Omg, I led him on, should i cut the cord?
Bleeh , I was working one of my slower sites about a month ago
and this guy comes in, Saying he was interested in really getting to know me , and meet me, and if i would be interested.
I said no ofcorse, im not new with these kinda things, But he was very persistant on wanting to meet me , so i said , i would have to get to know him It could possibly take a year or me for me to figure out if i want too.
Well hes been taking me pvt, c2c once a week , spending around 50 at a time (On me around 200 full cut.)
Hes 20 years old, a virgin , really good looking , Built, ice blue eyes, sweet as cake,
so ive been telling him i might meet him..
Usually i just tell them i am married , but i made a slip this time (money got the best of me on a slow night). And i dont know what to do, hes really sweet.
Should i let him keep spending trying to get to know me (we also do the naughty in pvt, so its not all loss) Or should i nip it in the bud?
He keeps wanting personal information, Just like my real name , and maybe a number to text. (I told him i dont have Fb , or anything like that)
Or should i maybe try to lead him to skype shows, and personal payments?
(cheaper for him, more cut for me).
Re: Omg, I led him on, should i cut the cord?
Eh, I couldn't do it myself. I suppose I should be more hard hearted after camming for so long but I would just tell him you met someone and are dating now.
I can flirt, just can not lead someone on.
Re: Omg, I led him on, should i cut the cord?
Every time this happens to me I think sod him, he should KNOW that cam girls are not the sort of idiots who would meet up with some random in real life, therefore he DESERVES to waste his money on me. But in reality I always end up cutting it off as I feel guilty.
I say do what you feel you need to. He IS aware (even if he won't admit it), that you are unlikely to ever meet him in person, and so at the end o the day you're not wasting his time or money, YOU are providing the SERVICE he wants *at this time*.
If you feel guilty though just cut it off and get it over with. He'll get over it and may even still come back to see you (one of mine does this albeit less often).
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Originally Posted by
BuffyFlame
Bleeh , I was working one of my slower sites about a month ago
and this guy comes in, Saying he was interested in really getting to know me , and meet me, and if i would be interested.
I said no ofcorse, im not new with these kinda things, But he was very persistant on wanting to meet me , so i said , i would have to get to know him It could possibly take a year or me for me to figure out if i want too.
Well hes been taking me pvt, c2c once a week , spending around 50 at a time (On me around 200 full cut.)
Hes 20 years old, a virgin , really good looking , Built, ice blue eyes, sweet as cake,
so ive been telling him i might meet him..
Usually i just tell them i am married , but i made a slip this time (money got the best of me on a slow night). And i dont know what to do, hes really sweet.
Should i let him keep spending trying to get to know me (we also do the naughty in pvt, so its not all loss) Or should i nip it in the bud?
He keeps wanting personal information, Just like my real name , and maybe a number to text. (I told him i dont have Fb , or anything like that)
Or should i maybe try to lead him to skype shows, and personal payments?
(cheaper for him, more cut for me).
Re: Omg, I led him on, should i cut the cord?
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Originally Posted by
MissKatie
Every time this happens to me I think sod him, he should KNOW that cam girls are not the sort of idiots who would meet up with some random in real life, therefore he DESERVES to waste his money on me. But in reality I always end up cutting it off as I feel guilty.
I say do what you feel you need to. He IS aware (even if he won't admit it), that you are unlikely to ever meet him in person, and so at the end o the day you're not wasting his time or money, YOU are providing the SERVICE he wants *at this time*.
If you feel guilty though just cut it off and get it over with. He'll get over it and may even still come back to see you (one of mine does this albeit less often).
Exactly. I currently have TWO cam customers that have convinced themselves that we're dating. I got really close to one/italian/lives in Miami/Has lots of money but it's not gonna go anywhere. He sends me a couple of hundred a week and is very clingy.
The other one sends me $100 a week and he really does think i can survive on just a $100. I dont know how someone could be so delusional.
Buffy, the men come online knowing that it's against the rules for us to meet the anyway so when they go against the rules they should expect heartbreak. Sorry, maybe it's morally wrong but it's so true.
Re: Omg, I led him on, should i cut the cord?
No way on earth should you give him any perdonal information! Small details are like drops of water in a pool of calm water... the effects are easy to spread. Even telling a guy what school & sorority you are part of could lead to trouble! So much is available online that its easy to look people up & even skip-trace them. Do NOT give him your name under any circumstance. You don't really know who he is.
Your best bet is to tell him you have never met a customer. Tell him he's really nice, so you thought maybe you'd be comfortable after a year, but you still aren't. Maybe get his address though & send him a small autographed print next time you go on vacation to show him you are sincere. If he thinks you didn't mean to lead him on you are more likely to retain him as a customer. Don't send it from your home area though, because it will have your zip-code, which you wouldn't want him to get either.