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I don't know where to start!! I can't believe your parents treat you that way. Its not like you're sitting on your a** doing nothing at all. You pay rent which means you should have a say. You couldn't just borrow money from one of those payday companies. You have paystubs to prove that you're working and you're 21+...shouldn't be a problem. I understand the religion part very well. If my mother knew what I was doing,I'm almost certain she'd try to throw me out! As far as the router situation. Well I PAY the cable/internet bill,but she did buy the router ::) I was going to say if you were staying,take over that bill. That way you can be online as much as you damn well please!! I wish my mom would try to cut me off while I'm paying the bill. I love her,but I would def be telling her some things! The whole curfew thing? I'm kind of shocked,but you're leaving so that won't be a problem anymore. As far as privacy well my mom used to do the same thing. Then I had a child and we came to an unknown/unsaid agreement: leave my sh*t alone!! I guess that is true we are living in their house. No I would NEVER go out smoking and drinking,then come in at 4am and think everythings peachy. Thats kind of inconsiderate. Especially if you know how "God crazy" they are. You could have just said you were staying the night with friends,did your dirt,then came back,but I'm not here to preach so... I know you're upset right now and probably wish I would just stop writing(ok I'm about to). Seriously though if I were in your situation,I'd borrow the money for rent(for the parents) and keep the $750 to move. Pay the loan off asap. and move on with your life. I know getting a loan isn't always easy with no credit...or bad credit. Do you have a car? When I first started camming(about 3 months go) I din't have any money!! Always crying because I didn't know what to do about money. I took out a car loan. They didn't run credit,I guess since they have your car key,thats all that matters! I borrowed my money caught up some bills,bought a cam(;D),got my a** to work and now I'm paying them back with no problem. Hope it all works out for you...
OH jeebus christ.
Ditto Model Chick. Borrow the money for rent, even if you have to draw up an informal written doc from someone who you are close with. Do what you have to do and get out. The cam like a banshee until you're on your feet.
I had ridiculous parents exactly like this. They forbade me to sleep in my room, the forbade me to sleep in the rest of the house.... so I'd hide and sleep somewhere after they went to bed, and get awoken in the wee hours of the morning for "breaking the rules". yikes.
Do you plan on maintaining a relationship with your parents after you leave? I'd give that some thought.
Best of luck to you, girlie
I am so disgusted it's not even funny.
I wouldn't have paid them rent. Seriously. It's your parents. If they can act like parents, you can act like a child and lie about how much money you have.
I'm sorry that you already gave it to them.
I'm sorry they are.. so.. ridiculous.
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RUN!! Run as far away as you can as soon as you're able! Wow.. I know they're you're parents and all but, wow.. I'd gone batshit crazy already. Props to you for not going off the deep end...LOL..
Omg Hayden, I'm so sorry. I believe that if someone is in their parents house then they should follow rules, but this is just ridiculous, and you are paying rent as an adult. I am willing to bet there are some landlord tenant laws that they would have to actually abide by. Anyway, take your 750 and RUN. See if you have any friends who would be willing to let you stay ASAP. Maybe they could take a couple hundred just to start? In a week or 2 with hard work you will be able to help more. But dear, you have got to go. It is time.
Oh and don't spend that $750! Keep it to yourself, and get on the phone and make some plans NOW.
OMG! They sound like awful people.
Please use what money you have to get out of there and get your own place.
i second what everyone else has said! you can deal with your relationship with your parents once you are OUT of this awful situation. the main thing is to get out of crisis mode with this and get your own place, whatever you have to do. do you have friends around you who can support you emotionally through this process, if not financially? for me in situations like this that is a huge help - building a local support network. sending love and prayers that everything works out for you.
honestly throw up "deuces" and get the fuck up outta there no offense but your parents are a little of there rocker, but arent all of em :)
Hmm well not mine thank goodness, but I feel for those of you whose are. ugh.
and back to HaydenBlue, I am so glad you can get out of there soon! I'd cut contact at least till they have a while to maybe regain their sanity but definitely approach with caution, maybe even plan to move again when you can, as far away as practical to put some distance between you and those psychos. ugh.
You'll build yourself a cushion soon probably, but the most important thing is getting far away fast.