I was on this am early for a bit and it was awful. Minimum wage for two hours which is not normal for me. I got so frustrated tht I logged off. I am not suprised that it crashed all the way... O well. Tomorrow is another day :) Good luck BB's
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I was on this am early for a bit and it was awful. Minimum wage for two hours which is not normal for me. I got so frustrated tht I logged off. I am not suprised that it crashed all the way... O well. Tomorrow is another day :) Good luck BB's
I was on earlier today and did alright for me I guess, didn't make my goal but nothing strange happening on my end
Ashley, all I can say is, it's not you. I have the same problem as you with traffic and customers coming and going without saying anything. It is what it is when there are 700+ models online. SM doesn't strike me as a great starting site for newbies anymore. Flooded. If you miss out on new girl status, you're screwed. I'm generally on page 3-4 and it's pretty darn quiet in my room.
Streamate is so slow tonight and there is almost 2000 girls on too. I dont do great with gold shows but it beats no money so maybe it will be a gs night : /
Had my first disconnection tonight, thats why I never do GS, seen it happen to too many ladies.
Disconnections only seem to happen to me at my bfs house so I feel safe.
Girls, I finally made it to Streamate hahahaha =D I'm happy.
I still don't make great money there as my connection SUCKS but now I'm sure I'll be able to have it good and it will improve a lot. But meanwhile, I've got two problems I would like to share (and see if I can't get any solution):
- I still can't run gold shows... I know I need some reputation before that, but what do I need to do anyway? It's not clear anywhere, even Vanessa wasn't clear about that :(
- This other one is more delicate: I've got this guy in my room, he comes everytime I'm online. It was fun when I started as he would talk to me even if my room was empty. He even had a pvt with me in my third day. But the problem is, as he's good companion when I'm alone, he's trouble when someone else shows up in the room :( he keeps talking about sitcoms, for example, when I try to hustle when my room starts to fill up... and I don't know how to make it work. I don't want to hurt his feelings because he's a client after all. But I cannot see how to hustle properly with him there! What do I do? Help T.T I guess this problem might be common, so I'm sharing. I've got another friend like that at SM but he helped me out, talked some with me and even tipped me in the end "for my time". This one doesn't T.T it's hard to get pvts with him around, but he's ALWAYS around =P oh gooosh T.T
I have clingy guys but they help and hurt your show and I have one that joins gold shows but distracts me from working ALL night ugh. Its so hard to run with that but he talks to me too. I feel your pain. I only see him 2-3 times a month tho so cant say he affects my hustle too much and hoping for advise as well.
I don't have too much experience handling these kind of guys so I'll wait for the veteran cam girls to answer that part, but for me I would think about it as a business decision. Is the amount of money this customer is giving you more or less than the potential money that you could be making without him? Or losing because of him? Simple math.
I had a couple guys like that and I talked to them if the room wasn't busy, but if it got busy, I whispered to them, sorry but I need to answer some questions from some other guys in my room, and I'll reply to you when I can..and then basically just ignored them after that because they just wanted to talk and waste my time, not even take me private. I felt bad doing it cause they were nice guys, but I'm there to many money not entertain lonely guys for free.
Seller, he shows up EVERY SINGLE FUCKING NIGHT :( at least I've worked 4 nights already at SM and he shows up after like 10 minutes I'm online. It looks either he got an "Ashley Red" radar or he's online all the time at SM.
MissSassy, he's not worth the money at all, but he's a potential. Also, I don't want to hurt the guy's feelings as he helped me out at the beginning and didn't leave me with the crickets when the room was empty. But now I start to feel the room is empty because he's there picking on my hustle time :( I found a little way out which worked some, I start dancing, and dancing... but after 3 or 4 songs I get really tired and out of dancing moves ¬¬
Really girls, I even put down like 2 kilos after I've started camming, so much I've danced already HUAHAUHAUHAUA... and had really sore thighs in the first week =P
You might just want to be honest w/ him. "I love talking to you, so why don't you take me pvt so we can talk some more? If you're not up for a show today, I need to give my attention to the many other guys in my room." If he won't shut up at that point, you can try again but be more forceful about it. Or simply INGORE him. He'll eventually get the hint.
As much as we like to be nice, this is a job first & foremost. Anyone standing in the way of you making money is a foe not a friend. You set the tone for your room. Let it be known that you appreciate paying customers.
Jess, I guess I'll do that and talk to him. It's really hard being like that, I need the money!
And is it normal guys login on and off your room SOOOOO OFTEN (different guys)... I feel like they come into my room, don't like it and go away :(
exactly what jess said. I am the same way as you I think and I'm not really forceful or anything, but sometimes you have to be!
Put it in a way where you're 'really sorry but I really need to concentrate on the paying customers in my room tonight' every night. lol
if you let him continue what he's doing he'll just assume it's okay and he won't stop. being nice is not worth the $!
as for the guys coming and going, i figure they are just scrolling until they see something they like for free. don't take that personally lol
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ugh day 3 I'm on page 11 on the home page and on page 2 under new model.... :(
HAHAHAHAHAHAH you girls always makes me laugh so hard XD
Aren't descriptions like these and adding that her name starts with a G going against the no outing rule?
I wouldn't like if people laughed about me "spazzing out" and you probably wouldn't either. Lets be kind to our fellow cam girls.
Besides that is sort of her "thing" she's very dominant and has the no bull attitude. Spazzing sounds like you are talking bad about her.
Ohh..I know which model you are speaking of. I have to say, I can really appreciate how she handles her room. She takes no bs from beggars. The way she tells them off has to make them feel like big fat losers lol. Some asshole was trying to give her a hard way to go about doing camming. She turned her cam around and show her earnings for that day and it was nearly $900 (6hours in). He was like, oh wow,... talking about his new job will be paying like that, it shut him up lmao.So she's definitely doing something right.
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Well maybe I shouldn't of used spazzing I like her and was not talking shit about her I've even followed her on twitter and talked to her she is very nice as I've stated in my previous comment. She was very entertaining to watch I will remove my post I do not want anyone getting the wrong impression. I really don't want any drama from anyone on this thread.
@ Ashleyred; If you feel he is hurting your earnings then you must let him go as needed or permanently. I dont waste time on the certain all nighter I spoke of earlier and he gets it and leaves while I continue making money. He just wants a friend and all my attention. Its cool when its slow but not when the room fills. They will leave on their own and come back another day.