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Agreed. It's all too easy to get wrapped up in our own problems and forget how good we have it compared to others sometimes.
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For real.
I always remember that some people in other countries don't have a pot to piss in, they literally squat over a hole in the ground, they never had a/c nor slept on a mattress.
As I said in another thread, we are spoiled rotten.
Modelchick, HIV is not the death sentence it used to be, so hopefully things won't be so bad.
Hugs.
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I think that's just it though - Everything's relative , and people with REAL problems , don't bother wasting time moaning about them , because their problems are too grotesque to be alleviated with a good winge !
I accept my problems are nothing on the grand scale of things, but lord do I love a good moan with the girlies :-) - The problems are that inadequate , that having a good moan about them , can help make them better ! Minor problems solved.
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Sorry to hear that. However for every cause there is an effect.
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We live better than King Louis XIV
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There are these two young fish swimming along, and they happen to meet an older fish swimming the other way, who nods at them and says, "Morning, boys, how's the water?" And the two young fish swim on for a bit, and then eventually one of them looks over at the other and goes, "What the hell is water?"
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i thought this topic would go far, considering we are complaining about nothing?, afraid if camming is going away, getting older, fatter, shit like that, it takes a toll on you and really makes you second guess your self,
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Sorry to hear that as well Modelchick.
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I agree we complain to much. We don't have this. We don't have that. My P**** hurts blah blah :)
But then I know of people in my life who went from making over 100k per year to collecting unemployment, and not know what the next step is. Yeah the economy has affected most of the world, but how many people have a job they can work 24 hours in a day, if they so choose.
Some poeple getting laid off. Some people fighting for 40 hours a week, and only getting 20 hours a week. Just need to re think how we behave sometimes. You know?
Btw, thx for this thread. I was just complaining to my friend about some dumb shit a minute ago. Time to snap out of it! :)
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*Aria gets slapped in the face* thanks, I needed that! You're right, any problems I have is due to my own laziness! I need to get off my ass and on my knees. (no not like that u pervs :P ) on my knees as in gettin to prayin and thankin the gods for all that I have. No more squandering my blessings. Thank you Universe!!!
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WORD, aria and busty. I needed this thread, too.
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I didn't need this thread to know that yall complain too much. About everything too. :P
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*smacks TouringG upside the head!* tee hee hee, run away!
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Arialandre
*smacks TouringG upside the head!* tee hee hee, run away!
hahahahaahahahahaahahahahahaahaahaha :P
Twas just a little jokey joke.
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Ms.Lacey
We complain that we make less than $1000 weekly.
The men get on our nerves.
I have cam burnout.
Blah Blah Blah
We have a lot to be thankful for because these problems are miniscule compared to the real issues of others. I am writing this because of what I just read in the diary.
That"Model" Chick I am very sorry to hear about you sister being 17 and HIV positive. PM me anytime if you need support.
Wow sorry to hear this "The Model Chick". I agree that HIV today is no longer a death sentence. I wish you and your sister the best in getting through this situation.
I do want to add that everyone has the right to complain and vent. I think it's healthy to get shit off your chest no matter how small it may seem to you. This is a great place to do this and wow was I going crazy when i couldn't get on the site. Glad the bandwidth has been extended.
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Thank You everyone for the encouraging words!! :)
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cherryblossomsinspring
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I do want to add that everyone has the right to complain and vent. I think it's healthy to get shit off your chest no matter how small it may seem to you. This is a great place to do this and wow was I going crazy when i couldn't get on the site. Glad the bandwidth has been extended.
Of course we do but there is a time when you need to say thank you. I always remind myself that there is someone that is going through something 10x worst.
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sometimes i avoid certain threads, knowing its going to be negative,fussing and fighting and of course complaining lol, i wish we can just make this part of the forum positive and inspirational for others
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exquizitt
sometimes i avoid certain threads, knowing its going to be negative,fussing and fighting and of course complaining lol, i wish we can just make this part of the forum positive and inspirational for others
^ This x100 ;D
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true. sometimes we complain for nothing.. not enough money from the sites, this and that..
but..
here goes my COMPLAIN spree:D
I feel as if the sites we work on ( btw they get their fortune cause WE work for them, so its a 50-50 in my eyes) are not "friendly"/supportive enough..
1.IE. MFC does not have a customer support for models phone line.. someone tell me WHY? I will tell u why. cause they dont want to bother talking to us.
2. IE. streamray's customer support for models is always clueless as to whats going on. they dont even know about some features inside the models account.
3. boyfriends/husbands STILL complain about us doing what we do ( cause we have " no job") but yet they do expect us to pay half the bills and do most of the housework.. not to mention those who have kids, I cant even imagine the stress...
4. we STILL, after years and years of adult websites existing on the internet(everyone using them TOO, free or not free),... we STILL dont feel comfortable telling people what we do...
how unfair is that? You all think of porn/watch porn, and you all make a fuss about it when you are told someone you know does it?!! thats 100 % BS!
5. posing for Playboy is SO cool and glamorous, but spreading our stuff on a webcam is trash. How come?!
6. if you;re a REAL porn actress you make more $ on the sites then if you are NOT a real porn actres.. in fact, you are adored and loved even more by the same people who yell at a non-porn-actress that she is a whore for doing what she does...Home come?
7. FAKING IS STILL THE WAY TO GO! and that is mentally tiring!!!!! faking what.. pretty much everything.. put me now, right this second, in front of my webcam, THE REAL ME, no makeup , the hair is a mess, not in the mood to smile like a happy cow, and deff, not in the mood to spread ANYTHING, and see if I make any money........if I get yelled at by guests calling me ugly and giving me advice how to be a "better cam girl". regulars asking me if i feel " ok" or.. "whats wrong?"..... see me yell at everybody to fuck off!.. ya, that will work just great!
8. I AM TIRED OF SITING IN THE HOUSE, ALL DAY, EVERYDAY!! Tired tired tired!!
9. I AM TIRED of thinking of online friends as real friends LOL Real is when you can touch it !:P
10. I am sooooooooooo tired of typing!
Complains anyone?:P
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Ok, so Im the ONLY one complaining!!
DAMN!
where is the support? lol :'(:D
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LOL, this thread is for appreciating what we have, not complaining. I can make a big long list of camming pet peeves, but when I find myself complaining a lot I tell myself, "Okay, stop camming then, get a job at Wal-Mart for $8/hr." And then all of a sudden camming doesn't seem so bad afterall. ;)
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^ I say the exact same thing!! It's pretty much a mantra for days when I don't feel like camming.
Actually my bf has brought up quitting camming a few times, and I always retort with "Why, so I can work at Walmart for $8/hr??" And that shuts him right up.