What Stripper "Personality/Look" Do Most Men Like? What "Type" Are You?
Hi,
I know this question has many different answers, and each man likes something different, but I tried to see if anyone else had asked a similar question, and couldn't find anything, so I thought I'd open up a discussion, partially for advice, and due somewhat to curiousity.
I've stripped before for a a little under two months about 9 months ago, and I'm really eager to get back into the exotic dance industry. During my initial try at stripping, I danced at a few clubs, and tried on a few different personae/characters, you could say, along with different names/wigs. Primarily, I "played" three different characters:
1)"Daisy"-a caramel blonde, petite, pigtailed, girl-next-door type, wide-eyed and innocent. Physically, this was easiest, because I was 18 at the time, but look a couple years younger (most people think I'm about 15 or 16), and that's closest to my natural personality. I wore lots of school-girl outfits, and pink, feminine, frilly bikinis and g-strings. I was always very smiley and docile, and tried to look sort of young and fresh-faced. To a certain extent, I was inspired by adult film star Lexi Belle.
2)"Foxy"-a brunette with waist-length hair, lots of dark eye makeup, sort of Sasha Grey meets rock slut. I adopted kind of a tough, jaded, dominatrix-ey attitude, and wore mostly black, patent leather bikinis, and thigh-high boots. And lots of fishnets. I wore lots of strategically ripped band tees to show my nipples, and tried to act as badass as possible.
3)"Savannah"-inspired by the late porn star of the same name, and Pamela Anderson to a certain extent, I wore a long, bleached-blonde wig, lots of typical stripper makeup (permanent Mystic tan, aqua blue contacts, fake lashes, darker lipliner, pale pink gloss, smoky eyes). For apparel, I wore the tightest, most revealing mini dresses and bikinis I could find, and generally acted like a nymphomaniac who was tempted to have sex with every single customer. I tried to look and act like a porn star in every way possible.
I found that I was most successful, by far, as "Daisy", especially with the older customers (i.e., those that had money). There's something about being nubile and underage-looking that turns a lot of men on, and appeals to repressed pedo fetishes, or whatever. Acting as a typical porn star/stripper, "Savannah" was probably the second most popular, especially with customers who wanted the classic stripper appearance. "Foxy" only appealed to a small demographic of men, the submissive sort, who wanted to be pushed around and dominated. When I return to stripping, I'm going to go with the innocent, Lolita-esque persona, as men seem to find that most attractive because of the forbidden nature of it, but I'll try to throw a bit of the sex-crazed, horny, stripper-and-proud-of-it attitude I had as "Savannah." Hopefully, it will work out okay, but at least I know how to alter my appearance if not.
I'm curious, did you play around with different roles when you first started stripping, or did you instantly embrace one of them? Which proved to be most successful, and do you find that there's a certain look, quality, or fetish that men have when it comes to strippers (i.e., blonde hair)? What do you think is the most popular type of stripper? Please give me any advice/experience you might have, I'd love to hear it!
Thanks! Honey xoxo
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i havent really given it much thought. im a terrible actress and liar i am not good with characters because i constantly break them. i generally tend to alter my normal self to be more outgoing and suited to what i imagine the customer wanted.
the young blonde nice stripper only suited me at a dive club, especially being the only blonde for a sea of bucks parties had me do well. but it didnt work quite as well at the blonde club coz my personality wasnt as fitting to the image as other girls so they were better at it than i was.
besides customers refused shows coz i looked too young and too cute and nice.
im a redhead 'foxy' now.
mainly works for me weekend nights. im cheeky and totally badass, i backchat and am generally a bitch, mostly in a good way.
i find i must have a really genuine and nice face coz when im not bossy and pushy or drunk, i generally leave with low amount of money.
but i dont think this look things matters much. or types.
the girls who make the most money are those who tell em what they wanna hear and hustle and hustle and never stop and never take anything personally. if this isnt the core of whatever personality type u wanna build on top of that, its not gonna be as successful
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To the OP: you forgot number four; being yourself.
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Jay12
To the OP: you forgot number four; being yourself.
x2. I get a LOT of well spending customers who can't get over how genuine I am, and THAT'S why they spent the big bucks.
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yeah same with me..about being genuine. iguess if i had to choose 'daisy' would be me but guys do love that i dont seem like a typical stripper (according to them)
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I used to try and be very aloof, ladylike, and glamorous. It only worked about half-way well. I was heavier then, and I wore a lot of pretty party-dresses and maralyn-esque halter dresses. It was a very pretty look, but it was not entirely successful in my dive bar where I work.
Now I rock a pin-up style look. My web-page and business cards state I am "your personal pin-up girl." I take my inspiration from the old pin-ups from the 40's and 50's. They are sexy, playful girls-next-door. Frequently they appear to be single career girls (=confident and independent). They are frequently shown laughing at themselves and the strange, accidentally sexy situations they get themselves into.
If a real pin-up girl stepped out of a poster or a magazine, what would she be like? Reasonably intelligent, but not too much. Funny, cheerful . . . . she would know how to treat her man and make him feel like a million bucks. She would stare into his eyes and hang on his every word.
I translate this into giving excellent back rubs (which either result in a tip or lead into selling some dances), being cheerful and bubbly, telling funny stories on myself, being sexy and playful, flirting like crazy, and being a little bigger and brighter than life. I wear a lot of completely impractical lingerie, stockings, and my favorite polka-dot shoes. I also make sure to act like I am having the most fun of ANYBODY who EVER worked in a titty bar, and make sure everybody knows it. Sometimes I need a little wine to help with this! IRL I have a BS in Psychology, but I tell men "I majored in Human Sexuality, let me show you what I learned!"
In short, I try to be the kind of woman they wish their wife would be.
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that's like asking what kind of guys do most girls go for. there's no right answer. think about it. when was the last time you were with one of your girlfriends and she sees a guy and squeals "OMG he is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO cute" and you look over at him and you're like "uhh? I don't see anything special".
that's how guys are too.
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i don't have the energy to grow different personalities.
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I already have several personalities. " archibald" is a homicidal penguin who has a stamp collection and collects women's nipples. "Tyrone" enjoys anal sex and masturbating with his own feces. hmmm let me ask the other voices if they want me to announce them.
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The naive newbie stripper girl next door look has always been a moneymaker for me ::)
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I guess I would have to choose Foxy...just because of my tattoos.
I always end of being the token rocker girl.
It's hard to look past my tattoos...even when I dress in lacy black dresses, studded stillettoes, hair neatly done....even when I'm not wearing the "typical rocker gear", I'm still the rocker girl.
I will play up the rocker look. Black dress, studded belt, long dark hair, dark eye make up....
It's hard for people to look past my tattoos...which I totally understand....there's A LOT to look past..lol, but I hate being labeled as a "goth" or "dominatrex" because of them.
When I go back in August, I'm sticking with my brown hair, gonna get a little tan, and be a little more glam I guess. I'm not gonna play into the rocker thing....but...even when I don't, it's still just there..lol
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I've always just been happy, show I like my job, and be fun. However, if a guy wants a sexy seductress, I can do that too. If they want naive airhead, I can pull that off, as well as a ghetto talking crazy white chick. I can morph into whatever they want to get a sale. :)
However, default is a sexy happy fun girl-next-door ish type.
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You might have something on the whole lolita thing, cuz I have a cutsey baby type of face and a tiny body and when I wear pigtails I make more than when I leave my hair out. As for hair color, I have brown hair and wold never dye it another color. Some brunettes at my club make more than blondes and vice versa, depending on how hot they are.
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tempest666
I already have several personalities. " archibald" is a homicidal penguin who has a stamp collection and collects women's nipples. "Tyrone" enjoys anal sex and masturbating with his own feces. hmmm let me ask the other voices if they want me to announce them.
IMO, "Tyrone" sounds like the kind that would make it rain twenties, but like others said, that's really just me ;D!
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Jay12
To the OP: you forgot number four; being yourself.
Sorry, forgot to mention this: while I have a tomboy, naughty, and bitchy side, when it comes to stripping, and overall, I'd consider myself to be the first type I tried, the Lolita-esque, naive little girl, and I didn't really have to act at all for that one. :)