Originally Posted by
lula_xoxox
sorry if this has been asked a dozen times - i know everyone (myself included) has been a bit shook up by the loss of FirstChoicePay... i was wondering if any UK SM girls could tell me how they've decided to manage it? i've been checking out the relevant threads and i'm struggling to find any definitive information for UK girls. both paxum and cosmo seem pretty dodgy, and seem to cream a big fee off the wages... i haven't been paid in like a month and i'm super broke, but just so unsure what to do! i'm half tempted to just opt for getting cheques sent at this point, but i understand that they'd be sent in USD so i don't even know how easy that would be... i don't know how long they would even take to arrive... and also what happens if they're lost in the post?! my trust in the postal services is as low as my trust in these new payment options. also, what on earth is an EFT? i keep seeing it and i still don't know what it means and if it applies to me as an option. anyway, i hope these questions don't sound too stupid. i really hate change! this couldn't have come at a worse time, i'm skint af and just feel a bit lost, i don't trust any of these services but i really need to get paid!! :(