You have a valid point, yes. In my case is not about feeling guilty so... Idk what could be, but it seems it doesn't only happen to me. Who knows, maybe is an energy transfer.
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I haven't experienced this, but I wonder if what it could be is that once you start trying to teach others you then feel pressure to be a really good example? Like performance anxiety then starts to set in? Feeling pressured and anxious will cause more pressuring and anxious situations and circumstances to manifest, even if you're feeling pressured and anxious in regards to something positive.
Another thing too is that just because you have been doing good for a while doesn't mean that you will from now on only attract good things to yourself. You will still have to work to maintain a good-feeling place to keep attracting good-feeling things.
Yall. I totally love the law of attraction and everything it does. However, whenever I listened to the Abraham Hicks one, I listened to a guy and girl talking about it on a youtube video and then the girl started talking in a creepy ass voice as “Abraham Hicks.” So weird. I couldnt listen to it much longer. Do the Abraham Hicks teachings continue on like that?
BUMP!!!
I manifested about $5,000 in one night by using the Law of Attraction and positive affirmations! I literally just sat in a VIP room with 4 other girls and one customer for almost 12 hours and I didn't really have to even work for it. Nice guy, just wanted to party and feel important surrounded by a bunch of girls at least 20 years younger than him. his bill was like $40,000 for the night )_)
If you go to their youtube page, she posts some of the workshops that were recently recorded. I'll admit, it's a strange way to learn LOA, but you just have to use context clues and listen to a few workshops before some of it starts making sense. The newer stuff doesn't sound as whacky, she talkes more normal, but the information is usually the same with different wording.
I want to bump this thread because I just stumbled across it and it made me want to go look into it. (Impulse, maybe :) ) I am quoting this piece, because it is so super important. I listened to about a few hours worth of Abraham's talks before the idea of the vortex started to sink in. Now I feel like I have something solid to run with... fingers crossed. Thank you Ladies for sharing this.
Does anybody have any more awesome experiences with the law of attraction? I'm trying to get the hang of it and make it part of me, like something as natural as breathing or walking, but I could use some examples. I also wonder if keeping up with this positive mindset comes a lot easier for people that are already positive and outgoing than for some of us that have struggle with depression in the past. For those of you that are not naturally upbeat, how do you keep positive every day and in the "vortex"?
The simplest thing that I have found is that if you are finding it difficult 'getting into the vortex', then think of NOTHING. Practice clearing your mind. Just keep a blank mindset for as long as possible. And don't try to 'make something happen'. I often have done that. I have made goals and timelines and action plans... and then nothing comes out of it. I get stressed and aggravated to the point that I want to quit or actually quit.
Since finding this thread in October and really practicing it and listening to as many Abraham Hicks talks as I can, two amazing things have happened to me:
- I had a single clip sell and over $125 in tips from the customer (it was a financial domination game).
- Just 2 nights ago, a customer binged on over $400 worth of clips, netting me over $240 in commission in ONE sale! This is more than I've ever made on any clip site in a month!
I've never had results like these in over 5 years of online sexwork and findom. I know these aren't fantastic but they are leaps and bounds over what I was capable of before.
So I did this yesterday and it worked! Well almost lol. So I had imagined receiving 500 for the day and then I imagined being able to pay my Bill's. I almost got there . I made 400 instead of 5 but I'm still grateful because at least I even made that. I wanted to see if I could make the last 100 camming but I didnt even get close. I think I used to do this when I was dancing at one point subconsciously. But then so many negative vibes and feelings piled up that In my head I couldnt find a way to be positive again. I'm going to start training myself again to do this until it's natural again !:heartbeat
Some tips that may help. Don't try to 'be positive' when you aren't feeling it. Don't force the thoughts. Instead, shut down all thought. Take a nap, meditate, clear your mind. Don't think and don't act unless you are moved to do so through need (responsibility and job schedule) or desire (passion and motivation from within you). Also, if something negative pops up, walk away from it. Don't give it any 'air time' in your mind. Air time means that more of that will be drawn to you. Also, you say that you imagined 'being able' to pay your bills. Try a new wording and thought 'I am paying my bills'. 'I love how easily I can pay my bills.' 'Everything always works out.' Phrasing things more positively helps me.
I've been beefing up this process and am crushing it. My great manifestations are still rolling in. I have been tracking my clip sales and I am only $150 away from the goal I set for myself in September for the year, which with the way things have been going I may make that today and tomorrow and definitely by Monday without a doubt. Back then I honestly didn't think it was possible. I thought I was reaching and that I would fall on my face like I always do. But I'm extremely happy and grateful that isn't the case. Plus I have plans to attend AVN in Vegas which is something I even said wasn't going to be possible.
I remember on my first night dancing I barely had to hustle, now it may have been because I was a new dancer... but I also remember being really excited and positive. I always had a smile and made sure I looked approachable. I didn't know about the law of attraction at that time but I honestly think that's what it was... you don't necessarily have to have mantras or constantly think about the money but I think making sure you're putting out positive vibrations is the key to getting what you want. I haven't been doing that recently and I noticed that I'm not making as much... so i'm definitely going to start taking this law of attraction thing more seriously.
i've started tipping really well wherever i go, like 40%, sometimes even more. my goal now is to always give a tip that they will be happily surprised with. since i have started this my earnings have shot up.
I love your Affirmations! I wrote them in my journal and am going to use them too. After work, I will say the same ones in the form of gratitude. I am so grateful for all the men who came to ask me for dances tonight. Really feel that feeling of gratitude for every customer. I love it. Thank you.
Spent a very good chunk of time on this thread tonight because I am getting back into the adult industry after a year off.
You are all so awesome & appreciated. I know we're going to have a $plendid week =D
A fellow cam friend shared this magical LOA practice called scripting with me a few months ago. It's basically a journal entry that is pretty specific in regard to what you want to manifest. As with all LOA practices each entry is infused with feeling.
I just read through my gratitude journal which has some scripted entries and realized I manifested two very special and specific things: a healthy, loving relationship and two back to back high earning income weeks. It's wild: the exact details of the scripts came true. And in each of these entries I talked in detail about how I was feeling as a result. It cannot just be mere coincidence. I have been faithfully repeating positive affirmations, meditating on abundance, and keeping my vibration as high as possible. It's just wild that those things have manifested themselves in the exact ways I wanted them to.
I want to thank you for this thread, your testimonies, and youtube vids. It has all been very helpful as I'm using my time off cam currently due to an injury to inundate myself with as much positive information as possible. Again...thanks.
Namaste <3
Came here to bump this thread and I saw you already did that , Sha! Awesome, as it's a great wealth of info and wisdom here!
I also wanted to tell what has happened to me today.
I went to take out my SM money as I always do on Saturdays, and while at the cash machine, I was thinking "oh, I should be recording this sound and listen to it in my Abundance attracting practice, along with the binaural beats". I meant the sound that the ATM makes when counting the money, before opening the little cover and allowing you to get them. It was not the first time that I thought I should record that, but I always leave my phone in the car, or there are people around and ...well. You know.
So this time, I was listening to that sound saying my Thanks... but then the sound went on again...and on again...and 2 more times, and I was like... "OMG, the ATM is probably out of money, but they probably recorded my transaction... I need to call the bank...damn, its Saturday and no one is here"...and so on, while the sound kept repeating itself. After like 3 or 4 times it stopped and gave me the money. And then it hit me...I wanted to hear the sound more... so the Universe gave it to me! The universe sure has a sense of humor, a bit dark, because I got scared... but I took that as a sign that there really IS abundance that's only one thought away for me (and all of us), there really IS a connection with the unseen, there really IS a Law of Attraction working for us every second.
I took that as a sign to concentrate even more on keeping my vibe high and using the Law to attract abundance into my life. I felt so grateful!
So, keep the vibe high, people, the Universe responds to our thoughts, and we can see that, if we are present enough to not allow the fear blur our senses! Or allow the Ego to say that "it's just a coincidence, dude".
I had an OMG moment today guys!
First let me say I LOVE this thread, it's so uplifting! I truly believe that this stuff works.
Personally, I do struggle with the idea of just 'asking' for things and we get them. I believe that it only works ( or perhaps, works best) when we do what we need, directly or indirectly, to make it happen. I think that the two principles work together though, the more we do to make our desires happen, the more likely they WILL happen. But, the more we BELIEVE they will, the more likely they are to happen too. Genuinely believing things will work out makes us ACT differently, bringing more of those good things because not only did we believe it would happen, that BELIEF caused us to behave in a way that made it happen.
I guess what I'm saying is that to a certain degree we are masters of our own destiny. We get what we give, and if what we give is positive, then good things will come back to us. And sometimes we need to believe in something intangible to spur us into making the changes we need to be successful.
But whatever it is, it works!
So my OMG moment...
I read an early post on this thread that explained about asking for something, throwing it out there and imagining it floating into the universe, then to imagine it coming back and being grateful. So I asked today for £200. I also read the post as it was written, saying i didn't know how I'd get it, but I believed I would. I make clips so it wouldn't be impossible to earn it that way but it's a lot for me.
I just opened a letter telling me that my mortgage company miscalculated my payment recently and because of their error they were adding - wait for it - £222 to my account! By adding, I mean taking off, reducing what I owe. A genuine payment from them due to their error.
£222! I mean, WTF?
Going back to what I said about our own actions playing a part in the LOA, then clearly indirectly mine did. It would not have happened if I had not overpaid and allowed someone at the bank's end to make a slight error. In a roundabout way, I created the situation.
BUT! How I wish I had now asked for more than £200! :D
Can't wait for tomorrow...
I was buzzing yesterday...literally. I was so high it took 2 hrs to chill the fuck out LOL. Yesterday rocked my socks.
Before my cam shift, I visualized how I wanted the shift to go. I saw myself doing long shows with customers. I also visualized making $218 which is $18 higher than my high goal for the day. I also studied a list of positive characteristics I had created that I want my customers to possess. At the beginning of the shift, I pulled up and typed out a doc with things such as: "I love how easily I make money", "I love how men give me GOLD tips to see me smile", or "men are very attracted to me".
I referred back to the doc many times which kept a smile on my face and I'm happy to say my vibe stayed up the whole 8 hr shift.
Interestingly enough I exceeded that intention and made $297!!! What?!?! I've only ever made that much on a Sunday NEVER during the week. AND all the shows I did were with customers who possess the positive characteristics I had written down.
DUDE, LEGIT LOA works!!!
By keeping a positive frame of mind I was able to attract so much good energy to myself. Men were throwing GOLD at me left and right.
All I have to say is: I'M SO VERY GRATEFUL! Thank you ladies. And thank you Universe.
For me the last week has been slow as fuck camming wise, probably the slowest week of the whole year, but somehow I managed to buy everything I needed (school supplies and new clothes for my kid, healthy food, pay rent AND some nice clothes and shoes for me and hubby) because we found some incredible sales, and some money we had forgotten about in a drawer.
Hubs and I are very much into the LOA now, so we both tried our best to keep the vibration high and to stay positive (despite the environment that we are finding ourselves into, and some health issues), and now I realized that if I get pissed off because I am not making money on cam, I block my own avenues through which abundance could come into my life, because camming is only one way, bu the Universe knows infinite ways! For a thick skulled Aries like me, it was like this for a long time: "If I am not making money, I suck, FML, I'll be broke" Now I started to get wise and understand that there are soo many ways that I may not even know of in which things can get arranged for you, in order for your life to be abundant, even if at the first glance the money you are actually making isn't that good.
I just wanted to add that here because it's not as obvious as when we visualize big amounts and we actually attract them, at times it does not work like that, especially for people like me for whom visualizing something is a struggle (but then when it comes to bad things, my brain is a damn movie director).
Keeping the vibration high (do more of what you love, keep a positive approach, focus only on that which you want, ignore what you do not want, accept what you cannot change and move on, etc.) is key to good things coming your way, not necessarily in the form of actual dollars, but either as discounts, gifts, freebies and so on.
Hope this made sense, I am struggling a bit when it comes to putting my thoughts into words.
^^Doll, right back at cha! You have helped me calm my system down when I've gotten frustrated and reminded me of the Law which is so very helpful.
Sister...sending you good vibes xoxo
Something I'm trying out because last time I did it a few years back it worked wonders for me. I see a few of us use positive affirmations along with the LOA and I can agree with the fact that they have worked for me before, very well in fact.
I guess in line with my 'logical' mind I need some kind of proof, and I have that. A few years ago I was in a sales job and one particular month I had an INSANE, near on impossible target. To fail, or come close but not quite reach it would have been very costly in commissions so I had no choice but to try for it. But personally I didn't believe I could do it and i needed something to make myself believe it, and also hopefully to act in the way I needed to achieve the target. I used positive affirmations by reading them once each night and once in the morning. Something changed in me, I knew what needed to be done, and tasks I usually avoided I did, perhaps not happily but I worked through them. Anyway in the end I exceeded the target and beat all my colleagues too. I felt like crap at the end but so proud!
So the reason I believe affirmations work is the constant repetition of the belief you CAN achieve something, in the same way that we often have limiting beliefs because of being told things before that we can't. Logically to me I understand it. If you get told something negative over and over, you believe it. So this is the same action in reverse and it cancels out the negative into positive.
Sorry I do 'talk' a lot!
I actually wanted to share what I'm starting to do and that's write my affirmations and record them, listening to them on repeat. Hopefully they'll start to go in faster and i can also meditate and relax while I listen which I couldn't do if I was reading them.
I need to believe in myself a lot more and I'm hoping that doing these and using them with some LOA will help. I know I can achieve more but I need some help and you ladies are hugely inspiring to me!
Starting today I'm going to watch The Secret every night before bed. I purchased it for this purpose. I've already been falling asleep to positive affirmations of self confidence, health, wealth, & abundance to reprogram my subconscious.
I have scripted a new income goal along with a set of characteristics I desire from ideal clients which I plan to read daily & feel gratitude for when I review it.
This is my 30 day plan. I'll report back in 30 days.