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Be careful showing your face!!
So I never thought anything of it until today when I had a 15min pvt with this guy who wanted to do cam2cam. He kept calling me his neighbor, so I joked back with him thinking it was his thing 'the girl next door'. A litte later in the pvt he kept asking me if he could come over next door and have sex with me. I joked around saying camming was more fun, til he started spitting out dollar amounts on how much he'd pay. Once I said no to having sex in real life with him, he blackmailed me saying he recorded the pvt of us at first and if I didn't meet him for sex he would post it everywhere.
Obviously I told him what he was doing was blackmail, banned him, and reported him to LJ. His member name is speedray, incase anyone comes across him.
This is just a warning to others - definitely safer to hide your face!
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i always hide my face on every site. I'm on LJ and I don't trust any of them!!! The guys have audio,snapshot feature and too much control overall. I set my foot down. Some guys think I'm bitchy,but fuckem!
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so true! lesson learned i guess!
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let's face it.. if they wanted to see our faces they'd stay in FreeChat! LOL
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Originally Posted by
kissshining13
So I never thought anything of it until today when I had a 15min pvt with this guy who wanted to do cam2cam. He kept calling me his neighbor, so I joked back with him thinking it was his thing 'the girl next door'. A litte later in the pvt he kept asking me if he could come over next door and have sex with me. I joked around saying camming was more fun, til he started spitting out dollar amounts on how much he'd pay. Once I said no to having sex in real life with him, he blackmailed me saying he recorded the pvt of us at first and if I didn't meet him for sex he would post it everywhere.
Obviously I told him what he was doing was blackmail, banned him, and reported him to LJ. His member name is speedray, incase anyone comes across him.
This is just a warning to others - definitely safer to hide your face!
was he really your neighbor? i block my area so that anyone who lives close to me can't see me, for safety reasons mostly. it is extremely dangerous if he is. on the blackmail thing, i personally wouldn't feed into that. i would just act like i don't give a fuck. give the impression like you have nothing to lose and they most likely won't fuck with ya like that, well at least that is my experience so far.
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bubblegumbitch
was he really your neighbor? i block my area so that anyone who lives close to me can't see me, for safety reasons mostly. it is extremely dangerous if he is. on the blackmail thing, i personally wouldn't feed into that. i would just act like i don't give a fuck. give the impression like you have nothing to lose and they most likely won't fuck with ya like that, well at least that is my experience so far.
no he wasn't, thank god. Does anyone know if LJ has that feature for certain states?
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bubblegumbitch
was he really your neighbor? i block my area so that anyone who lives close to me can't see me, for safety reasons mostly. it is extremely dangerous if he is. on the blackmail thing, i personally wouldn't feed into that. i would just act like i don't give a fuck. give the impression like you have nothing to lose and they most likely won't fuck with ya like that, well at least that is my experience so far.
yeah i would say something like good more promotion for me, or your saving me some time i always post videos of me for more traffic. that should keep them from doing it.
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^^exactly hottie me too!
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kissshining13
no he wasn't, thank god. Does anyone know if LJ has that feature for certain states?
i originally signed up with them but never got to actually work on the site tho but you have to contact them personally and ask them what locations you want blocked. it sucks that they don't have a function to do it yourself but you gotta ask them unfortunately, but i know it can be done on that site.
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kissshining13
no he wasn't, thank god. Does anyone know if LJ has that feature for certain states?
Just countries I think,not states.
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That"MODEL"Chick
Just countries I think,not states.
you can do states and countries but you can't do zip code areas.
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i know it's pretty gay that they don't have the function on there to do it yourself, but if they can try get one over on ya by giving you more hassle. that site just isn't worth it with all the hoops that they make ya jump through.lol.
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I disguise myself now and I feel so much better about being online so I never worry about it any more. You'd be surprised at how much you can do with a good wig and different makeup.
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Don't trust the state block!!!! I had TX blocked on MFC but there are TX people in my room all the time. Including an ex..... ugh......
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whatever, he not gona do anything. what a joke. that low life.
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On SM you can block by town which is supposed to cover the zipcodes in that area, hard to say how reliable it is though.
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the website to apply t live jasmine isn't .com is it? is it .net? i am interested in applying
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kittykrane
On SM you can block by town which is supposed to cover the zipcodes in that area, hard to say how reliable it is though.
I bloacked my own area (and 4 others) and can't see myself when I look from other computers...
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I just wanted to pop in and say this: just because you block your area doesn't mean people from your area won't see you. LOTS of people use proxies when they're online, especially when they're surfing porn sites, and this tricks sites into believing the person is from another area. That's why it is much better to have multiple layers of "protection". Block areas, disguise/wig/make up, AND don't sign up with sites that sell/post your content elsewhere. Don't just do one because it ups your chances of getting found.
ETA: In addition, some IP addresses are not 100% accurate. There have been many times where my IP has shown that I'm in a city 100 miles away! Just keep that in mind.
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Amy Lee
the website to apply t live jasmine isn't .com is it? is it .net? i am interested in applying
livejasmin.com
on the site that i work on you can block countries, states and zip codes. but the thing that i don't like is that in a blocked area they can see your profile pic in with the rest of the models but they can't see a detailed version of my profile when they click on it...oh well i guess. every site is so different on what you can block and if you are able to block at all. i personally would never work for a site if i am not able to block at all, safety comes first you know, cant be having neighbors see me.lol.
also i totally agree with khakigirl, you should be doing multiple things to protect yourself. i don't bother to disguise myself cuz i would rather just be me, but that is why i don't work the bigger sites and i am always trying to cover my ass in all ways possible.
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if your really afraid of being found out and your not good at disguises honestly online adult entertainment isn't for you, noone can hide everything it will always be out there
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Lacy Luck
Don't trust the state block!!!! I had TX blocked on MFC but there are TX people in my room all the time. Including an ex..... ugh......
You have to be careful no matter what..nothing can be totally trusted. I found that out the hard way when I first started this (for the girls who were here, they know). I worked for a company, made good money and didn't get paid...so ALWAYS be careful.
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bubblegumbitch
livejasmin.com
on the site that i work on you can block countries, states and zip codes. but the thing that i don't like is that in a blocked area they can see your profile pic in with the rest of the models but they can't see a detailed version of my profile when they click on it...oh well i guess. every site is so different on what you can block and if you are able to block at all. i personally would never work for a site if i am not able to block at all, safety comes first you know, cant be having neighbors see me.lol.
also i totally agree with khakigirl, you should be doing multiple things to protect yourself. i don't bother to disguise myself cuz i would rather just be me, but that is why i don't work the bigger sites and i am always trying to cover my ass in all ways possible.
Thank you sweety for giving me the info...I think I will look into it.
Do they pay weekly?
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khakigirl
I just wanted to pop in and say this: just because you block your area doesn't mean people from your area won't see you. LOTS of people use proxies when they're online, especially when they're surfing porn sites, and this tricks sites into believing the person is from another area. That's why it is much better to have multiple layers of "protection". Block areas, disguise/wig/make up, AND don't sign up with sites that sell/post your content elsewhere. Don't just do one because it ups your chances of getting found.
ETA: In addition, some IP addresses are not 100% accurate. There have been many times where my IP has shown that I'm in a city 100 miles away! Just keep that in mind.
It's kind of hard to find sites that do not sell or post your content elsewhere...I know SM does for sure. I tried to start a thread about it, so that we can be informed, but no one wanted to talk about it. Do you have any sites that do not sell and post your content all over? I know nothing is 100%. I keep that in mind at all times....
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Amy Lee
Thank you sweety for giving me the info...I think I will look into it.
Do they pay weekly?
every two weeks but when you first start it will take them a full month to pay you, cuz i guess they hold it back in the beginning. i have never got to wrk on that site but alot of girls i talked to said it was like a month before they got paid. just try it out and see how it wrks for you. your welcome:)