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stupid new dancer fucking up my hustle
there's this new bitch at the club who has for SOME reason taken a liking to me even though I'm not particularly nice to her and last night like every time I was hustling a customer she'd come up and be like "HEYY!!!!" hug the shit out of me like we were BESTIES "omg who is this?" introduce herself to the customer and be like "wanna take us BOTH for a dance?" I think she must have been pretty drunk and she did that like 5 times. I try to stay in a positive mood but she was annoying me and once this bitch even came near me I just wanted to punch someone and couldn't get back into hustle mode.
I was going to talk to her about it in the dressing room after the club closed but as soon as I saw her stupid fucking face I just wanted to storm out of there.
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Oh hell no!
Tell her before the shift starts, when she's sober.
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"fuck off you annoying little cumbucket. I work alone" has worked for me plenty of times
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Talk to the manager about it or else just tell her:
"I'm glad that you feel comfortable with me & want to be friends, but I prefer working by myself, so let's stick to just catching up in the dressing room."
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Nice or mean...however you confront her it should be done early in the night, while she's sober and you're still in a good mood.
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Oh dear...sounds like she needs a lesson in strip club etiquette cause thats cringe-worthy. If you're feeling particularly charitable, you could show her how to work a customer or two I guess, so she knows how she should be working alone and won't do the same to anyone else?
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Sorry to hear that. If it were me, I would have nipped this in the bud on day one. No worries, check that trick the next time you see her. Don't run from confrontation. She asked for it.
Usually management at my club handles this type of bs, if your club is like that, take it to them first. Who knows how this girl will react, so error on the side of caution in case she's a mental case.
Best of luck!
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Originally Posted by
BeBe
Usually management at my club handles this type of bs, if your club is like that, take it to them first. Who knows how this girl will react, so error on the side of caution in case she's a mental case.
Yeah in this case take some brass knuckles and a tranq gun if plain old fisticuffs won't do :D
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she did that like 5 times.
And you allowed this?
She wouldn't even be able to finish her sentence on her first try and I would be like get fuck outta here.
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or do the same to her....pretty sure she has caught you when your at that pivotal moment to close and here she comes....look out and when u think shes there do what she does to her. not that ur trying to crash her sale but if she done that to u its all even and im sure she will get the point lol.
SN i would have to excuse myself from the guy and tell her like look.. u ok in all but not everyone wants a 3sum...if they do and i need u ill call u...can just come bustin up in the convo..smh
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I would be ready to throw down by the second time. I'm serious. I'd be taking off my bikini top, my shoes, my hoop earrings, shoes, and let my hair down from the flower clip....it'd be on like fucking donkey kong. She will have the pleasure of getting what's coming to her. I have been known to come up with some clever insults when pushed to the limit and during explosion. lol
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Originally Posted by
BeBe
Sorry to hear that. If it were me, I would have nipped this in the bud on day one. No worries, check that trick the next time you see her. Don't run from confrontation. She asked for it.
Usually management at my club handles this type of bs, if your club is like that, take it to them first. Who knows how this girl will react, so error on the side of caution in case she's a mental case.
Best of luck!
See, I disagree with this. Talking to the manager before her seems like going around her back (because maybe she isn't doing it on purpose...just lacks common sense). In any other type of business it would be expected that you try to resolve the issue on your own first. At least that has been my experience.)
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We have a girl at my club that does this but she doesn't have the excuse of being new just plain rude. If a guy you are talking to buys you a drink she will come over and say do you want to buy me one too and take us both down for a dance!! Last time she did that i just turned around and said 'why the fuck would he want too buy you a drink he's getting me one now fuck off before i twat you' that worked now she only speaks to me when i'm not with any one. I think best way to handle this situation is to be upfront and let it show you are pissed other wise she just won't get the message.
xo
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Kylea2
Talk to the manager about it or else just tell her:
"I'm glad that you feel comfortable with me & want to be friends, but I prefer working by myself, so let's stick to just catching up in the dressing room."
You are the ultimate nice but not a pushover person. So diplomatic! ;D
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Italian_Bombshell849
I would be ready to throw down by the second time. I'm serious. I'd be taking off my bikini top, my shoes, my hoop earrings, shoes, and let my hair down from the flower clip....it'd be on like fucking donkey kong. She will have the pleasure of getting what's coming to her. I have been known to come up with some clever insults when pushed to the limit and during explosion. lol
i agree with bombshell,
i'd bust that bitch up so bad she wouldn't be ABLE to screw with my hustle.. she wants to mess with my money? hell no.
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i am laughing because this...i am always wondering how dancers who cannot read body language manage to make money. HOW can this even happen? how does she not know that her presence is unwanted?
it's totally different if it's a friend. but this is laugh out loud fucking weird. i want more details so i can build a mental picture.
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put her ass in check its just that simple .. im not rude about just FIRM! let her know you not playing about it and she needs to understand thats messing up your money! she should get the hint .. if it was me , next timew i will have to beat her ass! =)
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I say next time she does it just give her the "blank confused" stare, turn to the customer and say "do you hear something?" haha. KIDDING! ...probably the wrong advice, you seem way too nice considering this has happened more than once. Tell her to fuck off before this escalates.
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There is no way I'd allow that to happen twice. I'd pull her aside the first time and let her know that's not cool, then if she attempted again I'd just ignore her, turn to customer and say "why don't we head to the back away from all this riff raff" *wink wink*.
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approach customer who doesnt look like will have money. she comes up
either
1. embarass her infront of the nonpaying customer and do this repeatedly [just so u dont lose out on $$ for being a bitch]
2. be overly nice and excuse yourself and tell the girl [he may look shy but he really likes you]
thatll show em.
im feeling creative..
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I was actually a new dancer at my club about a month ago and the OPPOSITE happened--vet dancers sat down with me while I was talking to customers and tried to pull the "you should get double dances!" thing. She would always try to dominate the conversation, and not let me get a word in. One guy flat out told her that she was pushy and it was annoying. After the 3rd time this girl did this, the next time she sat down, she was like "omg hiiii guuuys!" and I looked at her and was just like "hiii" all fake like she did, then completely turned my back to her to cut her off from the conversation and kept talking to the guy I was talking to. She just sat there for 5 minutes without saying anything, then got up and walked away. She never did it again after that.
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tempest666
Yeah in this case take some brass knuckles and a tranq gun if plain old fisticuffs won't do :D
Yeah! tell her to work with you she needs to be leashed and collared and to crawl around at your feet...;D
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Italian_Bombshell849
I would be ready to throw down by the second time. I'm serious. I'd be taking off my bikini top, my shoes, my hoop earrings, shoes, and let my hair down from the flower clip....it'd be on like fucking donkey kong. She will have the pleasure of getting what's coming to her. I have been known to come up with some clever insults when pushed to the limit and during explosion. lol
I love you!! :rotfl:
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^^^ Yeah XGigi and whats more you could charge the customers to watch you beat her up.