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lmao. i am not going to read all of that. can you summarize?
Yeah, you'd probably get more advice if you had a tldr version.
I'm sure you're not as horrible looking and ugly as you think you are. Besides, if you think you're not attractive now, I doubt you'll think your attractive after the surgery. Just get a couple problem areas fixed and see how you like it. I think if you get too much surgery, you'll end up hating yourself even more. Also, you say your looks are "mediocore." Are you saying you're average looking? What's wrong with that? Most people are average looking. Even the most beautiful girls are mediocore or average looking without any makeup on. I think if anything, you need counseling, not surgery.
Yes, strippers with braces make money.
you could get a chin implant Jenna Jameson did it,and probably way cheeper.
Yeah, go to a therapist before you go through with surgery.
20 to 50 thousand dollars? I know burn victims that have had cosmetic surgery that cost less than that. You are being really unreasonable. Stop making excuses that makeup and lighting made you prettier and a better stripper. Make up and lighting makes everyyybody prettier but that doesn't make everybody a top earner. You however were the cream of the crop at your club which means that men obviously like you. You're the one that doesn't like you, hence a therapist needs to be brought into this. You are your worst critic.
And if you think prettier girls are treasured and admired but not seen as a sex object then you really need to get out more. That doesn't even make sense. The men are admiring them for their looks, meaning they're sexually attracted to them, meaning they really want to fuck them.
If you haven't already watched this, you should. It's an episode of True Life called "I Hate my Face". Maybe you can learn from their mistakes.
http://www.mtv.com/videos/true-life-...32&channelId=1
I think if you are certain that it is specific facial features that are upsetting you and you want to get them fixed, then do so. But I would encourage getting counselling first.
Realize that getting surgery will not suddenly draw men to you who will want to treasure you and treat you well. Even really hot female celebrities get cheated on and abused. Being attractive may give you more options about men to date, but will not necessarily increase the quality of those relationships. I've also heard that sometimes extremely attractive women don't even get hit on as much as more average looking women due to men being intimidated. Not to mention other women can get very catty towards extremely attractive women as well.
Also, I've heard Vegas sucks in the summertime.
Aw, I know this must suck for you. I don't know if I have the best idea of what you look like, but I had an ex boyfriend who had an underbite that gave him kind of a John Kerry face, and he was very self-conscious about it. His underbite didn't extend past his front teeth, but lined up with them perfectly so it made his jaw look longer. He brought up the surgery a few times and obviously I didn't think he needed it as I dated him anyway. He's been some very beautiful women in his life (his girlfriend before me was absolutely perfect looking) so like you, people of the opposite sex find him attractive. It's not as big of a deal as you think.
Like everyone's said, get counseling first, and keep in mind that your debt will be just as bad as someone who paid for college with loans. People take out massive loans all the time so it might not seem like as big of a deal as it really is, but it can seriously fuck up your life if something happens where you can't pay them back. Keep in mind too that if you don't already own a home, you may want to one day. Effectively adding $20-50k onto your mortgage will not help.
Another thing to consider is whether you have body dysmorphic disorder. Researchers now think that it's actually caused by a visual perception disorder rather than general craziness. Basically, a person's brain can only focus on their "flaw," making it seem like the end of the world. If this is the case for you, keep in mind that nobody else sees it this way.
Good luck!
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I am up in Canada so I can't really recommend clubs down in the US, I've mostly heard Vegas is slow in the summer through this site. Maybe you should see what it is like just a couple cities away from where you live, so there is less chance of running into people and you don't have to take on the added expense of travelling?
Good luck!
can you post a picture so we can have some idea of what you look like. I honestly think that if you post one we will all be kind of like. what the fuck are you talking about.
Of course if you go to a surgeon they are going to try and find everything possible on you that they can "fix". They're getting paid for it. When a cosmetic surgeon sees an insecure person, they see dollar signs not actual flaws. And especially if your 'problem area' can be 'fixed' for $50,000. You are like the jackpot to a surgeon. They're allll going to be trying to get you as a patient.
I think you have some EMOTIONAL issues that you really need to address. Go get some professional help...NOT professional SURGICAL help. You need to go to a counselor. STAT!