Complete newbie needs lap dance help/advice!!
So, I am completely new to dancing. I start at the beginning of May because I need to take some time to get my stamina up, I tend to run out of breath really quickly so I need to take some time to improve that before I start.
Now to them main issue.... I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO DO A LAP DANCE!! I've tried looking on YouTube for girls doing good lap dances but have yet to find anything helpful. I heard some talk that there's different positions to use in dances, but I have no idea what they are!! I just want some advice on what to do while I am giving a lap dance. I really want to give the customers a great experience and I want them to feel like they really enjoy my dances! If there's anyone out there who can help me, I welcome any and all info!! I want to practice lap dancing before I start so I won't feel uncomfortable in my movements with the customers. PLEASE HELP!! Thanks girls!!
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This is the best videos I've found on youtube, from a girl that teaches lap dance lessons. Hope this helps.
If the link is no good, do a search for
StripXpertease
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Thank you! This is the best video I've seen yet!
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thanks for that video! i've been dancing over a year and have never seen a couple of those moves, crazy.
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I wish I could do a Skype class on stripping and how to do lap dances. That would be epic.
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All the guys I've spoken to prefer slow dances. I know some of the girls really go at it but you want them to *ahem* lastt. Right? That way they buy more dances. Make sure you smell amazing and that your skin is soft. You have to experiment and develop your own person style. That video was great. I don't know how much touching it permitted at your club.
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Thanks everyone, all the advice is really helpful!!
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Go to the club and buy a lap dance. That's what I did and it was pretty helpful.
I also practiced on my boyfriend and he actually gave me some really good advice.
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There's some great advice in here. Before I started dancing I bought lap dances at various clubs and the tip about smelling amazing rings true for me--the best dance I had was from a dancer who smelled GORGEOUS. It kind of made the whole dance! Which brings me to a follow-up question (not to hijack this post, please respond to the original poster first): What do you ladies do to keep smelling so good? After hours of dancing I feel like I smell like a football player and it always makes me think about that yummy-smelling chick... How did she do it?
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I agree, go do some field research.
I'm pretty new to dancing too, and I was curious about lap dancing before I started. I went to a club that caters to locals and bought a lap dance. Afterward, I chatted with the dancer and admitted I was doing job research. She actually had a lot of good advice for me.
--This is important though - getting a lap dance can be the best way of finding out what goes on, but if you TIP YOUR DANCER WELL she'll probably be a lot more open to giving advice etc.
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mediocrity
I wish I could do a Skype class on stripping and how to do lap dances. That would be epic.
You probably could... there are other instructors who do things like this with online strip/pole classes. At least it would be safer to teach strip/lapdance classes online than it is pole classes!