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Let's discuss, Escorts what do you think?
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Now that we got that out of the way I wanted to discuss, Hotel escorting/Old fashion escorting... and in other words.. How to escort without reviews.
This blog was posted by well known escort, Reese Rivera.
(Please read the blogs before commenting!)
I must say that this isn't for everyone. I wouldn't tell a girl to go out and do this but this is perefect for daredevils like me}:D. I tried this once before and I found that men that know nothing about the review boards are willing to pay more. More as in 400 + more. I won't give the location I tried this at but it was at a 5 star hotel in my area (won't go into too much detail). I am thinking of taking EVERYTHING related to escorting offline (Hotel bars/Upscale lounges..etc) for awhile (didn't say I was doing it.. I said THINKING about it).
I see how this could be dangerous because there is no for sure way to screen but then again after a few minutes of chatting with a guy.. I'm pretty good at telling a guy that's sane and a nutjob... PLUS women do this ALLLL the time FOR FREE .. ya know the whole one night stand thing? so why not get paid for it? LOL. I've been too tied up to try this again.. but I'm considering it now that I'm not really doing anything else (don't cam much anymore) :).
Discuss... thoughts... comments? Would you do this?
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I would do it-I'm a daredevil myself and pretty much open to anything as long as I feel safe. I'm with you, you can pretty much tell after a few minutes of talking to someone whether or not they are crazy-this also nearly eliminates the chances of getting 'busted' by LE. I highly doubt a cop would set up a sting for this kind of thing, too much chance involved! Plus, if you know they are truly staying at a 5 star hotel for a few days, how bad could they be in terms of insane? I'd love to hear from some other people who are doing this. I once met a super high end ($1,500 an hour) escort who had everything offline (to my knowledge). She didn't give me a ton of deets but I have a feeling she did this kind of thing...
You are totally right though-so many people do this for free! Getting paid definitely beats a one nighter-especially if they are lousy in bed (unpaid + lousy in bed=poor deal)!
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I've thought about this as well. I think as long as it is a nice place and you're a good judge of character then go for it. I actually tried this at a casino last weekend. The only dowfall with the casino is you have to kind of play and try to be near tables or the more expensive sections. Also you can't do it a ton because the casino will catch on. Good thing is I get comped rooms so there is an expense out of the way or if you don't have a room he is usually located inside the casino u r playing at. Plus there r cameras so it's a little more safe and dangerous at the same time.
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This is how my homegirl did it. Her and a friend would go to the hardrock and meet new clients every once in a while. She hit the jp one nite, and they ended up in the suite of some big boss type guy.
I could see myself going this route, but I would need to configure the step by step guide so I don't flub up - lack of social flirting skills. I feel it to be daredevil and vixen-ly. This I like and if I could do it to a T, I would over advertising all the time and everywhere. My city's Leona seems to be focused more on the internet and the "track".
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Uh huh. What about all the gals in Miami who thought they were hooking up with the drummer for a well known band who paid them with a stolen credit card and even got a few to advance him money to buy crack thinking they'd be paid back right away ?
I always advocate caution and care. Nothing substitutes for screening.
That being said, there are gals who do well with solid connections at major , high end hotels. If you've got the bartender and/or concierge looking out for you, it might work out well.
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Eric Stoner
Uh huh. What about all the gals in Miami who thought they were hooking up with the drummer for a well known band who paid them with a stolen credit card and even got a few to advance him money to buy crack thinking they'd be paid back right away ?
1.) I do not take credit cards for this type of thing.
2.) I am not into celebrities that much to go off with a drummer/ a guy that claims to be a well known drummer. It's just stupidity.
3.) Nothing substitutes screening but there are ways to know if a guy is sane or not without passing his info through google. Screening is only a deterrent for bad behavior. It does NOT guarantee your safety. I go on REAL dates without screening the guys.. so why not this?. It's when you're meeting people over the internet that screening should be a must. It's just a totally different interaction.
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Eric Stoner
That being said, there are gals who do well with solid connections at major , high end hotels. If you've got the bartender and/or concierge looking out for you, it might work out well.
A limousine driver gave me the idea and I researched it and found reese's blog.
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Ladies, I pm'd Reese a few months back about her blog and she just got back to me yesterday. She no longer uses the internet for business so that alone made me think. I see it as a way to meet high rollers/sds as well. Of course you will not go to a 5 star hotel looking like a streetwalker so attire, networking, making friends with hotel staff and limo drivers.. is the key here.
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Yea I would never take credit cards or front anyone anything or even part with my money. I let guys come up to me make some small chat. Figure them out and if they really want me they will part with some money.
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DottieMay
Yea I would never take credit cards or front anyone anything or even part with my money. I let guys come up to me make some small chat. Figure them out and if they really want me they will part with some money.
Exactly!!! I would let them approach me! :-)
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Dont know if this is a silly question or not but I was really wondering if anyone has gotten a crazy client, because small chit chat and screening reguardless of his income is still kinda risky, You just never know if it's gonna be your last appointment! How would you handle a cleint if he appeasrs normal, intellegent and well put together but like goes crazy on you during your session, How would you protect yourself? Should escorts hire a bodyguard? and If so how would you hire one without the bodyguard being suspisous of your activities, and try to report you to the authorities?
Oh and one last question, which goes along with the whole saftey thing, How do you ladies protect the payment that your client gives you? I mean ppl are really crazy now-a-days, do you ever think that during a session a client would try to take his payment back?? Do you hide the money before you start? I'm really intrigued by this.......
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*Miliania~London
Dont know if this is a silly question or not but I was really wondering if anyone has gotten a crazy client, because small chit chat and screening reguardless of his income is still kinda risky, You just never know if it's gonna be your last appointment! How would you handle a cleint if he appeasrs normal, intellegent and well put together but like goes crazy on you during your session, How would you protect yourself? Should escorts hire a bodyguard? and If so how would you hire one without the bodyguard being suspisous of your activities, and try to report you to the authorities?
As I stated in my intial post, this is not for everyone. I'm not encouraging other to do this. I'm looking at other ways to work. Maybe you should ask Reese Rivera those questions. She's been doing it for a while now and I just spoke with her yesterday and she says she has never had a problem.
I have been escorting for over 2 years and I have never had a bad/violent client. Even with the Sugardaddy thing, with light screening every guy I have met have been true gentelmen. Your post is valid in the sense that it is dangerous to go BCD with a guy you don't know ... BUT a lot of women do this EVERY SINGLE DAY but for free. What difference does it make really to get paid for the same thing?
With the internet, you really don't know who is sending you that email. That is why we have to put our clients through thorough screening. We can't see the person, talk face to face... it's nothing like in person interaction. With Hotel escorting, everything would be face to face from marketing/presentation...etc.
Hire a bodyguard for escorting?I would never do that. That's a for sure way to make the guys think you have a pimp for one and two, I've never felt the need to. I know escorts that carry guns, mace and tazers and I know some that don't because they've had nothing but good experiences like me. For some reason when people think of escorting they think of gloom and doom, being robbed, raped and beaten but that's not the reality for all.
As I have said before, SCREENING IS A DETERRENT! It is a deterrent for bad behavior. It does not guarantee you from being raped, robed or killed. It is a deterrent for cops but it does not mean you cannot be busted. Your gut instinct will save your life before screening would.
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Oh and one last question, which goes along with the whole saftey thing, How do you ladies protect the payment that your client gives you? I mean ppl are really crazy now-a-days, do you ever think that during a session a client would try to take his payment back?? Do you hide the money before you start? I'm really intrigued by this.......
Again, I've been escorting for over 2 years and have never had this happened. I've heard horror stories and i'm always shocked because I have not had the same experiences as some others in the business. As far as fake money is concerend, I have always carried a counterfeit pen. As soon as the money touches my hand, the money is tucked away in my purse and my purse is tucked away. Some ladies have been beaten and robbed even at gun point escorting but not me. I have always attracted a different caliber of men for whatever reason.
Question: Have you ever worked as an escort? Because if you've never worked as an escort you really won't get it. This is not a how-to guide for escorting but a thread for those experienced in the business.
Ladies, Thank you for commenting. I love to hear both sides. I will be trying this again next week and reporting back. If not next week the week after next.. we'll see how it goes!
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I really appreciate the insight TG !
And to answer your question I have worked as an escort without actually realizing what I was doing was escorting (if that makes any sense) lol I use hang with a circle that included numerous professionals, business men, individuals in the fashion industry and celebrities which has sparked numerous relationships (along with nasty tabloid rumors and comments) in which I received payment for my time and companionship, whether it was in gifts,cash,cars,ect. ( I never asked for anything BTW) But since then I have been through some real trying times, Which included the loss of my best friend,and my move away from my home in NYC to a less metro mid-west city and kinda disappeared off the face of the earth (in a sense)...anyway to shorten this up I'm realizing the potential in escorting as well as caming and I also realize how perfect it would be for a girl like me ;D even though I do realize it's not for everyone. In this industry only the strongest will survive and I am strong and I will survive!!!
On another note: Wow I didn't realize how therapeutic writing could be...feels good to get some of that out haha!!
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*Miliania~London
I really appreciate the insight TG !
And to answer your question I have worked as an escort without actually realizing what I was doing was escorting (if that makes any sense) lol I use hang with a circle that included numerous professionals, business men, individuals in the fashion industry and celebrities which has sparked numerous relationships (along with nasty tabloid rumors and comments) in which I received payment for my time and companionship, whether it was in gifts,cash,cars,ect. ( I never asked for anything BTW) But since then I have been through some real trying times, Which included the loss of my best friend,and my move away from my home in NYC to a less metro mid-west city and kinda disappeared off the face of the earth (in a sense)...anyway to shorten this up I'm realizing the potential in escorting as well as caming and I also realize how perfect it would be for a girl like me ;D even though I do realize it's not for everyone. In this industry only the strongest will survive and I am strong and I will survive!!!
On another note: Wow I didn't realize how therapeutic writing could be...feels good to get some of that out haha!!
Escorting is not for everyone in the sense that
1.) Not every woman feels comfortable having sex with a stranger for money
(Side note: Yet you'd be amazed at how many ladies would do it for free in a hearbeat. That makes NO sense to me.)
2.) It is an individualized business. The girl that charges $50 an hour is not seeing the type of clients that someone charging $300-$500 an hour would see.
3.) A lot of ladies get into this business just to make a quick buck. They don't like the idea of having sex with men but do it anyway because it's a great way to make a living but what they don't realize is they're only hurting themselves in the long run. To enjoy this business, you have to be confident, LIKE meeting strangers and having sex with them for money and be mentally sane or else you'll come out of the business insane, hating men and lacking self esteem.
Milainia, Those of us that are experienced escorts know the ins and outs. Though I have never had a bad client, I know exactly what to do when I have one. :).
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Hotel escorting is not different than meeting that hot guy at whole foods and having sex with him later on that day but ... only you're getting paid for it. ;)
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[quote=TouringGirlfriend;2122662]Escorting is not for everyone in the sense that
1.) Not every woman feels comfortable having sex with a stranger for money
(Side note: Yet you'd be amazed at how many ladies would do it for free in a hearbeat. That makes NO sense to me.)
2.) It is an individualized business. The girl that charges $50 an hour is not seeing the type of clients that someone charging $300-$500 an hour would see.
3.) A lot of ladies get into this business just to make a quick buck. They don't like the idea of having sex with men but do it anyway because it's a great way to make a living but what they don't realize is they're only hurting themselves in the long run. To enjoy this business, you have to be confident, LIKE meeting strangers and having sex with them for money and be mentally sane or else you'll come out of the business insane, hating men and lacking self esteem.
you speak nothing but the truth Ms. TG.....*Loves it* ;)
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I have done this without even knowing it. I went to my hotel (key card) bar, had a few drinks and was approached by a good looking, annoying guy. We ended up hooking up because I am a horny bitch. When he left a few hours later he pulled out his wallet and threw me some cash. I felt like a ho! I was there to be a ho, but he wasn't the guy I was there to see.
I would and will definitely do this. Wherever I go I get guys giving me their cards and buying me things. I am just shit at making it go further. This is my motivation! TG, you are on to something!
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Tempted to go to The Ritz right now! I was at another very popular 1000 a night five star a few weeks ago and was oblivious to my options. I was just having fun. Even got asked to hang out with some by the bartender twice! Dammit I am naive sometimes.::)
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Strippername, yes that blog was motivation eough for me!
I'm most definitely trying this!
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So what's a good line to use at the hotel bar to get the guy to understand the game you're playing?
Like, "oh, I love staying here but it gets expensive after awhile being on the road..."
and let him pick up the ball and roll with it from there?
Or what?
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people make crack cocaine runs for other people?
on what planet do crackheads repay....you know what.
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FiendishGyrator
So what's a good line to use at the hotel bar to get the guy to understand the game you're playing?
Like, "oh, I love staying here but it gets expensive after awhile being on the road..."
and let him pick up the ball and roll with it from there?
Or what?
I'd let him approach me. I look at it like this. If he's bold enough to ask me to join him in this room. I'll be bold enough to ask him to pay for my time.
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I guess I'm going to be the odd one out. I'm not crazy about the idea of drumming up business in hotel lobbies. I mean it CAN work, but it seems kind of counterproductive and risky, IMO. I mean why hang out trying to find new clients when you can sit your pretty self at home and let the clients come to you? Plus depending on the city a lot of busts seem to happen that way. At least they did in Atlanta, Buckhead mostly. I think the hotel staff was trained to look for any "suspicious activity."
However, I will say that limo drivers are AWESOME for referrals! I used to be cool with an owner of a limo company that was always trying to refer me to some client. Too bad I was too scared/grossed out to do full service! LOL But anyway, he was always approached by out of towners looking for company. Sometimes the guys even requested "limo dates" where he would take long drive in a full stretch limousine with the client and escort in the backseat. Thank god for privacy glass and tinted windows. LOL It's something worth looking into. You just have to make the right contacts.
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I would try this, except that I feel like Im still too new to really give it a go. Otherwise, tomorrow on my forced stay-cation *tears!!!* I would be hot on it.
Im really intrigued with networking with limo drivers though...*that* is something Im going to have to work myself into and figure out. Thats huge business around here, we have businessmen/celebs/wealthy guys visiting here all the time...of course now is slow season, but still... Im going to look into that. Maybe thats where Ill start handing out my biz cards first..when I get them :D
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omg the guy i used to use for car service used to ALWAYS try to set me up with dudes visiting the city. weird! but i guess everybody's trying to get their hustle on.
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nikkidarling
I guess I'm going to be the odd one out. I'm not crazy about the idea of drumming up business in hotel lobbies. I mean it CAN work, but it seems kind of counterproductive and risky, IMO. I mean why hang out trying to find new clients when you can sit your pretty self at home and let the clients come to you? Plus depending on the city a lot of busts seem to happen that way. At least they did in Atlanta, Buckhead mostly. I think the hotel staff was trained to look for any "suspicious activity."
However, I will say that limo drivers are AWESOME for referrals! I used to be cool with an owner of a limo company that was always trying to refer me to some client. Too bad I was too scared/grossed out to do full service! LOL But anyway, he was always approached by out of towners looking for company. Sometimes the guys even requested "limo dates" where he would take long drive in a full stretch limousine with the client and escort in the backseat. Thank god for privacy glass and tinted windows. LOL It's something worth looking into. You just have to make the right contacts.
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nikkidarling
I guess I'm going to be the odd one out. I'm not crazy about the idea of drumming up business in hotel lobbies. I mean it CAN work, but it seems kind of counterproductive and risky, IMO. I mean why hang out trying to find new clients when you can sit your pretty self at home and let the clients come to you? Plus depending on the city a lot of busts seem to happen that way. At least they did in Atlanta, Buckhead mostly. I think the hotel staff was trained to look for any "suspicious activity."
It's definitely something that can't be done very often in order to not look suspicious. The casinos are the same way, they will pick up on that kind of stuff quick. But I think in great moderation and careful selection it could be very successful.
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BlkSharpie
I would try this, except that I feel like Im still too new to really give it a go. Otherwise, tomorrow on my forced stay-cation *tears!!!* I would be hot on it.
Im really intrigued with networking with limo drivers though...*that* is something Im going to have to work myself into and figure out. Thats huge business around here, we have businessmen/celebs/wealthy guys visiting here all the time...of course now is slow season, but still... Im going to look into that. Maybe thats where Ill start handing out my biz cards first..when I get them :D
Go for it! My contact told me when he would pick up clients from the airport, he would barely have their luggage in the trunk before they were asking about escorts! :D There's definitely a market for this. And a small kickback to the referrer wouldn't hurt either.
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DottieMay
It's definitely something that can't be done very often in order to not look suspicious. The casinos are the same way, they will pick up on that kind of stuff quick. But I think in great moderation and careful selection it could be very successful.
True, but I guess I look at things a little different. The reason I said it may be counterproductive is because the way I see it, the clock starts ticking when the prep work begins. I factor in time for hair, makeup, wardrobe and driving over to the hotel. So let's say it takes 1 hour to freelance your way into an appointment, you may have invested two hours or more just to get to that point. And then there's the actual service part as well. So if you charge $300 for one hr appointment, you really made that donation in four hours (prep time and freelancing 3 hours total + one hour actual appointment) - not one. In a perfect world if you score immediately it's great, but if you end up empty handed that's a lot of set up for nothing, IMO.
Again, my two cents. I'm sure an experienced woman with a great hustle can make some money out of the deal. If it works for you, awesome! And don't forget to come back and share your experiences!