How to make pvt's longer?
Does anyone have tips or tricks on drawing out a pvt without making it obvious....
making them wait :)
Thanks
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How to make pvt's longer?
Does anyone have tips or tricks on drawing out a pvt without making it obvious....
making them wait :)
Thanks
if thats ur ass, u got a very nice a$$.........
use it to make them wait lol :)
this what i was thinking too..just did my first week and my longest prvt was 12min..blaaaahhh!
been having min men in my prvt..
^^^ that sounded wierd...u know when i mean!
(no gang bangs)
just move really, really slow.. and be repetitive but not too repetitive that it gets boring... remember men love having something they can't have so keep them guessing for a while.
to be honest. just have fun with the customers. i wouldn't suggest trying to draw it out. they get pissed when girls do that, it makes them feel used. if you are having fun with them and you make them feel good about spending money on you then they will want to stay longer. the key is making them feel good into spending money on you. the more you make them feel good, the more time they will spend with you. i have a good amount of regs that average around 20 mins with me in prvt. i have had a few hour long prvts and 1 2hr prvt so far. now i just need more traffic, cuz i am on a smaller site but thats besides the point lol.
also just wanted to add, that it doesn't happen overnite, just build a good rep with them and soon enough the prvts will get longer, if you are enjoying yourself.
This has helped me several times!! }:D
Thanks that helps, yah i know what u mean have had plenty of guys get pissy and say im wasting time when i really wasnt even trying lol
and i have never done that cause i know all they have to do is hit the exit button if they dont like what they see...
but just wonderin... :) thanks
oil! seriously. it doesn't always extend the private but it always makes them happy and sometimes it makes things last longer :) i use oil as part of my shows like 80% of the time now. i agree with bubblegumbitch, though - i'd rather go at the pace they want and have them be happy with it than get upset that i'm stalling, so i generally don't worry too much about this.
Tiny the oil doesn't get too sticky? I'd get VERY annoyed having to become presentable to free chat after every oily,messy show!!
i usually wipe off with baby wipes and a towel and it solves that problem - my skin is still more moisturized than it was before but it doesn't leave a sticky residue or cause problems. sometimes this means taking a couple mins break instead of going straight back to free chat, but i usually do that so i can wash my toys, get dressed, and pee anyways.
i was using almond oil before but recently switched to coconut oil (for lube and oil shows as well as a lot of other stuff around the house, it's super versatile, lol!) and i find coconut oil much easier to wipe off and much less messy.
yeah i think oil looks really nice and I can easily see how you could make a pvt much longer with it.. but i will only ever do if i know i'm about to quit for the night so i can take a shower or if its a regular I know and we will do a oil show/ shower show.
oh and baby oil stains :(
ugh, yeah, i used to use baby oil but i wouldn't do that now unless i was doing a big long oil show in a group or something (like on mfc), because i'd have to shower afterward. coconut oil is much much easier to manage and i haven't noticed any stains yet on the sheet i use for camming (sometimes it gets on my pillows but it washes out just fine).
Or maybe if you had a guy that bought a block session,oil could be perfect for that to. Also once you go back into free,the oil still on your body could be used to seduce the guys into taking you private...again. If they see you all oiled down you could say something like you didn't get to play as much as you wanted to in your last show and someone should take you private so you can finish what you were doing. Just a thought...
But, like what if you run out of things to do and they want the long type of pvt. I always draw out my pvts just enough so they don't exactly notice the change in pace.. but like what do you do if you have nothing else to do that they havent seen and they want to see more? Do you just repeat it again? :-\
every customer is so different in what they want. i get role playing guys alot, (those alone can draw shows out good and still make them happy) i get guys who want to see me orgasm over and over again (granted it's fake yes, but that's what we do, we act and make it somewhat believe able) i also get certain fetish guys to play with me in prvt. i just go with the flow, have fun and be sexy. it really all depends on what your niche is and go with it and get creative. google is my absolute dear friend when i need to learn more about those certain fetishes and roleplays. the more you get into it, the more you enjoy yourself while doing it, makes them feel good and keeps them wanting more.
I just talk talk talk if I run out of things to do. I start asking them sexual questions ("what's your sexual fantasy?", etc) and talk about sexual things I like. Usually that helps me get an idea of what direction to take the private in next. But repeating stuff is fine too! I think we notice the repetition a lot more since we're doing it over and over all day, but the guys really don't seem to notice.
On sites like Streamate and ImLive (where the guys get the first 20 or 30 secs. of pvt chat FREE), it's good to know how to make the session last. There are guys who will enter private expecting you to IMMEDIATELY show your tits, pussy, and ass so they can bounce before those free seconds are up.
Earlier today I started out a private session by grabbing my baby oil and rubbing it over my chest (with the bra still on though) and my stomach, etc.
Slow, seductive moments/gestures are good.
If you want to make your privates longer, I think you should also take it a step further and look at how you are marketing yourself. If you SOLELY portray yourself as a "nasty little cumslut" and you only use very sexual terms in your profile, etc. Then you are going to attract guys who are looking for a purely sexual, 5 minute-fix! Instead, you want to manifest other qualities too! Not only are you sexy, but a great listener, etc. In both camming AND PSO work, I always try to market myself to the men who are lonely and basically want an online girlfriend. That's where the hour-long privates and calls come into play - when they start to feel a CONNECTION with you not only on a physical level, but a mental and emotional level too. Taking this approach will also help you to get more regulars because now they don't just need a hot horny girl, they need YOU! Mental/emotional seduction, and setting yourself apart in this way goes a LONG way. There are plenty of girls with pretty faces and hot bodies out there, but there is ONE you. ;)
^^^^exactly, u got it right on the head girl! yea i notice alot of girls sounding too much like a sex robot. there are lots of guys that actually do read the profiles, and even guys that are there for pure sex, wanna feel like it is with a girlfriend and not some girl trying to be a pornstar, they want a connection. so tell them who you are!
Stone me if you will, but sometimes I am surprised at the amount of questions of how NOT to get naked before 30 seconds. I only show anything in the first minute if they display signs of impatience. If I know I'm dealing with a 3 min man, I'll give him his brief splash of nudity and send him off on his merry way. Otherwise? I say hi, welcome them, ask their names, what would they like to see and so on. I smile and move around while I do that, I don't sit there like a corpse while saying that. It's not that I do it to stall, I do it because I wanna make the guy feel welcome and knowing what he likes helps me focus on those things in the show, thus providing a better experience for him. We all get annoying short privates, but...hey, they pay for their minutes too. Try relaxing and being self confident. When I feel I'm on my game, it's much easier to dictate the pace.
This is very true! That's why I think that instead of focusing on actually "dragging it out"" once you get a private, more emphasis should instead go towards the marketing yourself to appeal to a higher quality clientele. Some guys will give you low ratings if they think you are trying to drag out the show and "stall". I've seen it happen to many girls, especially on streamate lol.