Holy SHIT. I can't believe this is happening to me..
OMG OMG OMG!! This f***king guy is nuts! I just want to share this.
I realized all my ads on CL for sugardaddy we're being flagged not even 3 minutes after they were posted. So I'm like who could really be doing this. I tried all times a day and they were still being flagged.
Ok So I answered an ad from a guy looking for sugarbabe and I get a text from my ex saying everything I said in the email i sent the guy. I just start laughing because I didn't know how to react. He then tells me the truth about how he flagged all of my post on CL. He's hacked into my email and has been reading all of my emails and everything I sent.
Now he won't stop texting me. Saying I'm lost and I'll do anything for money. He's crazyy and I honestly wish I never told him I was 'camming'. I told him I only dance on cam PERIOD. Now he's saying I know u do it all on cam. You're worth more than that.
I thought I could trust him but apparently not.
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Yikes... Get a new email address and change your phone number...
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Hacking an e-mail = FELONY.
Text message harassment - misdemeanor.
Tell him that you are keeping the records of everything that he is saying. GIVE HIM ONE WARNING - tell him to leave you alone - be firm about it. Don't flip out back. Tell him if he does NOT comply you will be calling the police to file a report and have him arrested.
Some people do not understand the seriousness of e-mail hacking. Tips - change your number, e-mail address, and when you set up your questions to recover your password for your email...put something in YOU will know - like when they ask you where were you born - I put tomato or something off the subject. I keep a whole list of files with dummy e-mail accounts and even my real ones with these answers.
I had the same problem back when - got my ex thrown in jail for that nonsense. Stupid men - tell him to mind his business and to leave you alone. Don't play into his game no matter what he says. Don't respond and completely ignore him - if he continues - call the cops.
KEEP A RECORD of every text and EVERYTHING HE DOES.
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what????????????????????????????????
how did he get ur number??
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The more you entertain him, the more power you give him. Good lord. What the heck!
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WTF?! Take Kitana's advice and I'd add a restraining order in case he got tired of being blocked from calling/emailing you and decided to come and "talk" to you.
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Caramel69
He's crazyy and I honestly wish I never told him I was 'camming'.
Actually, it's probably better that you told him because now you know what a whack job he really is... imagine if you hadn't told him & then married him! Ugh...
What he did is against the law though. Be sure to notify your e-mail provider & contact his internet service provider about it. I'd also file a police report.
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We used to date and I left him because of his behavior and trust issues. Now he's doing all of this crazy shit. What really got me was flagging my CL post that he got from hacking into my email. I just opened a new email address. I'm saving all of the text and I'm changing my number. I can't believe he has gotten like this... :(
Thanks so much ladiesss <3
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WTF?! Take Kitana's advice and I'd add a restraining order in case he got tired of being blocked from calling/emailing you and decided to come and "talk" to you.
Actually, you need to check the local laws on that - some states have protection from abuse orders while other states have full blown restraining orders.
Like I said, ignore him, act like you don't care and let him see how much money you make. :)
I had the same issue with the guy that left me from camming. He called me everything under the sun - and 3 months later - he was lurking in my MFC room. I knew it was him only he didn't know I KNEW. So - I rubbed in it in his face a bit and made sure he knew what he lost. A job is a job - then a month later he bought all my content on MGF before I left there. ROFL!!! Loser.
Then he wanted to call me and what not - then he couldn't because I had changed my number and email RIGHT after we broke up because I KNEW he would pull something like that. He has no idea where I live, how to get a hold of me and has left me countless messages on MFC begging to talk to him.
Well buddy - maybe if you didn't call me a whore so many times and let me do me and be that independent girl you USED TO be proud of - you wouldn't have the problem of MR. LONELY! LMAO.
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Ugh, I can't stand nutjob guys. He needs to go get himself a fleshlight and leave you the fuck alone.
Guys get sooo immature when they've been kicked to the curb and realize they've lost a really good thing.
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and if you need me to - I can freak him out and make him think someone is following him....:) payback is a bitch...
Come on - just because I know ONE side of the law well doesn't mean I don't know how to be a kick ass criminal that doesn't get caught? LOL.
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It's hard to get a restraining order though. My friend filled out the paperwork in front of me and you have to disclose if you have kids with the person, how much they know about your whereabouts/activities, sexual history, physical abuse history, etc. Sometimes they will not grant it just based on digital or telephone harassment cuz they tell you to change your phone number before proceeding. It's happened to me.
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and if you need me to - I can freak him out and make him think someone is following him....:) payback is a bitch...
Come on - just because I know ONE side of the law well doesn't mean I don't know how to be a kick ass criminal that doesn't get caught? LOL.
Aww thanks so much kitana !! LOL! Thank God I haven't heard from he's probably tried to get in contact with me but i changed all my information. I threatened to call the cops the last time I spoke to him. Hopefully that scared him off because if he tries to show up at my place there will be problems.
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LOL well that is kinda what is ENTAILED when you are going after a restraining order. It's not an embarassing thing. It's the point to get them to leave you be.
Good girl. :)
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No one said it was embarrassing, it's just not simple to get. They ask you to change your contact information and if the person persists to come back and try for one. It's a legal process. They don't just hand them out like candy for everyone who makes accusations against a person.
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No one said it was embarrassing, it's just not simple to get. They ask you to change your contact information and if the person persists to come back and try for one. It's a legal process. They don't just hand them out like candy for everyone who makes accusations against a person.
I disagree. They are simple to get if you know what you are doing. It is as simple as doing your research, reading a book and using every resource available to you. Sometimes, I see many women that are kickass but the moment a men is involved they are this timid creature. Maybe THAT has something to do with it - regardless - it doesn't change what resources are available to a female that needs one.