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Hiding "problem areas" on cam...
Hi everyone!
Does anybody have a problem area they hide on cam? I have a bit of a belly which I am trying to work off (I got sick and the medication I was on resulted in gaining 20 lbs)... I saw a lot of lingerie out there that is good for hiding my belly (ie: corsets/cinchers, garter belts, etc)... will this affect me in any way? IE: If people are still able to see the goods, does it matter if I keep my corset on?
Thanks!!
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Well - since I have been losing weight and look disgustingly thin - I have been using flannel shirts....guys love them. It covers my skinnyness.
I mean I can do one or two buttons and it covers my belly from all my surgeries and it concentrates on my bewbs! I also put a cute pair of cotton boy shorts on too...
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Oooh, I'm glad to hear. I'm happy with the boobs that came with the weight gain, just not with this belly... I always figured guys wanted to see you 100% nude or something at all times.
Do you find certain lighting helps as well? IE: Soft light, and the positioning...
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I just sit in my desk chair...and I have a light - nothing fancy but I do alter with the cam properties to make it seem like I have a tan.
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Tiff- There are girls making a living working none nude sites, so don't worry about being expected to shed everything , just don't mislead anyone into thinking you will ,and everyones a winner baby ! -
Don't do what you're not comfortable with , it will probably spoil the atmosphere anyway . You may find as time goes on You're more comfortable showing more , and come to realize the guys are not as picky as you may think .
Sure there's guys looking for the perfect porn model , but lots of guys on here are after the real girl image - and a few lumps and bumps in the wrong or right places, keeps them happy . You'll get your feel for it in time, push your boundaries, but always stay with in them -
Much Love and luck
Missy
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I have a bit of a tummy as well- I have hypothyroidism, so I gain weight quick, but it's really hard for me to lose. I've found that if I just act like I'm just the sexiest thing ever, that most guys don't really care. In fact, I get more compliments on my curves than I do on my tits or my ass.
However, I do wear longer tops, and I tend to focus my cam from my tits up. I also have a tiny lamp that I normally use- it gives off a soft light that makes my skin look awesome!
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I am chubby, and I find that most guys love it! and I am on the same boat with Sam- I get wayyyyyy more compliments on my tummy or my "curves" than on my boobs. It's all about acting confident! Sure there are guys who come in and call you fat or whatever, but just tell 'em to fuck off or block them.
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You ladies are seriously awesome! I'm loving the atmosphere of this forum, and there's so much awesome info.
Thanks so much for the advice/encouragement :)
@UKmissy, yeaaah! I'm a little bit "vanilla" for now... for example, going close up/spreading below the belt will be something new for me which might take a while to get in to. But otherwise playing, and showing everything else I'm alright with. Who knows, I might even come to terms with this tummy and show it too, hehe.
@Sam, aw man! Sorry to hear about your condition... I was on depakote which basically caused the weight gain (from 130 to 150, I'm 5'7/1.70cm tall), so I can empathize to a degree... I hope you're able to get some treatment/help for it.
@Ginger, sassy! :) Confidence, indeed... I don't think I'd care so much about some random trolls calling me fat. I think what I'm most nervous of is someone taking me to private, and being like "wow, I want my money back". I'm probably just overthinking it, though. My only experience up until now has been trying it out anonymously (posting my MSN on a social networking site, and letting people add me to cam/etc) and gauging response that way.
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tiffanyjo
@Ginger, sassy! :) Confidence, indeed... I don't think I'd care so much about some random trolls calling me fat. I think what I'm most nervous of is someone taking me to private, and being like "wow, I want my money back". I'm probably just overthinking it, though. My only experience up until now has been trying it out anonymously (posting my MSN on a social networking site, and letting people add me to cam/etc) and gauging response that way.
I use to wonder the same thing, but there are guys out there that really like bellys lol
Even on mfc, surprisingly Ive had alot of guys request to just show my sexy belly lol
so they like it girrrl! dont worry!
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I have "the belly problem" too.I hide it using longer tops or sexy dresses that can hide a bit, never sit in bra&panties only.In pvt i ve been asked many times to be totally naked but i rarely do it.I keep my top or my dress on me just on belly,as long as what they want to see is not covered,is fine.Playing with ur cam u might find some good angles to hide it,partially.I never keep my cam in an angle that can show how big my belly is lol.wish i could find a good angle for my thick legs also:)
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I would say def just your confidence, im not a thin girl either, but always smile find things to wear that YOU feel sexy in, cause once you have that noone can tell you otherwise :) goodluck
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I do the same as Maysa. I just pull my boobs out of the top and remove my panties. The fantastic trio is revealed that way.
TAP (tits, ass, pussy)
As long as tits, ass and pussy are out catching the proverbial breeze, not a whole lot of them will complain at all. I take my top of as well if they ask me specifically, but that doesn't happen every day, honest. With time you'll figure out good angles, too.
All I have to add is this. When I was researching camming I had this crazy idea I absolutely CANNOT cam till I lose 20 pounds and look as close to perfect as I can. Not a single dude called me fat or gave any sort of a fattist comment so far. If they wanted to pay for a show with a live Barbie, they would have just clicked the profile two rows above or below mine. Apparently they didn't and they're in my room because they liked what they see. Keep that in mind and you'll do great.
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I have some bad stretch marks on my sides and some belly flab. I always wear a skirt and hardly ever take it off. Sometimes they ask me to take it off and then tell me how sexy my stomach is. Lol. Whatever.
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I always wear stockings and a garter. Men love it and it helps me feel more covered up and helps hide the tummy and not so firm hips..lol
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PrincessLavender
Sometimes they ask me to take it off and then tell me how sexy my stomach is. Lol. Whatever.
Yeah, I have a few regulars that think my poochy tummy is sexy. Honestly, that's one of the reasons I'm not topless a lot more on cam. I can't stand seeing myself like that. But if they like it and they pay me, then who am I to judge? lol!
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My tummy is my problem are aswell. I sometimes wear bra and knickers and then focus the camera top half or bottom half. Men don't seem to mind.
Or i wear a longer vest / strappy top and pull it down under my boobs - seems to make them look bigger aswell!!
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Originally Posted by
tiffanyjo
Hi everyone!
Does anybody have a problem area they hide on cam? I have a bit of a belly which I am trying to work off (I got sick and the medication I was on resulted in gaining 20 lbs)... I saw a lot of lingerie out there that is good for hiding my belly (ie: corsets/cinchers, garter belts, etc)... will this affect me in any way? IE: If people are still able to see the goods, does it matter if I keep my corset on?
Thanks!!
This is a good question!
Here are some of my tips:
- If you are pale, try using self-tanner. Instant slimmer!
- Good Camera angles are your friend ;D play around with them a bit and see what works for you and is the most flattering to your shape.
- CORSETS! Not just any corset will actually help, though. Get a good corset used for actual corset training, one that offers a lot of support. My favorite online store to buy corsets is here: and I'm going to be starting a corset training program to in order to achieve the perfect hourglass figure ( you have to be careful if you decided to venture into this though - I did A LOT of research about it for a whole year first.)
- Babydoll lingerie sets!!!! The can cover up a LOT of tummy/love handle imperfections lol and they look really cute:
Plus, they make your boobies look big, perky, and awesome!!! ;D
Hope this helps :D
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Everyone has a problem area that they think is one to their body.
Horney men do not see these areas, all they see is PUSSY.
Most of these men do not notice...
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Amy Lee
Everyone has a problem area that they think is one to their body.
Horney men do not see these areas, all they see is PUSSY.
Most of these men do not notice...
That's such a good point Amy! A lot of these men don't even notice a lot of the things we are so worried/self conscious about. We are always harder on ourselves then they are. Especially when they have a raging hard-on and are desperately looking for release :rotfl:
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AngelCummings
That's such a good point Amy! A lot of these men don't even notice a lot of the things we are so worried/self conscious about. We are always harder on ourselves then they are. Especially when they have a raging hard-on and are desperately looking for release :rotfl:
You are right AC...Especially stretch marks, I know men in real life who are like "we don't give a damn about that." But I do understand feeling self-conscious about our own bodies...I know I have my things...
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I have stretch marks too! I got a nasty case of them during puberty. But they don't even show up on my cam because I have perfected my lighting and I have manually altered my camera settings to where my skin always looks flawless on cam.
Also, Whitesancho had such a great point about confidence. Having the right attitude, exuding confidence, and displaying a great personality goes a LONG way and I know it's cliche to say that but it's sooo true. I've watched some gorgeous, model-esque girls on cam who didn't make shit because they looked sad and bored. On the other hand, some of the top models on sites like MFC aren't even what I consider to be attractive imo and are very average looking. But they have awesome personalities, know how to hustle, and they bank. Guys can find a hot body anywhere. It's the PERSONALITY that will keep them coming back ;)
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Yeaaah, I was happy with my body before, but this weight is relatively new for me. I welcome the increase of boob size, though! But I'm just not used to everything else. I think what set me off is some lady I hadn't seen in a while asked me if I was pregnant... she felt kind of embarrassed, but since then all I've noticed is my gut :S
Stretchmarks I'm not 100% bothered by (I do have those, but they are white/silvery now) because I can cover 'em up...
But that "pregnant" comment just sort of sparked a whole wave of panic, and suddenly I had visions of like... a guy gets me in to private chat, and then he sees my belly and he's like "OH DEAR GOD!!!" and demands his money/tokens back haha. I have a tiny waist, it's just this lower belly pooch.
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Don't even think twice about your extra weight. I am BBW and felt horrified about showing my belly (it's the worst part of my body right now). I just knew I would get no pvts and make next to nothing due to my weight. Well, I was pleasantly surprised. I have had several guys say they loved my tummy, ass, tits...you name it. I was actually feeling like "Fiona" from the Shrek movie before I started camming,LOL!
I do try to dress in such a way that I can camouflage it with skirts, long shirts, etc. but when they want nude, they get nude. BTW, I'm riddled with stretch marks from 3 pregnancies, but I don't think they are all that visible with the angle I'm using.
There is a guy for every type of woman out there, I'm certain of that. Use your personality to it's fullest. That will keep 'em coming back. Laugh, laugh, smile alot and be talkative. I think they just crave attention.
One guy came on and said, "Wow, finally a REAL girl" It gave me a needed ego boost for sure.
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I have psoriasis on my face and sometimes elsewhere >.< (nowhere below the shoulderblades, fortunately) and between my boobs, natural colouring, camera tweaking (lower exposure, higher saturation and brightness), and my hair, I'm okay at concealing it. No one's said anything about it in a while, and at first a couple of guys complemented me on my 'leopard spots' tattoo >_<
I also have gestures that can cover it if it's more visible than it should be. Practiced, smooth movements can do a LOT to distract from something.