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Re: Law of Attraction and Me being a Money Magnet
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kortneykay
To the doubters. I'm also married to someone who will give a little and expect a lot, and who also will take things he gives back in a heartbeat. My decision was to marry him, I'm working on eventually freeing myself. But, this is the same guy who spends money on lotto tickets, and is asking, asking, asking and is 90% of the time NEVER happy with what he has. This same person has an extremely important job, virtually no bills, money for food, rent, car payment, insurance, the list goes on. He's always complaining and though he's watched 'the secret' he pretty much breaks one of the biggest rules on the movie (if not all). "Don't contradict yourself". You can't speak winning 300 million dollars in a lottery and then complaining about how poor you are, or what you don't have. THIS fact alone is why he is NEVER happy as well as his stinginess, and unwillingness to forgive. I'm not trying to diss my husband, but he's someone I thought I knew and on his bad days continues to turn me off with chronic complaining/unhappiness. His energy is literally destroying him and causing him to have bad luck. Notice I said "him" and not myself. I hate bad mouthing him, but I'm also an honest person. I love him, but I know his attitude is going to be the end of us. I know I'll look back in a few years and realize he hasn't changed but I'll be a much better spot in life. Sometimes we fall for the okie doke. Now, I'm speaking into the Universe that I find my camera today lol. I bet I find it! This really works!
It took me a long time to learn this. After reading practically everything regarding LOA and watching many seminars, even studying texts I know what you say *out loud* is a HUGE part of manifesting! It's not enough to just think about what you want, you have to believe it is possible for you, and is happening right now. You can never doubt it. It's not always easy work and certain topics will be harder than others depending on the person. If you can change your beliefs you can change your life - no matter what it is. I've just been 1 of those people who has a hard time changing them, as many techniques that I've tried. I'm always willing to try more - and nobody should give up on the LOA until they've manifested their dream life!! I'm 100% positive you can use LOA to turn your relationship around, if that's what you want.
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Re: Law of Attraction and Me being a Money Magnet
Ahhh ... Yeah, OK, I'm a wee bit intoxicated (oops broke a stripper rule!) BUT... The weirdest thing happened to me tonight!!
This was the first night I really tried to "practice" the law of attraction. I'm usually very positive, but I'm never thinking at work with a certain dollar amount in my mind. I *really* needed money tonight, though, and I kicked off the day shift with a good regular so after that I kept thinking -- OK, I'm going to stay, and I will make $1000 (which I've never done at this club!) then I'll go home.
Well, I left after making close to $1,000, kind of discouraged because it took a while (I basically worked a double!), and when I counted my money I noticed I was missing a hundred dollar bill. No where to be found! Fuck me, there goes the law of attraction, right?
...Then I realized, I forgot to get my money from our VIP hostess from the private rooms. Small consolation, it wouldn't make up for the $100 I lost...
EXCEPT they accidentally put me down for a WHOLE EXTRA HOUR in VIP that I didn't do!!! I told the VIP hostess (wtf I'm way too honest) and she goes... Oops... Well here's your money anyway. I walked out with over $1,000, for the first time at this club.
THIS SHIT IS AMAZING!!!!
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Re: Law of Attraction and Me being a Money Magnet
A "loa" example related to us...
"How to get a man to do whatever you want"
Buttafly Jones
http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=tmI7M...Dyoutube_gdata
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I have started reading this tread, especially the mantra before work it really gets me in a good mood for work & I actually really enjoy being there now. I have have a good night every night since I discovered this, thank you for sharing it money worshiper,
I am so thankful for the money I am making, and thankful I am blessed with the body, looks and confidence to do this job
Thank you xx
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misspthesweetesttaboo
Thank you for this! I am having lunch today with a potential SD... I've never done the whole SD/SB thing but this guy seems sweet, has visited me in the club a few times and I get really good vibes from him. So I'm giving it a try! This was perfect pre-lunch prep. You rock!!
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I have been reading this thread & consitently making over 1g a night. I used to go into work dreading it and wondering, "how am I ever gonna make enough for x or x," now I go into work excited and grateful. As a result, my thinking has gone from, "Ugh. This sucks," to, "I'm so happy! I am making so much money, men love me, and I love men!"
I believe that small change in thinking has changed my vibes and energy, significantly. I constantly attract guys & lately so many guys come up to my stage just because I'm the "funnest" girl there. I truly enjoy my job now and plan on making over 3grand in 3 days. Tonight my goal is 2grand. Hey, it's totally possible with how good of a mood I'm in today. :-)
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Good luck, be careful girl
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You guys are motivating me so much! At first I was scared about stripping, now I've changed my thought process and focused on the positive, I'm excited and happy even if I'll see/experience some undesirable things. I tried my clothes on and feel sexy and confident.. Tomorrow I'm auditioning and I really want to start working the same night.. we'll see! I plan to use my enthusiasm (enthusiasm is ALSO a GREAT way to attract money too! it's infectious and rubs off on people.. I've worked in sales) to do a great dance + I need the money! If I start working I'm going to apply this .. I need to make only about a grand by early March to pay for a trip.. that including about $250 in the next couple weeks to book my flight I'm sure it'll be doable! $250 is nothing for stripping.. excited! :)
Also.. I'm gonna be applying this to my love life as well.. I've been having the most horrendous thoughts and its ruining things.. gonna turn a new leaf and be appreciative and thankful and not scared, just like with stripping..
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Not much to say about this, other than ,IT FUCKING WORKS! :D :D
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Just got "think and grow rich" on my iphone for 99cents :)
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Reality Transurfing could be helpful to anyone interested. It's about balancing your thoughts = sending out positive waves = getting back good results (or something like that).
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idgaf_luvr
Reality Transurfing could be helpful to anyone interested. It's about balancing your thoughts = sending out positive waves = getting back good results (or something like that).
Sounds great, where do you get that from?
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whirlerz
Sounds great, where do you get that from?
You can google "reality transurfing pdf" or "16 laws of transurfing pdf" I don't remember the exact location I downloaded mine. It was some months ago, and I found it while I was deleting files on my computer. I feel it has been helpful for the last week that I've been reading up on it.
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Money_Worshipper thanks so much for this thread! I was really feeling burnt out last night and read this before work, took a break before getting ready to sit in my backyard and think about everything in my life I am lucky to have, and how happy I am right now
I normally stress about getting to work on time, even though I work at a big club with no set schedule. Last night I said "I don't have to rush or be stressed, because whenever I get there I will make money"
I kept thinkin the mantras "How am I so lucky to make money so easy" "I am so lucky that men ask me for dances" "I am so lucky to have so much fun at work"
I barely "hustled", I just focused on talking to guys that seemed smiling or fun, trying to do what felt easy. I immediately sold a string of dances, then had guys coming up to me asking for dances all night, then I scored a long VIP at the end. I made $500 with what felt like no effort! My last shift I made $100 and felt exhausted and frustrated after hustling hard all night. I am going to continue focusing on the vortex and feeling how easy and fun my job is now!
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Ive been doing soooooo good with this stuff saying my affirmations etc. I posted in here before about not being able to make a 1000 and up and well Ive gotten pretty close and definitely consistent with an increase in my earnings. But then Easter weekend, I had the worst day! I went home with 23 bucks and attracted assholes and just annoying fucks. Afterwards, I felt like shit and and just been in a funk, I was already burnt out (been working at SC 4 days a week and camming a few hours everyday)even though I been doing fairly well. But reading your post MissFox helped me realize I need get back in the vortex. Gonna take a week or two off from the club and just cam. This stuff definitely does work, just hard to be positive all the time:( How do you other ladies keep your spirits up all the time??
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Last night was AWESOME again! I went into work visualizing walking out with $500, stayed in a good mood, and made $650! I just tried to channel good feelings and joy and have fun all night. Guys were asking ME for dances, and I got tipped $20s on stage and extra for dances all night. I made over a G this weekend in two 5 hour shifts, and that hasn't happened in a LONG time... This thread has totally turned around my stripper burnout! I was going to work thinking about how hard I have to hustle and stress to walk out with $200, and that was what kept happening, but working the tips on this thread I'm making twice as much with no stress! It takes a lot of effort to stay in a good mental zone but I am exited to keep trying.
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MissFoxxx
Money_Worshipper thanks so much for this thread! I was really feeling burnt out last night and read this before work, took a break before getting ready to sit in my backyard and think about everything in my life I am lucky to have, and how happy I am right now
I normally stress about getting to work on time, even though I work at a big club with no set schedule. Last night I said "I don't have to rush or be stressed, because whenever I get there I will make money"
I kept thinkin the mantras "How am I so lucky to make money so easy" "I am so lucky that men ask me for dances" "I am so lucky to have so much fun at work"
I barely "hustled", I just focused on talking to guys that seemed smiling or fun, trying to do what felt easy. I immediately sold a string of dances, then had guys coming up to me asking for dances all night, then I scored a long VIP at the end. I made $500 with what felt like no effort! My last shift I made $100 and felt exhausted and frustrated after hustling hard all night. I am going to continue focusing on the vortex and feeling how easy and fun my job is now!
not sure if someone has mentioned this yet in this thread but i wonder if this explains "beginner's luck"... when you first get to this industry, you are so excited for work and so grateful for every tip and dance you get.... for me it lasted a couple months before i started getting negative and then see my earnings flatten and go down a little.
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miss1dancypants
not sure if someone has mentioned this yet in this thread but i wonder if this explains "beginner's luck"... when you first get to this industry, you are so excited for work and so grateful for every tip and dance you get.... for me it lasted a couple months before i started getting negative and then see my earnings flatten and go down a little.
I totally agree with you! I remember my first shift I worked at a club with no lap dances, I made $70 in stage tips, and was so pumped! Now if I make that I want to cry! I think the gratitude makes you feel better about work, and guys can pick up on it.
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miss1dancypants
not sure if someone has mentioned this yet in this thread but i wonder if this explains "beginner's luck"... when you first get to this industry, you are so excited for work and so grateful for every tip and dance you get.... for me it lasted a couple months before i started getting negative and then see my earnings flatten and go down a little.
This is so true! I appreciated money so much more when I first started than I do now. I dont even say thanks for $ they give me now, I just take and go.lol. Unless its alot of course.
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Hey! I really liked your post about the law of attraction. I have watched that documentary about the secret and found it very interesting as well. I thought it was pretty cool that you can focus on how much money you really want to make and it become reality.
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this thread inspired me in kind of a different way- I really want to be done with dancing, it doesn't feel right for me anymore, so I posted on here to get some advice about going back temporarily or not. Then I found this thread, and realized my attitude and mindset have been all wrong! I've been dreading going back to the club, worrying about whether or not I can find a job in my field, thinking negatively that no one would want to hire me...totally the opposite of how you're supposed to think to attract what you want!
I'm going to read the rest of the links/watch the videos you've posted in here, and I just wanted to say thank you and that what you've posted about how to align your thoughts and beliefs with LoA is helping me too. I especially like the part about how to speak affirmations even when you have a hard time believing them, i.e. "I don't know how this works but I AM attracting to me what I want". For me right now what i want is not a specific amount in the club, but the process is the same. :)
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Love this! Attitude is definitely important to any kind of success.
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Please post more positivity money worshiper!
Love your mantra
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I have been following The Art of Feminine Presence since August last year, it was developed by an American woman, Rachael Jayne (http://www.theyinproject.com/Yin/).
The program helps you create abundance and promises to (with your commitment and selfbelief) " * Develop a strong, magnetic presence that attracts the
attention you want: personally and professionally.
* More fully understand how connecting to your feminine energy
helps you attract and keep the intimate partnership you desire.
* How to be more authentic about what you are feeling and how
you want to communicate that. "
.....let alone the money I have been making every night I work (I have had one night since August last year in which I made under $700), the changes in my personal life have been staggering. PM if you want details (only SW members).
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This is an *excellent* thread.
I have not been on SW for a very long time. I started getting into LOA last year when a friend intro'd me to 'The Secret'. I really focused on it for the first few moths and I was bursting with positivity, seeing great things manifest in my life. I then stopped and it waned as did all the good I was accruing. I have been getting back into it again. The method works!
But thank you Money Worshipper for the thread, it is so so inspiring, and it is wonderful to read of women supporting each other in trying these life-changing techniques! I start tomorrow after a long hiatus from dancing and this is just what I need to read. Thanks again!