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Have any of you read Lynn Grabhorns first book (Someone else suggested on here). For me the Abraham books didn't feel quite right but Lynn's was great- my next step is to combine the chapters on emotional set points etc with the info in her book.
Are you still here PortiaMelb? I'm Melbourne too.
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@FlickDreams - How is Melbourne? I'd love to see Australia and New Zealand.
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Hey Flickdreams,
Yep, I'm at Goldies. It's been pretty slow here lately, even on weekends. Looking forward to everyone getting their tax returns and the weather warming up again. Bring on Spring Racing!
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I'm starting to use this at work and honestly it works. I have been in a better mood and been getting more than just one dance at a time from custies. Waiting for The Secret to come in so I have something else to keep on my mind while I make my hour drive to work. ;D Great thread OP!! Thank you!!
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Wow this sounds amazing. And although I have never used the LOA before, Ive noticed whenever I am in a good mood I make money but when I come to work in a shitty mood thinking "omg it's gonna suck today" ... It really does - SUCK ... I guess it's all about having a positive attitude & I the customers can probably sense what kind of mood your in because let's face it, nobody wants to be around somebody with a nasty ass attitude & when I'm not making money, sadly, that's the kind of attitude I have & it shows big time. I sometimes try to cover it up but it's hard because I be soooo frustrated about not even making enough for my house fee & barely making enough for my rent, But I am sooooo willing to try the LOA at work this weekend & not just at work but in my daily life also in areas where I think I can see improvement. Thanks for this thread & the tips ladies (-:
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So I always read this thread and apply to it whatever Im doing in life and have done it unaware in my past. Its scary you can speak anything into existence... I used to alway tell everyone I was going to have twins jokingly years before I even thought of having children and almost passed when I went for my exam 3 years ago and the doctor told me there were two babies in my tummy lol. Also someone mentioned vision boards and they are awesome tools, the only thing with those is you have to specify exactly what you want, my first vision board i just randomly put some pics on there and it all came into existence but not the way I envisioned because I didnt state exactly what I want. I remember I put I want a guy tall dark and handsome whos hardworking to come into my life, and he did two weeks later BUT he wasnt anything else but those things and in the end wasnt good for me.
So heres my issue, I cam and dance, and Ive always been successful with camming, whatever amount I put in my head I make very easily. However, with dancing i was having some trouble, so for the last month, Ive really been focusing and applying this stuff and have been making exactly what ive asked for and sometimes more! I had one bad night because I was feeling horrible but decided to go to work anyways. I didnt set an amount in my head like i usually do and came home with 50 dollars. LOA definitely works! The issue Im having though is that whenever I visualize making larger amounts like making a thousand I dont make it, even though Ive made these amounts years ago in the past when i first started dancing, what am I doing wrong? I cant seem to make over 400 and would really like to hav a night where I make a thousand, and no matter how bad I focus on it I still go home with 400 even if its packed. Any advice?
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I honestly can't thank the OP enough for posting this. My boyfriend has been raving to me about this stuff for ages and I honestly thought it sounded like bullshit but after watching a few of those videos and applying it at work I am already seeing results!
I don't dance anymore, and at the moment I am working in a cafe job that I really dislike. The other day I was applying this at work and telling myself all the good things that were going to happen that day, writing down some affirmations etc. In one day these are all the good things that happened:
-Got a discount off my cab driver for no reason at all. Most of the time when I get cabs they try to overcharge me or hit on me, so this was awesome!
-The newsagency I regularly go to for smokes gave me a free bag of skittles (and I LOVE skittles, they are my only food weakness) because there was a tiny tear in the plastic and he couldn't sell them.
-Every customer I had at work that day was lovely, I believe because I was in such a good mood and sending out such positive vibes.
-Two customers approached my manager to say kind words about my service.
Only little things I know, but in one day I managed to send out positive energy and have positive energy come straight back to me! Such an amazing feeling. Since then, a regular customer at work has approached me about a job opportunity, which could potentially replace my current weekly income with 8 hours of work a week!
After feeling down for a really long time, this has made me pick myself up and got me back on track. Thankyou so much! I hope other girls will continue to share their stories of how this way of thinking is helping them.
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I love this thread. How do you guys deal with negative thoughts? I always expect the worst and have trained myself to be this way so I don't get disappointed. What are some ways I could change this thought process?
Thanks in advance! :)
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I love LOA but there are definite moments in my life that I forget about it and my life starts to get crappy. Like a month ago kinda hit rock bottom. and even tho things are alot better really wish I would have been applying it at that time. But this last week after a ton of meditation with LOA my life is really getting back on track.
Friday I did my camming with the idea of it as being fun and intending on becoming a top girl on sm. One of my first gold shows (which i changed my perspective on gs to loving them instead of hating them) a guy who has never been in my room tipped me $50 tip to start my show that never happens for me usually my gold shows don't take off.
I know it was all because of positive attitude and I also feel like I can make more then I used to expect with camming.
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this definitely works. before applying this i was cranky and pissy at work and averaging like 300 to 400 for an 8 hour shift. now i'm averaging 700 to 1000. SO HAPPY!! THANK YOU!!! xoxo
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I'm so happy to hear all the updates, ladies!
Exoticbeauty4U: Your challenge sounds a lot like mine. If you are aiming for 400 and hitting it, but really want to get to 1000, you may be trying to make too big of a leap all at once, which can trigger our skepticism to work against us with thoughts of "yeah, right- that'll never happen." Perhaps increase your goals in smaller increments, like up to 600-700 first. Also, sometimes when I start the night with a specific number in my head, I get scared that I won't reach it and those negative thoughts push it away. I seem to do my best just focusing on the feeling of relief, appreciation and excitement I will have once the LOA brings me exactly what I want for the night.
GracieBlue: To begin changing those negative "expecting the worst" thoughts, what if you eased into daydreams of, "wouldn't it be nice if..." scenarios? Really give yourself some time to indulge in vivid fantasies of the things you desire, and notice how it feels. Stay with the feelings for as long as possible- don't let that negative "nuh-uh!" voice in because after all, it's just a fantasy... but those feelings are what brings the reality to you. Then just notice more and more, the little positive, happy, "lucky" moments in your everyday life, like in Katalinda's post.
Just my thoughts! All the best to you ALL!!! xoxo
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Thank you do much Rhaixa! This helps a lot!
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I'm curious, how many pages is the secret? And why did you read it so many times? Alsowhat do you do differently or how has it affected you?
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just wanted to add that id tried this and if has finally begun working for me! great motivational post!!!
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Love 'law of attraction!' I used to go to jerry and esther hicks' Abraham seminars when they first started touring back in the late 90's- there were only a handful of us,so it was very personal and you could ask lots of questions. it was so awesome, and i still have lots of their tapes, videos, books, and always listen to them when i need a boost! It really works! keep up the good work! Congrats on finding their teaching, and continue success to you!! Muah!:hug:
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The law of attraction is very, very real...
When i worked at diamond dolls, i used to do spell work each night before i went into the club. i asked Venus to make me beautiful and desired, and i carried a certain kind of stone with me in my dancer bag that i carry around my wrist. I also burned ''money'' incense made by a wiccan witch. im not wiccan but im not partial as long as i know what was crafted was crafted with care.
So that week, i went into work and as soon as i hit the dance floor, a chick runs up to me and has me sit at the bar with her and this other guy. she was one of the dancers there. So he tells us to get on stage and pretend to dance for each other while he gave us a really nice dollar bill shower.
then he took me into the vip room and spent 300$ on me!
After his last dance he looked at me and said to my face: "You're my lucky charm!"
This really happened! and so i had to thank Venus for showing her grace to me... hehe... I love using magic and spellwork.. and the law of attraction is no different. it will put you in the frame of mind to be open to the possibilities that life has out there for you. so give it a try and believe in yourself.!!
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I just started reading The Secret tonight before work. I put on some meditative music someone reccommended somewhere on this forum to help clear my mind of distracting thoughts. I repeated a phrase from the book 'life is so easy. life is so good. all good things come to me." and i listened/sang to that annoying 'i am a magnet to money' song on youtube... one with awesome picutres of wads of cash. i could feel it in my hand. i could feel my mood improve.
i didnt have a crazy night but a good improvement on my last few awful weekends. i was asked for several times. if i got annoyed because i wasted time with someone or they give lame excuses i took a minute in the DR to refresh makeup and think happy thoughts... good mood again.
but the crazy thing was i decided to start today to stop being negative, and 3 friends from old clubs turned up here! I'm excited to keep working on LOA, i'm sure it is very powerful.
edit: thinking abotu it i've actually been using LOA all my life to some extent... when i was a kid i noticed that things always seemed to work out for me, and a few years ago when i had a situation i felt inside that it would work out well, because it always had. Because i believed it would and didnt stress or dwell too seriously on the idea of things going wrong. Wow!
edit after wokr: didn't make time to do the prep before work tonight, and it showed as i didn't feel like getting started and only had a few dances past 4am. but i kept thiknking 'well i guess my £xxx is coming from someone later'. i got my vip at the end of the night and exceeded my target (total should have been 5 under my target, but club forgot to take extra vip charges off so i exceeded target!).
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wonderful post !
I will apply these methods and report back.
I think some girls at the club I work already using these method (or they are naturals).
One dancer always has line of guys waiting for dances and VIP.
I asked her how she does it - she didn't have much to say - other than she gets lucky.
I did notice she just immerses herself into the custie she's with. Totally.
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I'm getting through The Secret. I practised being grateful last night for the money I make, and asked the 'universe' for a specific amount, then acted like I already had it. Made it to the £. (well as close as with our commission rates, £3 over target!). Again I was asked for by a few good customers, SOMETHING AWESOME IS GOING ON :D
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I read on a travel magazine a neat saving tip for expensive trips by saving any $5 bills you receive. I figure I'd try it and now at least half of my nightly income consists of $5 bills. Very neat, very little effort on my part and very easy to manifest.
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I just finished "The Secret" as well and it's already worked wonders and I haven't even started camming yet! Firstly, I had a very bad stomach bug/flu type thing on Saturday. After 4 days of lying in bed barely eating, crapping every 30 min, full body pain, vomiting and complete mucus storms, and slurping down soup and juice from my hubby, it dawned on me that I should watch 'the secret', speak into the universe of my healing, and anything else I wanted. (which was faster shipping, a way to print my cam agreements, and getting the ball rolling before Xmas) I kid you not, the very next day ALL of my symptoms completely vanished! I literally got up and cleaned my house. Also, my package from IL already on the back of the delivery truck which was shipped yesterday, my printer sat covered in dust for 3 months only to find out my hubs launched a pencil inside of it, and my documents are all ready to be downloaded to the cam sites.
To the doubters. I'm also married to someone who will give a little and expect a lot, and who also will take things he gives back in a heartbeat. My decision was to marry him, I'm working on eventually freeing myself. But, this is the same guy who spends money on lotto tickets, and is asking, asking, asking and is 90% of the time NEVER happy with what he has. This same person has an extremely important job, virtually no bills, money for food, rent, car payment, insurance, the list goes on. He's always complaining and though he's watched 'the secret' he pretty much breaks one of the biggest rules on the movie (if not all). "Don't contradict yourself". You can't speak winning 300 million dollars in a lottery and then complaining about how poor you are, or what you don't have. THIS fact alone is why he is NEVER happy as well as his stinginess, and unwillingness to forgive. I'm not trying to diss my husband, but he's someone I thought I knew and on his bad days continues to turn me off with chronic complaining/unhappiness. His energy is literally destroying him and causing him to have bad luck. Notice I said "him" and not myself. I hate bad mouthing him, but I'm also an honest person. I love him, but I know his attitude is going to be the end of us. I know I'll look back in a few years and realize he hasn't changed but I'll be a much better spot in life. Sometimes we fall for the okie doke. Now, I'm speaking into the Universe that I find my camera today lol. I bet I find it! This really works!
I've never really "kept" my own money, but I've always been a money magnet since I was a kid. My mom would call me her good luck charm, or a blessing because I'd walk down the street anywhere with her and would always find money. I remember us running late, and her being broke at one time and as we were hopping on a bus for school- I found $20 on the ground. I've been in SB/SD relationships through the NET alone and have sponged thousands off of men without even meeting them or lifting a finger. I started two businesses, one two years ago, another a few months ago and though they are part time gigs, I still make money off of them. I took ideas, paid for the licenses or sites, marketed, and created my own mini empire/fate. I seize the opportunities that come my way if I'm passionate about them. My point is, if it's money that you want, you can get it. Use your tools, use your thoughts. I may just be coming back to camming after a 3 year hiatus but I guarantee in a few short weeks/months I'm going to be banking again. This time I plan on being a lot more responsible lol.
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This weekend I found £20 on the ground on sat night, then £10 on the street sunday afternoon. I put it down to feeling good about money lately, thinking wealth, and being generous. This week I lent to a friend for her first night out in ages and gave to a guy sleeping rough (didn't actually come across the guy but i'd decided to that night and felt as though the money was already gone).
It's not a lot but I have NEVER found a note before, only the odd £1 coin or pennies. So finding 2 notes within 24 hours was spooky to me!
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i haven't been here in a while but law of attraction is working stronger than ever. for 3 days of using of the law attraction after not being at work in almost a month, after being almost broke, i made 2600 easily! everything just seemed to be really easy. guys were asking me for dances one after another. rejection dont seem to be a big deal and assholes didn't bother me. i felt invincible, powerful and rich!
the most important when it comes to law of attraction is your feelings!!! i tend to focus all of my energies using the appreciation technique. for half an hour before going to work, all my focus are into appreciating wealth, money and abundance!!! also appreciating the customers that love spending hundreds and hundreds of dollars on me.
some affirmations i use include questions and statements using very intense of feelings of passion and appreciation:
why do i get so lucky?
why do i love money so much?
why does money love me so much?
i love how easily i make a thousand dollars or more each night.
i love feeling so good at all times.
i love customers who ask me for dances
etc... you just have to keep the emotions stronger and stronger. make sure theyre really intense and then let go... it works wonders and magic. it seems that everything always fall into place at work. and it seems that nothing will bother you as much!