I need opinions on whether I should do this
I know there are a ton of threads from ladies who thought about getting into escorting as a newbie, or returning to it...and everyone has there own story and circumstance. I am thinking about going back into escorting, mainly for financial reasons of course. I have worked as a stripper in the past before becoming an escort, so I pretty much know the ins and outs of both businesses. The only problem is, I'm not sure if it's the best thing for me to do right now. For one, I do have a part-time job as a filing clerk at an employment agency (which doesn't pay much) and sometimes I fill in as a receptionist, so I do come in contact with supervisors and their bosses from the area and out of state, not to mention a host of people who come in looking for work. I just started thinking what if a guy wanted an appointment and upon screening, it's someone that I know. It freaked me out.
I don't want to lose my job because it is income for me...it's just simply not enough. I start classes next week so I have to start saving up for school. That's more important to me than the car issues that I'm having right now:( When I was escorting, starting out I was a backpage girl (before I joined here and knew that I was so much better than that) and became a mid-high end (if that makes sense) escort. After some relationship and drug/alcohol problems, I got help and got sober and I quit the adult business altogether for a long time. I just didn't want a part of it anymore...but now because I need the money, I'm wondering if I should do it again. I'm also going to try my hand at webcamming and pso work. Only thing is, after I left my ex and got all of issues solved, I moved back in with my parents so I could get back on my feet. I'm still living with them today (but currently looking at apartments) and I don't want them to find out what I'm doing. I just need some advice on what to do. Like I said, I know there are a ton of threads on this topic and everyone has a different story. It's not that I don't know about the business because I do. I'm just wondering if you ladies think it would be a good idea to do so.
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wow you are all over the place with this post....i dont really know what you are looking for or asking....
if somebody here tells you to do it are you going to listen to them?....if somebody here tells you not to do it are you going to listen to them?
are you wanting a complete stranger on an internet forum to make this decision for you?....i really think this is something you need to decide for yourself....
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Escort negs:
May meet someone you know/ruin current employment, fix = locate clients outside your known areas if possible.
Drugs/alcohol, this may or may not be an issue but if you feel you will fall back towards these then I suggest not doing it.
Webcamming/pso negs: Parents may find out = be more discreet :D Alot of performers have to hide the job to family in the house so it can be achieved.
If your able to get clients from places you know 100% (or as best as possible) will have no comeback from you (abit farther a-field?) and your not going to go back to drugs/drink again then I would really consider doing it again + doing webcam/pso on the side aswell from home :D
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I personally think you should try camming first. It's what I do, but then, I don't care about anyone finding out. The world is full of judgmental people. However with camming, you aren't at risk of getting an STD. You don't have to touch anyone and once you start getting regular clients, it can be smooth sailing. I'm sorry to hear about all your personal problems, and I hope you work through them. If you ever need anyone to talk to, feel free to shoot me a PM.
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Sylvia
wow you are all over the place with this post....i dont really know what you are looking for or asking....
if somebody here tells you to do it are you going to listen to them?....if somebody here tells you not to do it are you going to listen to them?
are you wanting a complete stranger on an internet forum to make this decision for you?....i really think this is something you need to decide for yourself....
I wasn't asking for anyone to make a decision for me. I was simply asking for opinions on whether I should or not. I know that I'm the only one who knows whats best for me, but since I have a job and have not been in the business for awhile, I was just asking whether or not it would be a good idea to get back into it. That's all...
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NicoliciousDoll
I wasn't asking for anyone to make a decision for me. I was simply asking for opinions on whether I should or not. I know that I'm the only one who knows whats best for me, but since I have a job and have not been in the business for awhile, I was just asking whether or not it would be a good idea to get back into it. That's all...
First of all, I would not be explaining myself to trolls in my own thread. Of course you have to make your own decision ultimately, but there is no need to feed the one troll who stumbled in here!
With that being said, it seems like you really don't want to escort, but need money soon. Why not try camming without sound. If you need money quick then join one of princessjenny daily pay groups. Myfreecams, streamate. and adultwork. I recommend working streamate because they have a lot of traffic and you will make a lot per day, and get what you need, and not have the worries of escorting, if escorting is not what you want to do. ;)
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BustyAmeera
First of all, I would not be explaining myself to trolls in my own thread. Of course you have to make your own decision ultimately, but there is no need to feed the one troll who stumbled in here!
With that being said, it seems like you really don't want to escort, but need money soon. Why not try camming without sound. If you need money quick then join one of princessjenny daily pay groups. Myfreecams, streamate. and adultwork. I recommend working streamate because they have a lot of traffic and you will make a lot per day, and get what you need, and not have the worries of escorting, if escorting is not what you want to do. ;)
Thanks BA...I know I didn't have to explain myself but it just kinda came out. I knew that someone was going to say something like that::)
I mean, its not that I mind escorting if I had really good clients. I had a reg who was awesome and treated me really well but that was so long ago...I don't remember his number or e-mail so that sucks:( I've been lurking the threads for the past few days now on webcam/pso work so I think I'm going to give it a go. I just need to get toys and whatnot and then I'll be set. I do occasional fetish work (mostly foot fetish stuff) but I haven't been into it these past few months as I was before then. I'll try that out and see how it works. :)
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Ok damn this is my last post for HOURS! Stripperweb too addictive...smh
Anyway, you do not have to have toys right now. Just sign up for streamate tonight, and get the process rolling. If guys ask you for toys say something like "I don't have any toys right now because I'm new, but my fingers sure know how to work my pussy" LOL. And play away, dance, titty play etc. A lot of girls here will tell you that they sometimes don't even have to use toys. You will still get shows. Plus you use to be a stripper? Use that! You do foot fetish? Add that in your profile. Lots of customers are into that. Good luck and don;t sweat the small stuff right now. Just sign up and start getting paid You will be so glad you did.
Ok I really have to go now for real. It is about to be busy on cam soon. Just make sure you use PrincessJenny's link so you can get your daily pay! Good luck to you!
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BustyAmeera
Ok damn this is my last post for HOURS! Stripperweb too addictive...smh
;D Isn't it though??? Thanks again for the advice. I'll be sure to do that later on tonight. I can't wait!
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^^What she said. I've never used toys & probably never will. No audio either,so it can be done. If you get with SM,just be sure to use the encoder. From what I've read,waaay more traffic!! I just don't have the patience to figure it out(damn that thing).
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No sound is when you're just typing back and forth right? Sorry...I know that's a stupid question.
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Yep thats it. Some guys hate it of course,but the ones who really want a show/like you,will stay ;D You just have to really sell yourself...
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That"MODEL"Chick
Yep thats it. Some guys hate it of course,but the ones who really want a show/like you,will stay ;D You just have to really sell yourself...
Oh goody. That's perfect then...that way I can have my privacy when I'm working. So what would I say if a guy says that he wants sound?
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:D Just tell em you don't offer it right now! Thats what I say. They can decide weather or not they want to stay. We're not making them spend their money on us!
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I think it's naive to think you can cam and hide your identity. If someone knows you, they are going to recognize you. I think the danger isn't so much from someone finding out NOW because they can't really out you or they out themselves. The danger is in your recorded shows being online forever and someone outing you in a few years when you've moved on to another area in your life.
If I were in your situation I would work the day shift at a strip club. Your parents shouldn't wonder what you are doing during the day (for the whole week it will take you to make enough to move out) and if you work at a good place they should crack down on people recording you.
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The OP has a problem w/privacy?? I need to re-read...
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goreantx
I think it's naive to think you can cam and hide your identity. If someone knows you, they are going to recognize you. I think the danger isn't so much from someone finding out NOW because they can't really out you or they out themselves. The danger is in your recorded shows being online forever and someone outing you in a few years when you've moved on to another area in your life.
If I were in your situation I would work the day shift at a strip club. Your parents shouldn't wonder what you are doing during the day (for the whole week it will take you to make enough to move out) and if you work at a good place they should crack down on people recording you.
I am worried about that for sure. Just last week me and a guy friend were talking about that. He has a friend who did a porn scene 10 years ago and she found her vid on a site. Different scenarios but same case...so I know it can happen. And even if I block people from my state, I've lived in a couple other states as well and still know alot of people. And as far as the strip club goes, the clubs here suck! They're mostly bikini dive bars with the exception of deja vu. But I auditioned there once and didn't get it. There are a few other clubs that I could try, but if I want to go to a good club, I would most likely have to work in Dayton or Columbus. And I can't really drive an hr back and forth especially with me starting school and still working at my job.
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That"MODEL"Chick
The OP has a problem w/privacy?? I need to re-read...
Lol...I think she got it mixed up somewhere...I think she was talking about the escorting subject and me coming in contact with someone that I know/work with...
But I never said anything about privacy and camming.../:O Maybe she got it confused when we were talking about camming with no sound and me saying that way I can have my privacy...from my parents...lol. Ah...now I'm confused.
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If you do not like the sex but you need the money, Do NOT escort!!! You have to be a big time freak like me to pull it off and still be sane. Good luck!
Ooh one more thing.. you already have a history with drugs and alcohol? Do not do it!