like sit down and write myself a couple of scrips to use and recite them instead of forcing conversation
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Me too, that's one of the reasons why I went into IT. Turns out you still have to talk to people though. It also makes getting my haircut unpleasant. Fortunately, being an IT guy, I am not constantly approached by people in public wanting to talk to me. LOL
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Lol I work in IT too and I know exactly what you are talking to. A lot of people who talk to you are usually irritated too so that doesn't make things easier.
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I hate talking to people I don't like. Why is it the people that you don't like are the ones who try the hardest at making conversation or joining conversations already in progress? This is one thing I hate about the dressing rooms at work. The other phenomenon I have never understood is why so many women talk to me in bathrooms. I have never understood this at all. Like chicks that stare through me at work, in restaurants become the sweetest chicks in the world in the bathroom. However, IRL I got a great deal on an apartment this way at Ruth'sChris. ITC I have gotten connected to VIP $ this way. Some girl compliments me then says her boss/bro/cousin would love me and that I should come with her then leads me to table.
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in london no one really talks to each other much, recently I have been looking online for a new room to rent, some of them look nice until you see "looking for someone who is social, don't want a person who stays in thier room all the time when at home, im thinking wtf don't you just want to share the rent?, don't you have any friends ?
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welcome t my 'friendly and sociable' hell then. my housemate said she was kinda social and liked to have a friend or two over.
well that was her interpretation, it turned out to be full blown houseparties almost every night.
never sharing house again. the last thing i want is to be pestered at home