Long time lurker, first time poster. Going to try this out tonight!! I have a set amount in mind and I've been thinking all sorts of positive thoughts. Ill let you guys know how it goes!!
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Long time lurker, first time poster. Going to try this out tonight!! I have a set amount in mind and I've been thinking all sorts of positive thoughts. Ill let you guys know how it goes!!
I must be doing something wrong. I've been trying to stay positive the last two nights and I've actually watched my money SHRINK! What am I doing wrong??
its the 4th of july, where I am at $$ has gone down severely because of it so maybe there just is no real $$ to be made. Also, Ive noticed at some clubs I work at not all of them but some having a positive attitude doesnt get me paid. I actually have been to clubs where if i am a bitch I can bank but when I am nice I lose a ton of $$, idk y this is but it just is at some places.
It's 4th of July here too and goddamn if that's not making it the worst night of the year to work!! We've had about 10 customers here all night and I've only sold 3 dances. It's frustrating the hell outta me!
Maybe you're right; maybe the money is just going away. Like dancers everywhere are making worse money. That makes me sad.
Yea, thats y i didnt work tonight. I worked last night and omg there were like 10 guys who came through the door at my club and they were all dicks except one guy, without him I would made like 60$, so bad! I hear it will be a slow weekend as well but then its supposed to pick back up after that. I was just doing fine last week so I hope it really does cuz this slowness suuuucks!
I am traveling tonight to dance...hopefully it is busier where I am at. I'd skip out, but to broke to not try...ugh
^^u goin east honey?lol
yes i am!
^^goodluck! is it your first trip or u been lardy?
I've been up there....do you know if they usually do okay for the 4th wknd? Not sure if everyone will be in the ozarks for the wknd...or what.
I really dont remember but Ive heard most places are gunna be slow for this weekend n pik bak up again after. YOur right alot of pple will be in the ozarks, most people I know from there are in the lake this weekend so i wouldnt expect it to be the best, no but it still may be ok.
Probably will just make it a long night shift...thank you
Yup, could be but u know the pple left in town will all be out this weekend so it may be good, good luck! I am not expecting much on this night just cant wait for this weekend to be over and bak to the $$!lbs
Maybe, making an assumption about how you feel here- its because you authentically feel 'bitchy' which connects you with your Tantric energy (life energy and the source of abundance). Notice how when you feel bitchy your body tingles and your breathing is stronger.
I am no expert on Tantra but channeling that "take no prisoners/Bitch" energy into focussing on being in the moment (and desire for money in this case) can work wonders.
In my experience being a "bitch' doesn't translate to being mean as such, just energised, authentically present in the moment, and enforcing my boundaries.
At these clubs even if i dont feel bitchy and actually wanna party and have fun I have to force myself to look bitchy and as if im bored as hell and its like guys see this and think "id like to make her night" lol then they do. It al`ways w`orked at one club, since then ive not found a club it works at but some clubs I can just tell the guys dont want u to be all smiley and happy its like its a turnoff and they dont feel they have to spend to make u happy. But ur right about the feeling bitchy thing, it does chanel your energy in such a way to be on a $$ makin mission. There are different bitchy definitions/characters i play, ha. depending on the guy/time but most of the time yes i am not a complete asshole or "bitch" unless they have gone too far or pissed me off and the wallet is empty.:)
^ We've all gone too far at times- and that can be delicious!
Fairly slow night, luckily I was able to sell a suite from a custie who came up to me...yay.
***double post
You use the LOA whether or not you think you are. It is a basic law of the universe. Whether or not you use it to your advantage is up entirely to you :)
When I am in the right vibe, my money-making powers are intense. I made $156 in the first 45 minutes of work Wednesday night... then I let my vibe slip and ended up leaving around midnight with $360 after tip out... No complaints here, though :)
I'm not done reading this whole thread yet but I just wanted to say thank you sooooooo much for posting this. I've been having the most horrendous summer of my life income wise, and I've worked two shifts focussing solely on being positive and being sure that I will make money and both times I got customers who spent over 2 bills on my within an hour of stepping on the floor! I've been doing well even though the club has been dead this week. This shit really does work, and all the positive thinking is making me actually *like* work more...like I am stoked to be going in tonight contrary to how I've been feeling lately. So thank you so much for turning around my summer, you're the best keep it up!
^^ I think your right, and when u say "bitch" I know what u mean. It seems not to work in certain parts of the country tho like southern states unless its with an out of towner.. idk why
Curious to know how LOA is working for everyone with the summer slump....
Its Winter slump in Australia :) You guys can at least go to the beach ;) The only thing which holds me back is my own selfbelief.
I'm not sure where to put this, so I'm putting it here, since it kind of fits in with LoA. I basically cast a spell on a regular at my club last night and I'm pretty baffled by it, LOL
He's one of the guys that's been coming in for over a decade, sits at bar, drinks, and will occasionally send the bar tender or another dancer to tip $5-10 on stage, but never spends any more than that on girls. Usually I'll go over to thank him and maybe have a drink if it's slow, since he's often one of the first customers in the door for the evening - helps me ease into stripper-mode.
Last week he was drunk and extremely rude to me, so I was anxious last night because I figured he'd be there, and I didn't want to deal with any confrontation.
So, my mom is kind of like, classic California hippie, into Deepak Chopra, Oneness movement participant, active anti-GMO crusader type of lady. A while ago, she told me about this Hawaiian thing called Ho'oponopono which wikipedia calls an "ancient practice of reconciliation." Basically you picture the person you're in conflict with and you just say in your head "I love you, I'm sorry, please forgive me," and just think positively on that mantra. I actually think it's really fucking goofy... but as I was driving to work I was nervous he would be there, and suddenly I was Ho'oponoponoing to try and calm my nerves (I hate conflict).
First thing he did when he got to the club was send $10 to my stage, so I went over to say hello. Immediately he, very sincerely, said "I'm so sorry for offending you last week. I really enjoy talking to you, and I know I upset you last time - I was being an ass." I forgave him, got a drink, and before I got up to leave he gave me $200 as a "peace offering" and thanked me for sitting with him. Usually he's kind of a grump, this was SO out of character!!
I feel like a fucking voodoo witch now or something. I've never in my 9 months at this club known him to spend that kind of money on a dancer, everyone calls him a cheap ass. I just had to share that story.
Wow, that's GREAT & inspiring - btw, what's GMO though? I was looking at mags in the grocery store, & I came across Law of Attraction magazine, really good articles in it. There's a web site too however, I'm in a hurry right now..but hey great, thanks for posting this!