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How fast do you get naked when you cam?
Just curious as to how fast all of you ladies strip down to naked when you are camming on sites like Streamate and such? I have never been much able to tease without feeling like I am stalling and I am always afraid the guy will get pissed and leave if he thinks I am stalling so I usually have my bra off within the first 30 seconds and usually my panties somewhat off within a minute....
is that too fast? I would like to be able to milk them for a little extra time but not if they get pissed that I am stalling!
Also, do you just strip on your own or do you wait for them to tell you to take something off?
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I like a slower tease/seduction... I take about 5-10 minutes to strip out of my outfit. Slow sensual movements and talking to them... none of them ever just bolt because I don't pop tits out in 1 minute.
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Wow it sounds like you have your game plan lined out great! I wish I could do it that slowly, I should practice more.
What do you do when you get the ones that say "show tits bb now"...lol?
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I don't get that a lot... the slow sensual movements and talking to them they get into it... if they do say "show tits bb", i keep going at my slow sensual pace and turn it into 'How bad do you wanna see my big round tits baby", etc. LOL Build up momentum and they seem to spend more.
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i try to stick to the structure of talk for 20-30 seconds, dance around for about a minute, show tits for another minute after that. dance around some more now with just undies for a few mins...and im fully nude at about 2 songs? I don't know.. im tryna think cuz im thinkin on mfc. So i'm not fully nude in a regular private, definitely not before 300 tokens (15 dollars). Yeah that's about where exactly. I don't do a lot of privates though, so i take my time. I've never really had people complain about stalling either.
What I'm figuring out now that has been helping tremendously and am getting complimented for by guys (even if its taking longer to get to toy) is working the angles. If you have an external camera, you can buy so much time with out it really being stalling. So when I show tits lets say...illl show from few angles, zoom in..left one..right one..both...from an angle looking up from my stomache. Then lick left, lick right...spit on nipples..rub...what the fuck ever. Then same thing for ass. Ill show wat it looks like when im sitting, bending over, clapping it, zoomed in, other angles..etc etc.. In a thong, out of a thong. I'm telling you, the more you practice and make it look hot and not like us just zooming in and wasting time...it just looks like a more creative, better quality show.
I don't do privates a lot but I'm at least pulling in 50 bucks per pvt. SM is a little different and my pvts there averaged about 10-15 minutes but they came more often.
A good line i say when it seems liek they're in a rush is... sometimes ill just stop and be like, are u in a rush? we can do this later...Which will either prompt them to shut up or leave. Or i'll say things like...why so fast? you may be a master of speed masturbation but i'm not..etc..etc.. It just drives me crazy when a guy wants to spend 20 minutes talking to u in free chat, than tries to jack off and ejaculate as fast as humanly possible when in private. Go at your own pace. I always felt the need to rush cuz i didnt want them to leave, but when i started to slow down and really feel like, you guys need to just shut up and enjoy what i give you...my shows started getting longer. Works for me...but i'm the kind of girl that when they ask what i'm gonna do for them in private.. i always say, watever the fuck i want to do.
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Great advice ladies, thanks much. I definitely need to practice some... I think I will tonight. I love the "I'll do whatever the fuck I want" attitude :) I need more of that! I'm tired of bending over backwards to please these guys...heh.
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Remember on sm the first 30 seconds are free so definatly don't start getting naked before you've counted down the first 30seconds in your head. Depending on the client and the mood i'm in I tend to keep the first few minutes to strictly talking, wiggling and teasing with lots of smiles and giggling. But thats who my online persona is.
The slower you go, the longer your show end up being but just pace yourself for how long you feel the show should be. I tend to get a bit bored at shows over 20minutes so i try to plan for 10-15 minute show and space out my 'foreplay' time and my 'mouse clicking' time appropriately.
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I'm all for a slow pace, but what often ruins it (for the models and members) is when guys pay for a private session and the model is on another site, holding out for a private there. Perhaps the best advice would be to make sure you are giving the guy all your attention. As long as your interacting, he won't have an instant "flight" response, lol.
Lots of guys enter a private session... already fluffed :p but the serious guys, the ones that are regular, or at least part-time spenders, want that private tease. Odd as it might seem, the idea of going private and having a woman that your attracted too just fling herself back, spread eagle, and finger-bang herself like there is no tomorrow isn't sexy at all.
A strip tease doesn't have to be slow to avoid being naked... you can have your top half off giving a glimps of nipple from time to time, and as noted, moving the cam to show off your legs or something (basically doing a mini tease). I think models need to have an extra outfit or two for privates, something to put on that they don't wear in public chat (guys do like to see a woman getting dressed, so think about your b/f sitting on the edge of the bed, waiting for a night out, and make his balls a little blue, lol).
Not sure if any models have done make-up sessions... I tried it (as a member) many years ago and even though I never even touched myself, it's something I still remember. The key is that whole getting ready to go out thing, and the more it feels like your talking to the guy as if actually going out, or really, actually know him, so the conversation is more natural.
I feel like I should mention this, but lots of models get "toy use" wrong! If you can ride it while sitting-up on the bed, don't zoom all the way in because seeing you "on top" is the best part. As long as we can see the dildo magically vanish and re-apear, we kind of know what is going on. I'm also a fan of the dress shirt, fully unbuttoned, but still on. When your on your back trying to squeeze the BlackJack9000 in as far as it will go, keep in mind that it is probably blocking the view. And showing ass is nice, but if you have any boobs at all, please pose so there is lots of side boob (and under boob). If you finger/toy like that, press your face into the bed as well... get that "just had sex" hairstyle going :)
Moaning, slow gasps of air, and heavy breathing near the end... ya know, stuff that happens when the sex is good, is just as important as anything you do visually.
hmmm, I feel like I am giving something away, but if your on a laptop and can move it around (built-in cam or not), for special sessions I recommend some cuddle time. Put the cam near the edge of the SIDE of the bed, and climb onto a body pillow, still naked (and hopefully a little shine from the great effort you put into it), where your on the opposite side. Talk about how you will sleep well tonight, how "this" makes all of the other time working on cam worth while, etc.
Point is, you don't have to stall if your doing things to make the show better, and being sensual/erotic is something guys don't really get to see in videos, so play that up!
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Mistress Anika
I tend to get a bit bored at shows over 20minutes so i try to plan for 10-15 minute show and space out my 'foreplay' time and my 'mouse clicking' time appropriately.
I'd say 12-14 min for guys that just do their thing and leave, and 18 min or more for the ones that stay in private while they "clean-up" after themselves. I can't even watch a 35-40min porn video without "skipping thru it," lol. But then, those are never done well, and shouldn't be so long in the first place.
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WOW!! Thats great advice! Not trying to start trouble or anything,but you wouldn't happen to be a female...would you?? You sure write like one /:O
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Great advice I am going to do this for sure!!!!
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That"MODEL"Chick
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WOW!! Thats great advice! Not trying to start trouble or anything,but you wouldn't happen to be a female...would you?? You sure write like one /:O
OMG! lol... it's all good. I am, in fact, a man. It's actually a shame I can't share more details about myself on a personal level. Having read so many posts on here I feel like I owe all of you that much, but outing myself (I'm not gay!) isn't a good idea right now. Someday I'd like to write a lengthy "full disclosure" but we never know in what direction life will take us next.
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^^No need to out yourself was just curious :D
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I was wondering the same thing. Great advice, I will be sure to try this out tonight!!
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OMG you ladies freaking rock! I took your advice tonight and did over twice as much money as I did last night! :) I did work slightly longer but still, I did way over my goal. I still can't seem to tease for more than about 2 minutes but that's more than the 30 seconds that I was doing so I am working on it! Definitely want to try it out a little more tomorrow night!
I love how nice and helpful everybody here is, that's really neat. Most girls online that I have known have been real bitches and I haven't seen that at all here!
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I'm a terrible tease, so combined with tiny tits and the fact that I can squirt pretty much on command, I don't waste time teasing for group
But I always take my time in exclusive - if they want exclusive, they want something far more entertaining
For group I like to get going asap so guys end up staying because they are mesmerized LOL
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dixievista
I'm a terrible tease, so combined with tiny tits and the fact that I can squirt pretty much on command, I don't waste time teasing for group.
Well instead of the pose where your showing ass and some side boobage, flip that around and let your hair hang down, lower your shoulders, and let your back/ass stick-up higher in the background. Would also recommend a good oral show from that position.
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TXCamgirl
Most girls online that I have known have been real bitches and I haven't seen that at all here!
Guuurrrrllll,you haven't been here nearly long enough!!
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Busygirl
Squirting on command? How you do that? I never squirted in my life. I saw lots of girls faking it on cam, but i would like to learn it. Any advice?
I hate when people come in my room (not even a "hi") talking about "Do you squirt?," and then when I tell them no, they either post a sad face or they say some shit like "Oh, that's a shame." *rolls eyes*
Some guys are just THAT picky that they'll leave your room if you're not one of the squirting chicks. LMAO.
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OK, this all sounds like great advice.....however, as a newbie, and a very curious, determined one, I have been doing a lot of spying on sites, both as a free....and a paying member lol, with very very limited funds.....I dont understand this LONG TEASE......I sure as HELL tried that and it doesn't happen, they get you in pvt, and jerk off in less than 5min...., if you are extremely LUCKY you might get a few more min out of them.....I can SEE when girls go pvt......and when they go back live, and personally this is what I have seen. Oh, and the few short shows I BOUGHT as a custie, nude in LESS than 30 seconds.......
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^^I think it has a lot to do with standards...and prices. If you have higher prices,you'll attract decent more patient customers. Not the "oh bb I'm about to cum even though its only been 2minutes" kind of guys :D
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for me it really depends on the guy....sure sometimes you get the guy that pops a load in 5min and thats ok cuz he had a good time and he will keep coming back to me. sometimes guys wanna get they're feet wet with you first before getting longer prvts. i don't TRY to draw out shows. i just go with the flow, act natural, have fun and do what he wants me to do (within my standards). guys get really pissed off when they are feeling like they're minutes are being wasted or drawn out which then makes them feel used. i get regulars who come back for longer prvts cuz they want more of me and cannot get enough. you have to play up your persona, create that fantasy world around them and they will become so consumed by you that they gotta have more of you. i just had a guy in prvt last night for 2 hours and it was a blast! let me tell you it really works, the prvts are getting longer and we are all having fun:)
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Busygirl
Squirting on command? How you do that? I never squirted in my life. I saw lots of girls faking it on cam, but i would like to learn it. Any advice?
I first squirted while drunk on a 1night stand that of course became more after that LOL! It took a couple years to learn to control it, and since I didn't start masturbating until I started camming, it then took more time to learn to control it without the aid of a cock & man.
tips: be horny, drink water, use a shower curtain and towel to protect your bed/furnishings, and saran wrap to protect your laptop, keyboard, etc. I just try to not aim for the camera too much but when I do, guys LOVE IT when I have to stop and wipe it down lol.
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TheBrownFox
I hate when people come in my room (not even a "hi") talking about "Do you squirt?," and then when I tell them no, they either post a sad face or they say some shit like "Oh, that's a shame." *rolls eyes*
Some guys are just THAT picky that they'll leave your room if you're not one of the squirting chicks. LMAO.
seriously?? that's ridiculous. you can always fake it with an eyedropper. although I ADVERTISE as a real squirter (show my whole body on cam) so that's a big part of my schtick - but if that's what they want, give it to them! boys are stupid, especially with a hand on their cock.