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Do you cam on your real bed?
I'm starting a poll. Do you cam on the bed that you regularly sleep on?
I, for one, would not cam on my real bed. Not only would the bed be wicked gross all the time because my lube gets everywhere, but I don't think I'd feel comfortable sleeping in an area that I associate with camming. I guess it's that separation I need from work and personal life.
ETA: I'm asking because I'm moving soon and I'm wondering if (if I can afford it) I should get an extra bedroom for work or find a place with enough room for a camming futon or something.
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I didnt see the poll, but...yes I do. I dont masturbate or do cum shows though so I guess just being nakey on my bed isnt to big of a deal for me. I do know what you mean though about separating cam life from RL. So I say, do what lets you keep your sanity :)
There are certain songs that remind me of my boyfriend or that I consider "our" songs and while I love them, I dont play them while Im on cam. I know thats super weird but it makes me uncomfortable and I dont want to start associating my fav songs with pervs lol.
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Sometimes I cam on my regular bed, and other times I cam on my pink futon. I bought the futon with Walmart e-gift cards that a few of the MFC guys sent me. :)
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Do whatever you need to do to keep your sanity. However, I cam on my real bed. I don't see why not. I'm sure the average person changes their sheets frequently. I change my sheets before and after I get on cam. So question, Do you have sex on your real bed? You know where you get your fluids and SOMEONE else's fluids on the bed? If you don't feel gross about having sex on your real bed and you feel gross camming (where it's just you by yourself) then somethings wrong for sure because that's even worse *gasp*.
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TouringGirlfriend
So question, Do you have sex on your real bed? You know where you get your fluids and SOMEONE else's fluids on the bed? If you don't feel gross about having sex on your real bed and you feel gross camming (where it's just you by yourself) then somethings wrong for sure because that's even worse *gasp*.
I have sex on my bed but the fluids don't get everywhere. I don't get wet and DF cums on his stomach. Easy clean-up.
Camming, however, gets messy no matter how hard I try to prevent it. It's the lube I use and how sweaty I get because I shut the bedroom door and windows before working. Fans don't help much.
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SpeakngEZ
I have sex on my bed but the fluids don't get everywhere. I don't get wet and DF cums on his stomach. Easy clean-up.
Camming, however, gets messy no matter how hard I try to prevent it. It's the lube I use and how sweaty I get because I shut the bedroom door and windows before working. Fans don't help much.
I don't use lube (too sticky ew), I don't sweat (used to but I saw a doctor for it and that's gone) and I keep the air conditioner on. If it makes you feel better then get n extra bedroom or whatever for cam but to me I think it's a bit ridiculous when all you have to do is change your sheets. Why can't you just got to walmart and buy new sheets? I don't get that.
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I cam from my regular bed now, but when I lived alone and also when my hubby and I lived in a bigger house, I used to cam from a separate bed room. Basically that was just for ease because he could go to bed when he wanted and also so that I could keep all my camming stuff in one room without mixing it up with my normal wardrobe etc. I think a separate camming room is a luxury. If you can afford the space then that's great and it's a nice thing to have (don't have to pack up all the cameras and computers etc at the end of the day if you don't want). But, it's def not a necessity.
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cherriebomb
I didnt see the poll, but...yes I do. I dont masturbate or do cum shows though so I guess just being nakey on my bed isnt to big of a deal for me. I do know what you mean though about separating cam life from RL. So I say, do what lets you keep your sanity :)
There are certain songs that remind me of my boyfriend or that I consider "our" songs and while I love them, I dont play them while Im on cam. I know thats super weird but it makes me uncomfortable and I dont want to start associating my fav songs with pervs lol.
Then what do you do? just stand there naked?
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I used to cam from my bed, but now I cam in my 'camming camper' (that's my new title for it) so i use the bed in there. But I agree with BritishBecky, it is a luxury to have your own space,- at all -, let alone just for camming. But I would have no problem going back to camming from my own bed, I actually enjoyed it much more, because I could watch tv, and just be comfortable.. the messy thing wasn't really an issue.. when I am alone camming outside, I get the 'ugh, i'm actually WORKING' feeling a lot.
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So I will repeat it again: Do yall not change your sheets reguarly? You really have to cam from ANOTHER BED? Someone explain this to me. Is it a mental thing? Because if the reason is the grossness of juices (no comment there) then why the heck don't you just change the sheets? Walmart and Ikea has sheets on special ALLLLL the time!
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Lmfao TG...funny you mention IKEA! As I was reading this I was thinking of how I do things, well, how I used to anyway...
Ikea (I heart that store...heart heart heart!) has very inexpensive duvets and lots and lots of covers to change them out with that are not pricey and some are in sexy patterns. I would have a duvet for personal, and one for play...and several covers. If I had a "messy" cam night, Id pull off the cover for laundry, and put a new one on. There were times Id have to do that a couple times a night because of the lube factor. At the end of the night, Id just toss my personal use duvet on the bed and curl up....the sheets never touched or seen for cam at all.
Near the end, I did away with using a duvet for cam...I just have some sheets that I use just for cam because of the colour or pattern, looks good on cam and its less work than changing a duvet cover out (even though the duvet is so much more comfy to be on....which might explain why I fell asleep waiting for shows though lol)
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LOL. I wash my sheets!
Have you ladies heard of Anna's Linens? Very inexpensive store for sheets and comforters. But is Ikea and Walmart even cheaper? What about Target? I get things from there too.
I cam in my room on my bed, and also in my office which has an L shaped desk, and a futon. I get bored so I change my location sometimes. Mainly in my office though, because my boyfriend hogs the bedroom :(
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I have a little room off my husbands office that I cam from. Its basically only big enough for a futon mattress and a walk way. I wouldn't have a problem camming from my real bed if I had to but sometimes I cam when my kids are home. Even though dad is sitting right next to them they will still hunt me down and ask me for stuff. Unless I'm in the basement in my "office" They aren't allowed in the basement and they know it. They think I do ChaCha all day.
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I live on my own with a roommate who has another room so there's really not enough space/privacy to have another camming bed. Like Cherrie and TG said, whatever it takes to keep your sanity but I think one bed is plenty. If I lived with my husband we'd have a second bedroom so that he could sleep while I cammed in the second bedroom but otherwise, again, like other posters have mentioned, change your sheets. Just think about the bundle of money you'll save.
I mean, I know you said you don't but I get body fluids on the horizontal (^-^ and sometimes vertical) surfaces in my bedroom during "real sex". Know how we solve that problem? laying down a towel. I cam with my duvet folded at the foot of the bed, sitting on a towel on my top sheet. If the towel soaks through I take the top sheet off and replace it too. I have lots more top sheets than bottom sheets.
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lol!! It would soooo be a luxury to have a 2nd bed to cam from - it's a convenience thing more than mental I think. I squirt so it gets crazy messy, and while having a 2nd bed wouldn't stop me from cleaning up, it would be easier to have a setup space that's easier to clean than the stuff I prefer to sleep on! Does that make sense?
If I had a bed exclusively for camming, I'd skip sheets altogether, put a waterproof cover on the mattress and just use a thin, cute quilt, so that after work all I have to do is wash the quilt and the mattress cover - it's a big pain in the butt to totally redo the bed twice every work day!
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i have my own room for camming but if i didn't i would cam on the couch or something. i like my bedroom to be a place to relax/sleep and not work.
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I have a separate room I cam in. My husband has a day job so he's usually in bed when I'm camming & I"m not going to be like "sorry babe, you gotta sleep on the couch tonight because I'm working" lol
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Originally Posted by
SpeakngEZ
I'm starting a poll. Do you cam on the bed that you regularly sleep on?
I, for one, would not cam on my real bed. Not only would the bed be wicked gross all the time because my lube gets everywhere, but I don't think I'd feel comfortable sleeping in an area that I associate with camming. I guess it's that separation I need from work and personal life.
ETA: I'm asking because I'm moving soon and I'm wondering if (if I can afford it) I should get an extra bedroom for work or find a place with enough room for a camming futon or something.
put extra sheets on the bed that is simple. why spend more money on another room or bed.
If you think fluids from sex don't get every where then you really don't watch CSI.
You can change lubes there are 1000s of them out there, getting sheets on sale and change them frequently. open the window when your camming like really, why keep the place stale and stuffy if you have a window.
When I was in the bachelor apartment I would came on the futon the bf would sleep behind me and Iw ould came same way cover him up from head to toe and he slept fine.
then now I am in a one bedroom I came on my bed, when I was escorting I ahd clients here and changed the sheets.
what you should be worried about is changing the sheets often, cleaning your toys regularly, and having the right lube that does not irritate your skin. or melt your toys.
You can not use silicon lube wiht silicon toys your skin will feel like it's on fire and the toys will melt. learned that the hard way.
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I started doing it in our extra room, which basically just has a desk and junk. It was nice having all the stuff in there, but doing it from a desk wasn't working well for me. Now I do it on my bed, and just try not to cam too late during the week so bf doesn't get pissy. I can't squirt, and I usually just use enough lube to get me by. I never get wet, unless doing something on cam with bf, so it's not a problem.
IF i could afford an extra bed or couch, I would totally have it in the extra room.
In the summer we are moving and wont have an extra room anyways.
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TouringGirlfriend
Do whatever you need to do to keep your sanity. However, I cam on my real bed. I don't see why not. I'm sure the average person changes their sheets frequently. I change my sheets before and after I get on cam. So question, Do you have sex on your real bed? You know where you get your fluids and SOMEONE else's fluids on the bed? If you don't feel gross about having sex on your real bed and you feel gross camming (where it's just you by yourself) then somethings wrong for sure because that's even worse *gasp*.
lol TG - But do you have sex for 8-12 hours a day ! }:D}:D
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i cam on my real bed. i wash my sheets often and i cover the sheets i sleep on with a big, thick sheet just for camming to catch all the oil/lube/etc. i hate camming on my bed, though (i think it's a mental thing - sleeping the same place that i work) and when i move this summer i want to get a futon for the living room and cam there instead.
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I definitely use my bed. I throw down an extra duvet, then put down a giant bath towel the same color as the duvet (white), then toss that into the laundry after each show. It didn't occur to me to use a towel until my first oil show, so I was just switching out duvet covers all of the time, but when I noticed that on cam you couldn't even see the towel, I starting doing that more often.
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ukmissy
lol TG - But do you have sex for 8-12 hours a day ! }:D}:D
Whatever UK missy! :-*:-* Stop being mean to me. Lmao
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TouringGirlfriend
Whatever UK missy! :-*:-* Stop being mean to me. Lmao
Mean* is my middle name .
I was going to ask what he* uses for such staying power ! :D