custie keeps bugging to meet OTC
HI i guess i am still fairly new to stripping! Ok my first "custie/regular?" drove all the way from san diego to los angeles to see me tonight...and somehow i guess i gave him the impression that i was going to meet him otc and.....
he got several dances and tipped me onstage (i'd say i made around $150 or less only off him!!) and i know i shouldn't have misled him by telling him i will meet him/hook up otc just to get him to come see me and buy dances...what should i do? now he is asking if i am just playing him..and even though he isn't a local i don't want any bad rep or bad relations already with custies...he is a nice dude and isn't cheap; did i lose him as a customer etc.?????:-\
Re: custie keeps bugging to meet OTC
Hinting or suggesting that you will meet a customer outside of the club isn't a good idea. If they bring it up and are really bugging you, just explain politely that you've been burned before so you're not ready to meet anyone OTC yet. That usually shuts them up for a bit :)
Re: custie keeps bugging to meet OTC
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xoAnnaBanana
^I agree with this. And if he seems a little upset with you, just say that you've had second thoughts and are hesitant to meet OTC now.
For future reference don't tell a customer that you're going to meet OTC with them if you have no intention of doing so. It's just going to irritate some guys and be a pain in your ass when they repeatedly keep bugging you to do OTC. You can try saying something like this if you're comfortable with it. "I feel like I need to get to know you better here so that I feel safe and like I can trust you. And that's gonna take some time. So you can just keep spending time with me here for now." But in all honesty this is still kinda misleading but hey. :shrug:
I only have 2 regulars and with both of them I was very upfront about them coming to see me. One has my Google Voice phone number & I text him to set up him coming to the club since he lives out of state. The other is local and just checks my club's website to check when I work. I've never hinted at OTC with either and neither has ever hinted at OTC with me. I feel like this is the ideal situation and the best one, although it's not always the easiest to comeby.
And in my experience, the big spenders I see inside the club don't mention OTC because they don't need it. They're perfectly content spending money inside the club as expected and they don't need anything more. :)
i wish so much that there were any big spenders at my club; shit, the regulars (ie. guys who come every dam night but don't ever buy dances from any girls) are not even spenders!! What's up w/ that??? It just annoys me whenever i see those kind of fools esp when they act like fuckin ballers and keep wanting to meet OTC one even "offered" to pay out all my fees and give me half a grand to leave w/ him in middle of my shift! whatever dude!!~