my bad, not diamondjames but some other diamond.....still...good grief.
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my bad, not diamondjames but some other diamond.....still...good grief.
That's because most people aren't clinically depressed. They are stressed because of whatever is going on in their life, or anxious.
Unfortunately doctors are so quick to hand out anti-depressants even though the side effects are things you already have problems with. All anti-depressants can increase anxiety. So why prescribe them for people with anxiety disorders?
They also say they aren't addictive, which is bullshit. If you go off any SSRI or SNRI you will experience 'discontinuation syndrome' aka withdrawal.
I can just see the pharmaceutical companies PR department deciding on that term when they found people were struggling to stop taking anti-depressants.
Then there's also the possibility that many of the people on anti-depressants actually have Bipolar I or II. And guess what, SSRIs and SNRIs induce mania.
So don't go on the anti-depressants Erika! I prescribe doing lots of small penis humiliation sessions for a week.
That always cheers me up;p
You all are my friends too...only ppl that understand why we do this, how some of us actually enjoy this as a job,,,,
And I HATE anti-depressants too... I suffer from anxiety but I refuse to take that shit..gives me cotton mouth.. Believe it or not, ever since I started working and doing this, it's been the best therapy for me.
Ha..Bella, you know it! Yelling at some worthless tic tac dicks always makes me feel better, powerful..ya know?
If you're the minority then I'm in the minority with you:P I wish they would just get rid of it. Its definately lowered their standards and I think some girls arent reaching goals now because they do so much to "entice" the members that the guys just sit and jerk it during their countdown and dont even need to go in the show to bust a nut. Even back when I first joined SM last september I never had an empty room..well maybe for one or two minutes and that was rare. Now I can go 10 minutes with no one. Its hard to hustle when I"m sitting there by myself :O
God, Please make MFC do something like party chat so we dont have to do free shows for every asshole whos picking his nose while watching us touch our vajaja;s....
God, please I beg you!
Amen.
:worship:
I hate those guys...they come in doing that shit then run back to the girls room bragging about what he did. I've seen it happen a few times and the woman had no idea what the guy was doing...he just did it because he thought that would make him cool or something lol like now she'd fall in love with him I guess::)
I think like most that party Chat is great income but with girls doing $1 shows I feel that is the problem because when it first started most of the girls prices properly but now... Please. I mean do your thing but that does make guys come to my room and ask for $1 show which will never happen, I even had a few regs say don't you ever charge that its a big mistake. The second issue is starting the chat when all you've made was $50 of the $300 goal. I tell them I will only go short on my goal if I'm $20 away and even that is rare because I will cancel and go private.
Yeah, it's good to cancel on them every now and then. I do that when they start asking for a PC, I start it, and no one is pitching in. I warn them that they asked for it, so why aren't they pledging? If that doesn't work, I cancel.
My goal is just an ideal goal, usually even if I'm within 50 of it, I'll start it, because I'm bound to get pretty close after it starts.
I'm sorry that happened to you, kittykrane. I've had a guy do something similar, but it was on MFC. His name is toddwealthme, and I even put him on blast in my MFC TurnOffs section. ;D
One day in public chat he came in my room claiming that today was his birthday, and he asked me for a free flash or something like that. He left when I refused. Then a few minutes later he came back and said "Hey guys, Perverta is doing a free cum show in her room right now!" >:( I banned him instantly for that, and every time I catch that fucker coming back to my room I'm like "Oh, no ya don't!" and ban him immediately...haha.
Well I just sent them some feedback. Basically I said I like PC/GOLD shows, but I'd like to see a written notification when we receive regular gold because right now it's just a faint "ding" even with my sound all the way up, I can barely hear itl, and then I have to go look at my earnings to see what the amount is. So basically, if a guy tips to see something that I'm willing to flash, I may not even hear it and he'll get pissed.
I also suggested that there really should be a minimum per minute, like 1 gold per minute, no less & no "0" either . Seeing a free show shouldn't even be an option!
Party chat to me is a big failure. I've decided to stop using it and only do "classic" chat now.
When it first started it was fairly decent, but after only a few short weeks it has gone downhill so quickly, I personally hope they decide to not use it.
I see most girls are not even doing party chat anymore, and those that are have goals of $50-80, sometimes $100..but even they struggle to make their goal ($2 for a 6 min show is what i;m finding)
I made more last night in two hours doing the "classic" chat than i have any other day this week working 8 hours using party chat.
I will not be using it any more, and now it's time to play catch up.
It has def gone down a bit but i stay average the same amount working less hours, but switching between both is smart as well, i need to do it
Thankfully I'm seeing that most of the guys still appreciate and prefer private chats. Some enjoy PC as an inexpensive way to warm up before a full-on private. Others nut so fast, I don't think it be worth having them in private in the first place 'cos they wouldn't last but a minute or two anyhow). I don't see SM swinging completely in the MFC direction since it didn't start off giving it all away for free and it lets us set our own prices for privates. The guys are used to that and to the 1-on-1/small group attention that good models give them.
Use party chat sparingly or at the end of a regular shift, just to get you to your goal.
thanks for that! I had no [email protected] smallpenis humilation but I enjoy just humiliating them and now they can see what others write so when they talk shit....the game is on and that gets another meber horny and bing! Private!
I was wondering why I sleep more ;? its bc im not depressed im pissed! the dang pills make me sleepy. I started wondering after a week of being sleepy all the time ...How does someone get happy when they are sleeping? Im so much more happy camming instead of sleeping
I am getting so pissed off at sm, I have NEVER EVER EVER had my room empty and always average 50 guys.. UNTIL party chat came out. So I requested it.. qualified for everything except my rating which used to be 4.5 stars (after returning from a 4 month break I found out that SM RESET my rating back to 4 for no apparent reason!!) wtf. As if reseting my hard earned rating wasnt enough. SM used to be my main source of STEADY income. Now look at this bullshit.
I just saw a broad (new model) with her bare vagina out infront of the camera during her PC count down. I emailed support and asked them to please clarify why they pick these new models who have no respect for the rules (btw, this girl had no sound either) and decline girls who follow the rules and qualify for everything except a 4.5 star rating which YOU reset.
And you know what, after how far downhill this party chat is going, I prolly wouldnt even want to try it in the first place!
No, I prolly wont ever do party chat after seeing what a complete mess it made of the perfectly fine original streamate.
Does anyone else know of any better cam sites? I love streamate to death (or at least I used to) and dont want to be on any other crappy site. But this low traffic is effin killing me. Now my clients are all requesting partychat and nobody wants to spend real money anymore.
Something has to give. <end rant>
Ahhh.. that felt good to get off my chest. :P
BTW, hello everyone. I new here. My name is victoria. :)
kinda off but is 2.79 a good price for private and 4.00 for exclusive or should I raise it a little?
If your just starting off then i'd suggest 2.99 for premium and 3.99 for exclusive. Build up your fan base and slowly raise it by 10 cents every few days.
experiment with your prices and see which one works for you for the time being. it used to be that you could only change your price once every 24 hours, but NOW we have the luxury to change it up to 10x in 1 day!
You'll get the hang of it. :) Though, I doubt I should be giving streamate pricing advice anymore because this PartyChat bullshit effed up the whole value of private shows! >:(
sry, still mad.
What a joke today..... I hit goal on ONE show, thanks to kicking out one really bossy guy who came back feeling bad and pretty much did most of the pledging to make up for it. I made really good money during the 1st two hours off mostly privates and that one show. Cancelled FOUR other PC's with 30/40 guys in my room, same ones pitching in every time. Finally did it for them just because I was horny and wanted to get offline..LOL... Missed my 3 hours goal by 15 bucks..STill did well, but no thanks to crappy party chat which has become "show pink" beggars paradise.
yup.. so NOT excited.
Gawdamn damn 14,000 views wow